The NVC October Moral Support/Ranting Thread

[TeaCup 65]

Don't beat yourself up about it. Many of us (including me) have made the same mistake. It is a tricky question that I feel needs to be reviewed in how it is worded. Even some people who have hired lawyers have gotten checklisted for the same thing.

Best thing is dust yourself off, send the correction and work on a hobby while you wait for a CC. I trained for and ran my first 5k after my checklist. Do something positive for yourself to pass the time and it will be over before you know it.

Our co-sponsor also made that mistake. It's very common unfortunately.

[THETIMEISNOW 37]

Thank you, helps a lot..

@ Congrats to THETIMEISNOW ! ... I hope to be there soon too!

Thank you! I believe that you will get there soon...sending a prayer up for you now...

[FeelinitNow 7]

Thank you! I believe that you will get there soon...sending a prayer up for you now...

No prob, really glad for you. Can only imagine that feeling. Almost there though..

And thank you! Much appreciated!

[Soloenta 2,218]

Thank you everyone!

I had called in the morning and was told the usual "60days #######" and checked it every half our throughout the day, when I did see the N/A I stopped breathing for a few seconds. I just couldn't believe it! Thought I was going crazy haha, I called and the rep IVY confirmed the CC for me! We booked my medical today and the earliest I could get was November 12th, So I hope my interview is shortly after.

@Solenta. I really hope you get your CC soon. I cannot believe yoy are still waiting. So ridiculous! Thinking of you all!!

I'm so very thrilled and happy for you and your loved one. I fills my heart with pure joy and hope.

Thank you so much, I"m sure it will be 60 days or more for us, I don't want to hope for something that will most likely feel like a very long time. I did send the translations off so I'm happy about that, they arrived at NVC today.

Wow... So today our case was checklisted...

On our I-864a it had down adjusted income instead of Total Income from line 22 from 1040 tax return.

I tell you what folks, one mistake can cost you time!! Lesson learned... Unfortunately on the visajourney guide it mentions the very thing I was checklisted for.

Remember the Line 22 from 1040, don't make the same mistake we did!!!!!!!!!!

So sorry about the checklist but don't feel bad it happens to everyone and I think that is one of the questions most people mess up. God willing they will speed up soon so we can get out of here.

Well it is official: I've got a Case Complete!!!

I must confess that I spoke with Mari this morning and I cried like a little you-know-what! Originally the crying was not due to a Case Complete,but that the Supervisory Review concluded that my Marriage Certificate was a photocopy. Mari also stated that there were multiple copies of each civil document. (I only sent one copy of each document, so you all know what that means ) That is when I lost it; I broke down! I was a hot,sobbing mess! lol! That is when Mari took look a my file, made some phone calls, and gave me a Case Complete! She did state that my husband would need to bring an original marriage certificate with him to the interview. I will not make a big deal out of it since I received a CASE COMPLETE!!!

So very happy for you but please call again tomorrow to confirm.

[AustinCanada 681]

I had called in the morning and was told the usual "60days #######" and checked it every half our throughout the day, when I did see the N/A I stopped breathing for a few seconds. I just couldn't believe it! Thought I was going crazy haha, I called and the rep IVY confirmed the CC for me! We booked my medical today and the earliest I could get was November 12th, So I hope my interview is shortly after.

Congrats! Medical exam?

You may want to read the Interview thread for more info about the medical exam.

There were very "interesting" postings about the medical exam in the last 2 days. http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/516586-november-2014-interviews/

Well it is official: I've got a Case Complete!!!

I must confess that I spoke with Mari this morning and I cried like a little you-know-what! Originally the crying was not due to a Case Complete,but that the Supervisory Review concluded that my Marriage Certificate was a photocopy. Mari also stated that there were multiple copies of each civil document. (I only sent one copy of each document, so you all know what that means ) That is when I lost it; I broke down! I was a hot,sobbing mess! lol! That is when Mari took look a my file, made some phone calls, and gave me a Case Complete! She did state that my husband would need to bring an original marriage certificate with him to the interview. I will not make a big deal out of it since I received a CASE COMPLETE!!!

Congrats! Like I said before, crying sure helps when it comes to talking with NVC folks.

Don't beat yourself up about it. Many of us (including me) have made the same mistake. It is a tricky question that I feel needs to be reviewed in how it is worded. Even some people who have hired lawyers have gotten checklisted for the same thing.

Best thing is dust yourself off, send the correction and work on a hobby while you wait for a CC. I trained for and ran my first 5k after my checklist. Do something positive for yourself to pass the time and it will be over before you know it.

