WHY ASK US!!!

[matako 0]

The OP is just grouchy, it seems the boyfriend is not doing something to her....needy female.

[yogib37 3]

OK ALL, JUST MY THOUGHT HERE... I HAVE READ ALOT OF GOOD HELPFUL TOPICS HERE. BUT WHEN U GET SOMEONE WHO IS MARRIED OR GOING TO GET MARRIED AND THEY ASK US WHAT THERE FUTURE SPOUSE BELIEVES ARE OR WHAT HOLIDAYS THEY CELEBRATE.

COME ON YOU R MARRING THEM OR R MARRIED TO THEM... I THINK THAT YOU SOULD KNOW THAT ABOUT YOUR SPOUSE BEFORE U EVER GET THIS FAR... JUST MY THOUGHT. MY HUSBAND AND I SIT HERE AND READ THIS STUFF AND ITS LIKE. WHAT DID YOU GUYS ALL TALK ABOUT ON THE NET IF YOU DON'T HAVE A CLUE WHAT THEY CELEBRATE. I MEAN I WONDER IF THEY EVER TALKED ABOUT HAVE KIDS...

SO PLEASE FUTURE BRIDES AND GROOMS COMMUNICATE WITH ONE ANOTHER... THEN YOU WON'T HAVE TO ASK US THESE QUESTIONS THAT R MEANT ONLY FOR U 2.. GOD BLESS!!!

OTMAN & MICHELLE

please dont use all caps. that is consider screaming at the people.

Thanks

yogi

[Ladylethal 12]

Just one thing to the OP, we tend to use proper english in this forum and not "u" instead of "you". We use capital letters in the beggining of a sentence and punctuation as well.

Edited January 29, 2007 by Luis&Laura

[mybackpages 0]

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[mRx 16]

OP= Drama Queen

[Fandango 1,440]

[Hilarious Clinton 452]

OK ALL, JUST MY THOUGHT HERE... I HAVE READ ALOT OF GOOD HELPFUL TOPICS HERE. BUT WHEN U GET SOMEONE WHO IS MARRIED OR GOING TO GET MARRIED AND THEY ASK US WHAT THERE FUTURE SPOUSE BELIEVES ARE OR WHAT HOLIDAYS THEY CELEBRATE.

COME ON YOU R MARRING THEM OR R MARRIED TO THEM... I THINK THAT YOU SOULD KNOW THAT ABOUT YOUR SPOUSE BEFORE U EVER GET THIS FAR... JUST MY THOUGHT. MY HUSBAND AND I SIT HERE AND READ THIS STUFF AND ITS LIKE. WHAT DID YOU GUYS ALL TALK ABOUT ON THE NET IF YOU DON'T HAVE A CLUE WHAT THEY CELEBRATE. I MEAN I WONDER IF THEY EVER TALKED ABOUT HAVE KIDS...

SO PLEASE FUTURE BRIDES AND GROOMS COMMUNICATE WITH ONE ANOTHER... THEN YOU WON'T HAVE TO ASK US THESE QUESTIONS THAT R MEANT ONLY FOR U 2.. GOD BLESS!!!

OTMAN & MICHELLE

You know about each other but you don't know that typing in CAPS is yelling. Who doesn't have a clue now?

[Jenn! 918]

VJ disclaimer: MENA subscribes to the philosophy that our crazy relatives should NOT be locked u p in the attic, but brought to sit in the parlor to meet all our company. Sorry for any inconvience this has caused in the last few days.

I think we need to rethink this.

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[ceriserose 1]

VJ disclaimer: MENA subscribes to the philosophy that our crazy relatives should NOT be locked u p in the attic, but brought to sit in the parlor to meet all our company. Sorry for any inconvience this has caused in the last few days.

ahahahahaha

classic.

[Savanphil 3]

What a thread

[JenT 0]

OP = Troll

[Henia 11]

OK ALL, JUST MY THOUGHT HERE... I HAVE READ ALOT OF GOOD HELPFUL TOPICS HERE. BUT WHEN U GET SOMEONE WHO IS MARRIED OR GOING TO GET MARRIED AND THEY ASK US WHAT THERE FUTURE SPOUSE BELIEVES ARE OR WHAT HOLIDAYS THEY CELEBRATE.

