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i go take a walk..

me too..or if unable...think why my role in my anxiety is and use rational thought to figure out the next step..anxiety at times..is one's perception of the event or stimulus not the reality...

Yeah, yeah, yeah......I saw just engage in some angry sex. That will calm you down for sure.

12/5/05 Sent I129F Petition to Nebraska via Express Mail

12/6/05 Packaged received at 10:38 am in Nebraska

12/9/05 Check cashed (Never been so happy to have money leave my account)

12/12/05 Receive NOA1 snail mail - 30-60 day processing estimate

01/04/06 Receive NOA2 via e-mail

1/20/06 NVC letter in mail...will ship within a week.

2/1/06 Packet 3 and 4 in the mail

3/15/06 Interview - neither approved nor declined need to send in Migratory Movement Certificate AP

3/20/06 Migratory Movement Certificate for myself and fiancee sent to US Embassy in Lima

3/23/06 Visa Approved

5/19/06 I leave for Peru to pick up mi amor

5/25/06 Lucia and I arrive in Chicago

7/01/06 Legal Marriage

9/09/06 Religious Wedding

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I normally play Screaming For Vengeance by Judas Priest as loud as I can... :blush:

Paul and I met on the Bazaar on the 14th January (he joined my progressive rock forum that day)

July 3rd he flew to England to meet me

We fell in love while he drove all over the place coz I cannot read maps (we were supposed to go to Ingleton - but touched Darlington 4 times, Pierce Bridge 6 times, Scotch Corner twice and Bernard Castle twice and we never did make it to Ingleton)

It has been so long and so much has happened in between...

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No day is ever so bad that it can't be fixed with a nap

05/16/2005 I-129F Sent

05/28/2005 I-129F NOA1

06/21/2005 I-129F NOA2

07/18/2005 Consulate Received package from NVC

11/09/2005 Medical

11/16/2005 Interview APPROVED

12/05/2005 Visa received

12/07/2005 POE Minneapolis

12/17/2005 Wedding

12/20/2005 Applied for SSN

01/14/2005 SSN received in the mail

02/03/2006 AOS sent (Did not apply for EAD or AP)

02/09/2006 NOA

02/16/2006 Case status Online

05/01/2006 Biometrics Appt.

07/12/2006 AOS Interview APPROVED

07/24/2006 GC arrived

05/02/2007 Driver's License - Passed Road Test!

05/27/2008 Lifting of Conditions sent (TSC > VSC)

06/03/2008 Check Cleared

07/08/2008 INFOPASS (I-551 stamp)

07/08/2008 Driver's License renewed

04/20/2009 Lifting of Conditions approved

04/28/2009 Card received in the mail

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maybe i should learn some more hindi cuss words.

chaud.

get creative learn some french cuss words :lol:

Yup...I've learned a couple...its great, I can use them on my ex and he hasn't a clue!!!! I love it!!!!

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I throw darts at my Exhusband Picture. Works great ! :devil::thumbs:

Or if that fails, I go for a walk.

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April 28th INTERVIEW DATE !!!!!!!! APPROVED

June 30th Arrived in my Sweeties Arms !!

August 4th.2005 Our Wedding

Sept. 19th Sent AOS

Sept 28th recieved NOA for AOS

Nov.05/05 recieved Biometrics letter

Nov.17th Biometrics Appt.

Nov. 22nd. AP Approved

Nov. 25th/05 recieved EAD card

Nov.30th. recieved AP Papers in mail

Dec. 08th/05 Recieved Snail mail letter for AOS Interview Feb 15th 7:40 AM.

Feb. 15th. /06 AOS Interview SUCCESS !!!! no more to deal with for another 2 yrs!

Feb. 27th./06 Recieved Greencard in the mail

August 4th/06 Our First Wedding Anniversary !!

Feb. 8th 08 Sent in Packet to remove conditions

Feb 23rd 08 Recieve NOA letter stating they are extending my Greencard for another year.

March 11th 08 biometrics appt.

May 29th 08 recieved email stating Card production ordered

June 7th 2008 10 yr card recieved.

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I hit the shooting range to let off steam.

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Well, I would go to the pistol range, but there isn't one around here that I can use (BUMMER) - nothing more destressing than blasting away with a Magnum for a couple hours...seriously though, it helps you control your breathing.

Other than that I really like going to the gym and doing weight circuits...I actually have some triceps now - the last few months have been really stressful. I feel so chill after that.

A nice hot bath helps, and more recently i've taken to putting on The Sopranos...something about watching a bunch of crazy whacked out italians is rather soothing.

