The NVC October Moral Support/Ranting Thread

[Soloenta 2,218]

My heart goes out to everyone waiting on CC ....it is so much harder emotionally this time of year. Speaking for myself...I too am having a hard time being in limbo at NVC and feeling helpless. I was expecting to be done and back in the states before now....but the reality is that most likely we will be stuck here in the Netherlands for months yet.Every time I hear a child outside playing I have to choke back tears or I break down because I need and want so badly to be with my grandkids and my family for the holidays.I cant even begin to muster the emotional energy to decorate here for the holidays and that sucks. I don't want to have a pitty party but I am so tired of all this and of disappointing my US family especially the grandkids. My mother is really ill and wont be around much longer...and my expedite request was denied...there is no humanity in the Immigration system. To everyone waiting and feeling so hopeless...hugs of support. I wont tell you to keep the faith,cheer up and dont worry because your turn is soon to come. Those words sound so hollow to myself right now I am a glass half full type of person and I have great faith in God. I guess Gods timing isn't my timing and that I just have to wait for that door to open.

My heart goes out to you and all I can say is I feel your pain. There are miracles one just may be waiting for you and prayer does work, God does hear us, maybe if we all pray our prayers will reach heaven. You on my list and I will be praying for you and your dear mother. God bless you.

[Soloenta 2,218]

Well my AOS changed to "n/a" which is of course good news, but I'm having some very mixed emotions today. A tragic school shooting happened very near the hospital I work at as a Critical Care nurse. Please pray for the families of all of the victims, for the nurses and doctors, and for the community here. My heart is heavy even with this great news. I will of course update you guys after I call on Monday.

WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO CONGRATULATIONS SO VERY HAPPY FOR YOU.! I sit here crying happy tears, so thrilled for you my friend, now to get your interview and a smooth Visa and POE. Time to celebrate!

Edited October 25, 2014 by Soloenta

[Soloenta 2,218]

Hi everybody

First of all big Congratulations to those CC. What wonderful news.

I have some news to deliver to you all - not about me though!

Last night I received an email from our dear friend mobar65. He has very limited internet access and has asked me to post on VJ. He will give us all an indepth update as soon as he can.

He and his family had an easy POE on Wednesday in Colorado. Two of the children have already started in their new school and the other two start on Monday. Apparently they love their new school which is good to hear. I am sure that Mum and Dad are very busy just getting everything unpacked and settling into their home.

We have missed him this week but I think I can say on behalf of all his VJ friends we send only love and good wishes to the family and look forward to hearing more about the experience.

Soloenta - mobar65 cannot find your email address at present and wanted me to say hello to you.

Sounds like he is missing us all!!

Awww thank you sweet heart for giving us this gift so happy MoBar is safe with his family and his children are already adjusting and happy in their school. I for one have missed his wit and help on the thread with out doubt! Thank you again.

[Soloenta 2,218]

Firstly, this is excellent news. Congratulations!! :-)

The school shooting on the other hand sounds tragic and it breaks my heart to hear that this has happened again. Everybody will be in my thoughts. I suppose when horrible things like this happen it makes immigration matters seem so small. Distance is a small problem as long as those we love are happy and healthy. Tonight, I will stop feeling stressed and sad about visa issues and be thankful for my wonderfully healthy daughter and husband.

Ditto, but I'm still depressed for all those being tortured at immigration, it's another kind of pain but still pain. Sorry it has consumed me and left me numb to everything. My heart and prayers do go out to the victims and all those involved.

[BatmanFlow 481]

missing my wife

[Soloenta 2,218]

missing my wife

I know my friend, I'm missing my husband so much, more and more every second.

[alepenaflor 92]

I know my friend, I'm missing my husband so much, more and more every second.

Weekends and holidays are the worst! I closed my fb because I was tired of seeing other couples!! Am I getting crazy? I've been such in a bad mood lately, sad, the worst is yet to come I dont wanna spend Xmas without my hubby

[EOC 440]

Well my AOS changed to "n/a" which is of course good news, but I'm having some very mixed emotions today. A tragic school shooting happened very near the hospital I work at as a Critical Care nurse. Please pray for the families of all of the victims, for the nurses and doctors, and for the community here. My heart is heavy even with this great news. I will of course update you guys after I call on Monday.

Congratulations.

My heart goes out to all the families of the victims, nurses, doctors and the whole community. May the almighty God be with all.

[EOC 440]

Hi everybody

First of all big Congratulations to those CC. What wonderful news.