COME ON YOU R MARRING THEM OR R MARRIED TO THEM... I THINK THAT YOU SOULD KNOW THAT ABOUT YOUR SPOUSE BEFORE U EVER GET THIS FAR... JUST MY THOUGHT. MY HUSBAND AND I SIT HERE AND READ THIS STUFF AND ITS LIKE. WHAT DID YOU GUYS ALL TALK ABOUT ON THE NET IF YOU DON'T HAVE A CLUE WHAT THEY CELEBRATE. I MEAN I WONDER IF THEY EVER TALKED ABOUT HAVE KIDS...

SO PLEASE FUTURE BRIDES AND GROOMS COMMUNICATE WITH ONE ANOTHER... THEN YOU WON'T HAVE TO ASK US THESE QUESTIONS THAT R MEANT ONLY FOR U 2.. GOD BLESS!!!

OTMAN & MICHELLE

I agree with you. I see people in real and read their posts here on VJ also; I wonder what they're life will be like in 5 or 10 years...after the honeymoon is over and they have had kids?! But still is not our place to judge. Only give support where we can... people pick and choice their own lives.

But I agree also on the communication bit...very important for a successful marriage, esp if it is long distance.

Why the caps?

Mybackpages: Funny disclaimer

Edited January 29, 2007 by Henia

[Henia 11]

First of all I'm a wee bit baffled as to why you made this thread in addition to pm'ing me. I posted that question not to ask if my husband is doing something wrong/right and not because it wasn't discussed beforehand. It was but it slipped my mind....how he celebrates Valentines day wasn't exactly a dealbreaker...sowwwy.

The purpose of the question was to see how other Muslims act on that day. It's a little hard when everyone around you is celebrating something and you are not. Kind of like a kid at a birthday party who isn't allowed to celebrate or eat the cake. I posted something similar around Christmas and got some wonderful feedback.

If you don't like a thread, here's a tip...don't open it up!

Huh? O I see now why this thread started....ooooooooo ok...Anyway Doodle I see nothing wrong with you asking about ValentineDay. I think alot people would have asked about that. But anyway... looks like some people just wana pick (as usual here on VJ)

Ok I am done with this thread. Too much drama forming .

Edited January 29, 2007 by Henia

[peezey 0]

SORRY oh i mean sorry is that better however thats not what i meant. for god sakes. all i said was why (y) not ask your husband thats all. people good night.... oh and assalaam not snotty ok but whatever enjoy your popcorn,

Since your husband is from Morocco and does not celebrate Valentine's Day I just assumed that he is Muslim and that you were familiar with the term "assalam alaykum". Assalam alaykum means "may peace be upon you". I'm not sure how that can come across as offensive at all but I apologize if it offended you in anyway. I won't respond to this anymore.

Not to mention it's not an islamic phrase, it's arabic, so if her husband is moroccan, he can school her on the fact that it's not rude, but in fact polite.

[J&D_anon 0]

SORRY oh i mean sorry is that better however thats not what i meant. for god sakes. all i said was why (y) not ask your husband thats all. people good night.... oh and assalaam not snotty ok but whatever enjoy your popcorn,

Since your husband is from Morocco and does not celebrate Valentine's Day I just assumed that he is Muslim and that you were familiar with the term "assalam alaykum". Assalam alaykum means "may peace be upon you". I'm not sure how that can come across as offensive at all but I apologize if it offended you in anyway. I won't respond to this anymore.

Not to mention it's not an islamic phrase, it's arabic, so if her husband is moroccan, he can school her on the fact that it's not rude, but in fact polite.

LOL Here we go with the communication huh......she doesn't even know what the arabic 'hello' means....hmmmmm....i think before she starts picking on others, she should start with herself and learn a bit more about the OTHER culture and not just making him celebrate V-day!!!

Enough said!