Is this the end for me?

[demoney 1]

Read all the comments... I will say all these things did not happen intentionally, I didn't know anything about the baby.. I"d appreciate someone to give me a candid advise.. Steps of what should be done so I can correct this issue.

I thank you all for your responses..

I really appreciate..

[dwheels76 5,468]

Read all the comments... I will say all these things did not happen intentionally, I didn't know anything about the baby.. I"d appreciate someone to give me a candid advise.. Steps of what should be done so I can correct this issue.

I thank you all for your responses..

I really appreciate..

There is no advise. Without cooperation from your wife there is no adjustment of status. Sorry but You are out of status currently. Nothing to do but maybe work on your marriage earnestly.

[Sandra G. 5,047]

You don't have a path to continue here,she is done with you ,then time to pack your things and go back home ,what I believe is not an issue right ?assuming.you came here because of her ,and once she doesn't want to be with you then it's over EVERYTHING.

Edited November 13, 2014 by sandranj

[Mike-eeh and Odie 193]

Here are your options:

1. Call the USCIS office immediately and see if they will reschedule the biometrics, provided they did not abandon your AOS application.

2. If the latter happened, see if you can patch things up with your wife and refile AOS.

3. If you cannot do the latter, you are out of luck and must return home.

[Transborderwife 4,666]

Read all the comments... I will say all these things did not happen intentionally, I didn't know anything about the baby.. I"d appreciate someone to give me a candid advise.. Steps of what should be done so I can correct this issue.

I thank you all for your responses..

I really appreciate..

No, but it did happen. You cannot correct the issue as without your wife there is no issue to correct. You should return home and get a DNA test.

[sus 70]

Here are your options:

1. Call the USCIS office immediately and see if they will reschedule the biometrics, provided they did not abandon your AOS application.

2. If the latter happened, see if you can patch things up with your wife and refile AOS.

3. If you cannot do the latter, you are out of luck and must return home.

This is the only accurate post in here - I am sorry for your situation, and for the unbelievable judgment that has gone on in his post - It's amazing what people infer - Did he say he was visiting the US to see his now wife and got someone else pregnant? Ummm.... no - He clearly had a visitor or a work visa and met his wife on one of the trips - and probably dated others prior to that - For all anyone reading this knows - the baby could have been born before he even met his wife - Or it could be a lie by someone who was jilted and is trying to hurt him - The man was upfront with his wife about the situation - he came here asking for help - so if you can't provide it, why bother judging?

Follow the steps above - If you can't reschedule, and manage to patch things up with your wife, you will have to start over with immigration - Hope it works for you

[olamidetokunbo 5]

This is the only accurate post in here - I am sorry for your situation, and for the unbelievable judgment that has gone on in his post - It's amazing what people infer - Did he say he was visiting the US to see his now wife and got someone else pregnant? Ummm.... no - He clearly had a visitor or a work visa and met his wife on one of the trips - and probably dated others prior to that - For all anyone reading this knows - the baby could have been born before he even met his wife - Or it could be a lie by someone who was jilted and is trying to hurt him - The man was upfront with his wife about the situation - he came here asking for help - so if you can't provide it, why bother judging?

Follow the steps above - If you can't reschedule, and manage to patch things up with your wife, you will have to start over with immigration - Hope it works for you

You are very sensible.

Thanks for helping a brother.

Here are your options:

1. Call the USCIS office immediately and see if they will reschedule the biometrics, provided they did not abandon your AOS application.

2. If the latter happened, see if you can patch things up with your wife and refile AOS.

3. If you cannot do the latter, you are out of luck and must return home.

God bless you and I pray he finds a way out.

[TBoneTX 45,284]

Several posts have been removed for contributing nothing to the thread. Because the OP has gotten all the advice that there is to give, the thread will be closed. It is not to be restarted, and its drama is not to be carried into any other thread.

To those who objected to posts in this thread: Hit the "report" button next time. It does no good to complain within a thread if the thread might not be seen. Thanks.

VJ Moderation

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OP, the only correction to information given is that, once your status ends, you must leave the U.S. -- it isn't necessary that you specifically return to your country of origin. Good luck to you.