I have some news to deliver to you all - not about me though!

Last night I received an email from our dear friend mobar65. He has very limited internet access and has asked me to post on VJ. He will give us all an indepth update as soon as he can.

He and his family had an easy POE on Wednesday in Colorado. Two of the children have already started in their new school and the other two start on Monday. Apparently they love their new school which is good to hear. I am sure that Mum and Dad are very busy just getting everything unpacked and settling into their home.

We have missed him this week but I think I can say on behalf of all his VJ friends we send only love and good wishes to the family and look forward to hearing more about the experience.

Soloenta - mobar65 cannot find your email address at present and wanted me to say hello to you.

Sounds like he is missing us all!!

Thanks for telling us the good news. Am so happy the whole family are finally back home and adjusting well.

missing my wife

Hang in there, soon the whole immigration journey will soon be over and you will be your wife soon. I miss my hubby more every seconds.

[romii 150]

Well my AOS changed to "n/a" which is of course good news, but I'm having some very mixed emotions today. A tragic school shooting happened very near the hospital I work at as a Critical Care nurse. Please pray for the families of all of the victims, for the nurses and doctors, and for the community here. My heart is heavy even with this great news. I will of course update you guys after I call on Monday.

congratulations! And yes the incident was heartbreaking! May God protect us all and give the grieving families strength to overcome this great hurdle in life.

Hi everybody

First of all big Congratulations to those CC. What wonderful news.

I have some news to deliver to you all - not about me though!

Last night I received an email from our dear friend mobar65. He has very limited internet access and has asked me to post on VJ. He will give us all an indepth update as soon as he can.

He and his family had an easy POE on Wednesday in Colorado. Two of the children have already started in their new school and the other two start on Monday. Apparently they love their new school which is good to hear. I am sure that Mum and Dad are very busy just getting everything unpacked and settling into their home.

We have missed him this week but I think I can say on behalf of all his VJ friends we send only love and good wishes to the family and look forward to hearing more about the experience.

Soloenta - mobar65 cannot find your email address at present and wanted me to say hello to you.

Sounds like he is missing us all!!

Glad to hear he's doing well! Getting situated to a new place is no joke, sending him and his family lots of good wishes and prayers. Edited October 26, 2014 by romii

[romii 150]

missing my wife

Just hold on for a tad bit longer. Also, think of the great memories you've built so far and think ahead of creating some more in the future.

[romii 150]

Weekends and holidays are the worst! I closed my fb because I was tired of seeing other couples!! Am I getting crazy? I've been such in a bad mood lately, sad, the worst is yet to come I dont wanna spend Xmas without my hubby

I deactivated my Facebook for the same reason! I didn't wanna bad eye anyone or to envy them. You aren't getting crazy. It's very normal to feel this way. Well we can always pray for a miracle right? Here's to wishing that you get to spend xmas with him God willing!

[Khi 16]

I deactivated my Facebook for the same reason! I didn't wanna bad eye anyone or to envy them. You aren't getting crazy. It's very normal to feel this way. Well we can always pray for a miracle right? Here's to wishing that you get to spend xmas with him God willing!

Same situation here i also deactivated my fb cutt off myself from gatherings social media n every thing which relates to couple really its feel very sad n panic

Y other couple live together after marriages n v peoples spend our lives with long lasting wait (( its called destiny

[alepenaflor 92]

Thank you guys for the support! Glad a few of you are done with this, we all deserve to be out, praying it will happen sooner than later, specially for those waiting since 2013! God bless u all

[Soloenta 2,218]

Weekends and holidays are the worst! I closed my fb because I was tired of seeing other couples!! Am I getting crazy? I've been such in a bad mood lately, sad, the worst is yet to come I dont wanna spend Xmas without my hubby

No girl you did the right thing and you can't help how you feel. How can you tell your heart what to do or feel. Your not crazy at all, I wish I could do something.

Is it possible for your husband to come to you, I'm praying since it's from the USA to Mexico that it will be easy. God willing, he will surprise you.

I deactivated my Facebook for the same reason! I didn't wanna bad eye anyone or to envy them. You aren't getting crazy. It's very normal to feel this way. Well we can always pray for a miracle right? Here's to wishing that you get to spend xmas with him God willing!

Same reason I try not to go to the interview thread, sometime I just can't be happy for anyone as horrible as that may sound. Hey guess what we're human and the crazyness will end shortly after this does. Ok follow me............

Edited October 26, 2014 by Soloenta