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o Find something productive to do that will have an immediate outcome: cleaning is a good one.

o Get myself out of the situation if I can.

o Surround yourself with nature. Take a walk in a park, visit a greenhouse/conservatory, or at the very least go see a nursery.

o Play music (soothing, angry, fast beat, instrumental).

o Look for the sound of falling/rushing water, like a shower, waterfall, rain. This is known to be a therapeutic effect. :)

o Make myself a very nice meal.

o Go shopping. But don't buy anything more than $5.

o Write. Write a letter, a poem, a diatribe.

o Read! Take refuge in someone else's world.

o Focus on what you can do productively and do that. Paying bills strangely works.

o Have a cup of tea.

o Phone a good friend. If you can, go out and do something.

o Look through a photo album. Good distraction.

o Take the dog for a walk. Feed the cat. Insert animal interaction here.

o Cry to get it out, then go do something else.

o Research! My #1 response to sheer anger is to research the problem to beat it. >_>

o Accept when there is nothing else you can do. It's hard, but sometimes admitting defeat is the most graceful response.

o Look for something positive you can do for someone else.

o Meditate.

Absolutely! Start the day over, wake up on the other side of the bed. ;)

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16 May 2005 - Assembled health package, W2s.
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11 July 2005 - RFE: cheques inappropriately placed.
18 July 2005 - NOA 1: I-485, I-131, I-765 received!
19 July 2005 - NOA 1: I-130 received!
24 August 2005 - Biometrics appointment (Naperville, IL).
25 August 2005 - AOS touched.
29 August 2005 - AP, EAD, I-485 touched.
15 September 2005 - AP and EAD approved!
03 February 2006 - SSN arrives (150 days later)
27 February 2006 - NOA 2: Interview for 27 April!!
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19 May 2006 - 2 year conditional green card.
01 May 2008 - 10 year green card arrives.
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I exercise really hard, sweat pouring and all....kickboxing usually really makes me feel alot better afterwards because I pretend I am kickboxing the person I am mad at....tehe

1/12/06 Mail I-129f express mail

1/13/06 TSC rec'd

1/23/06 NOA1 from CSC

1/27/06 - Check cleared

7/10/06 - NOA2

7/14/06- rec'd @ NVC

8/14/06- NVC sent petition to Consulate

8/17/06 - Korean Consulate rec'd Petition

8/23/06 - rec'd packet 3 from Consulate

8/25/06 - sent packet 3 back to Consulate

8/27/06 - got confirmation email from Consulate, they rec'd packet three

8/27/06 - requested interview date via Consulate internet site.

9/1/06 - Checked internet site for interveiw date, it was there

9/25/06 - Interview date - APPROVED

9/28/06 - Visa in Zaeems Hand - YEAHHHHH

1/6/07 - leaving for USA

1/20/07 - Wedding Date

1/20/07 - MARRIED!!!!!

2/10/07 - rec'd certified copy of marriage license

AOS

3/13/07 - AOS package rec'd at Chicago Lockbox

3/20/07 - Rec'd Social Security Card

3/21/07 - Checks Cashed and Case Status online

3/24/07 - NOA1 Rec'd for AOS and EAD

3/27/07 - rec'd Biometrics appt letter - scheduled for 4/20/07 @ 11:00am

4/02/07 - "touched"

4/20/07 - had biometrics appt.

4/21/07 - rec'd letter stating case was transferred to CSC

5/22/07 - rec'd Case Pending at CSC email

6/25/07 - EAD card production ordered

7/7/07 - EAD "touched"

7/7/07 - AOS "touched"

8-6-07 - Rec'd EAD Card in the Mail

5-20-08 - AOS INTERVIEW - APPROVED - PASSPORT STAMPED

7-2-10 - Received 10 year green card in mail

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Well, I would go to the pistol range, but there isn't one around here that I can use (BUMMER) - nothing more destressing than blasting away with a Magnum for a couple hours...seriously though, it helps you control your breathing.

Other than that I really like going to the gym and doing weight circuits...I actually have some triceps now - the last few months have been really stressful. I feel so chill after that.

A nice hot bath helps, and more recently i've taken to putting on The Sopranos...something about watching a bunch of crazy whacked out italians is rather soothing.

That always works!

If I'm not already in my car I get in my car, put on some really angry music, and scream my head off. Once I'm done screaming I usually sing REALLY loudly along with the music. It helps, but it makes my throat sore :( I usually beat up my steering wheel as well :P

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02/02/2015 - Filed Dallas lockbox. Atlanta office.

02/13/2015 - NOA received

03/10/2015 - Biometrics

03/12/2015 - In-Line for Interview

04/09/2015 - E-notification for Interview Letter

05/18/2015 - Interview - passed!

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i fix virgin strawberry diaquiaries... put on some music... push the furniture into the hallway... and SHAKE MY BOOTY!!! the music is loud... good for exercise... and the diaquiaries are just the sugar i need to get me boosted...

if that doesn't work... light some candles... take me a long, hot bubble bath... nibbling on chocolate... and coca cola... ain't nothing like the real thing ba-by!

hope ya feel better soon!

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Tho' lovers be lost, love shall not... and death shall have NO dominion!

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