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Yes i am scared of dying, I always think of it like this.... Even if when you die you are lucky enough to have your husband cuddling you close... i mean real close... you are still alone, they cant come with you where your going.. thats what scares me. We are really all always alone.

Also my husband dying before me so then i am all alone. God i am a morbid person.

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does anybody in here suffer from it?

I'm afraid of Dying Alone.. I would like my Love to be with me holding me as I pass..

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does anybody in here suffer from it?

I have never been afraid of dying myself- but I'm afraid of loosing my loved ones.

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2001 - met in Germany

April 2003 - fell in love

Aug 2004 - go to the US for internship

Feb 2005 - both return to Germany

Aug 2006 - getting married

DCF timeline:

09/01/2006 - filed the petition in Frankfurt

09/06/2006 - medical in Frankfurt

09/26/2006 - faxed checklist

10/05/2006 - received interview invite

11/01/2006 - INTERVIEW in Frankfurt - approved!

11/04/2006 - VISA IN HAND!!

12/21/2006 - POE San Francisco and ON TO SEA!

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no.....

Peace to All creatures great and small............................................

But when we turn to the Hebrew literature, we do not find such jokes about the donkey. Rather the animal is known for its strength and its loyalty to its master (Genesis 49:14; Numbers 22:30).

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No. Before my health condition was diagnosed I became progressively worse until I knew I was dying. What surprised me the most was the feeling of "Well, I had really hoped to have done more before my time came, but I guess that is not to be". I was surprised at how calm I felt. There was no fear; just a sense of inevitability. Don't ever believe that you are hiding their death from people who are dying by not telling them or discussing it with them. Trust me, they KNOW. Then, of course, I was properly diagnosed and received - and still receive- the necessary medication. It isn't death that bothers me - it is what I leave behind - the ones I love and who love me. That is what makes it hard.

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YES!!!

I find the idea of not existing quite terrifying if I dwell on it too much.

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Not the boundaries drawn on maps,

With the names of powerful men.

That's all I've wanted -

To walk in such a place with you,

On an earth without maps."

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Nope.

8-30-05 Met David at a restaurant in Germany

3-28-06 David 'officially' proposed

4-26-06 I-129F mailed

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10-16-06 Flt to US, POE Detroit

11-5-06 Married

7-2-07 Green card received

9-12-08 Filed for divorce

12-5-08 Court hearing - divorce final

A great marriage is not when the "perfect couple" comes together.

It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.

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I'm not afraid of being dead, I just don't want it to hurt. Unfortunately we don't get to choose the method to die.

I hear that drowning is supposed to be the most peaceful way to die but not for nuthin', how the heck would anyone know that since the only ones who would know are dead? :unsure:

No it's not..

There another way, and that's the way a lot of people kill themselves in Hong Kong..but I guess I shouldn't talk about it here

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I'm afraid of death..

I'm afraid that it'll hurt, leaving my loved ones behind, not knowing what the future of my kids and grandkids gonna be like...what will my husband do after I die..

I'm a Christian so I believe there's heaven and "hell"..

I'm afraid that I won't see my loved ones in the same place..

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I never feared death until I married. Then it became a real fear. I used to get upset at the fact that one of us was going to die leaving the other one, and how we would handle it. My wife at the time insisted that we would both die together in bed asleep at the same time. I actually used to lie awake some nights thinking about it and getting incredibly sad. I would wake up my wife and tell her I need a big hug and to hold on to her for a while. Now following divorce I have no fear again.

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I dont know if i fear death or not it never crossed my mind. If i die it will be at old age i hope to god.

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Service Center : California Service Center

CIS Office : San Francisco CA

Date Filed : 2008-06-11

NOA Date : 2008-06-18

Bio. Appt. : 2008-07-08

Citizenship Interview

USCIS San Francisco Field Office

Wednesday, September 10,2008

Time 2:35PM

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