I worked on a hobby of checking VJ while I was waiting for a CC!

I'll find a new hobby once I've moved to the US. My interview is in 20 days! Not nervous at all!

[samreen23 461]

I feel the same way Samreen, I want to be happy for them but just can't. I know it's horrible of me, I'm happy for those that are lucky like this but at the same time are respectful of hose like us who have been left to suffer this endless h e l l. All I and we can do is continue to pray. (L)

Awwwwwwwwwwww how sweet and amazing at the same time, how smart she is and what empathy. I think instead of a bad thing it can be taken in a positive way. She has learned lessons and learned to appreciate her parents while adults still have to learn the hard way. (L) This one is for your little one.

Yes soloenta. I have no patience left in me. Neither can I be happy for anyone now. I want my cc becasue I know I deserve it more than a lot here and so do u. My marriage is going down the drain really. And all because of this f**** up process. We have gone through this millions of times before that we r stuck waiting and people come and go by. I can't take it anymore.

[samreen23 461]

Going to sleep now. Praying that I wake up to magical n/a

[Ebu70 63]

Hi Soloenta, and samreen, sorry I have been missing in action had to deal with family issues. I can see no news yet, I pray a lot for you guys and those going through this horrible nonsense called nvc. I know something good has to come out of this eventually. please hang in there, believe you me, their are people pulling for you all. My heart goes out to you Soloenta and samreen. I will be going for my medical next week.

[Soloenta 2,218]

Yes soloenta. I have no patience left in me. Neither can I be happy for anyone now. I want my cc becasue I know I deserve it more than a lot here and so do u. My marriage is going down the drain really. And all because of this f**** up process. We have gone through this millions of times before that we r stuck waiting and people come and go by. I can't take it anymore.

I know sweet heart but you both have to be strong your very close now so please don't let this process destroy your marriage, love you girl and I'm praying for you.

Hi Soloenta, and samreen, sorry I have been missing in action had to deal with family issues. I can see no news yet, I pray a lot for you guys and those going through this horrible nonsense called nvc. I know something good has to come out of this eventually. please hang in there, believe you me, their are people pulling for you all. My heart goes out to you Soloenta and samreen. I will be going for my medical next week.

Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy so happy to see you, so sorry your having family issues and I hope they are over with now so you can concentrate on your up coming Medical then interview.

Thank you so much my dear for your lovely sentiments.

[Ebu70 63]

I know sweet heart but you both have to be strong your very close now so please don't let this process destroy your marriage, love you girl and I'm praying for you.

Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy so happy to see you, so sorry your having family issues and I hope they are over with now so you can concentrate on your up coming Medical then interview.

Thank you so much my dear for your lovely sentiments.

Oh you are so welcome my dear, wow I was reading other threads and I see there are still some people with April, may and June pds still stuck at nvc. I feel so sick of this #### nvc put you guys through. This process has turned me into bi-polar , I hope when I get to the states my mood will change back to the happy go lucky woman.

[hope88 104]

I just fount this on US embassy in Jordan. It's a new requirement. I do not wany to scare you but I want you to be prepared.

Check bellow

http://jordan.usembassy.gov/mobile/iv_documents_required.html

Stats on November 1, I called NVC last night about it. They said they heard nothing about it.

Wish me luck, I just bought my ticket next Saturday, I couldn't wait more. ?

Thanks for the heads up. I will start putting those documents in a file . Have a safe trip and good luck bring my husband with you lol

[hope88 104]

It's ironic that AOS never changed to "N/A" after spending so much time checking the CEAC site 100 times a day!

Now you can relax! You can stop watching your wedding video since you've watched it 100,000 times.

Hmmm not sure about that one cause who knows how long it will take them to schedule an interview )))

[hope88 104]

Going to sleep now. Praying that I wake up to magical n/a

If I'm the last May filer and my case got finally complete then Inshalla you are next . This can't last forever believe me

You will be with your hubby and have joyful days inshalla

[romii 150]

Well it is official: I've got a Case Complete!!!

I must confess that I spoke with Mari this morning and I cried like a little you-know-what! Originally the crying was not due to a Case Complete,but that the Supervisory Review concluded that my Marriage Certificate was a photocopy. Mari also stated that there were multiple copies of each civil document. (I only sent one copy of each document, so you all know what that means ) That is when I lost it; I broke down! I was a hot,sobbing mess! lol! That is when Mari took look a my file, made some phone calls, and gave me a Case Complete! She did state that my husband would need to bring an original marriage certificate with him to the interview. I will not make a big deal out of it since I received a CASE COMPLETE!!!

this is a first! Congratulations! I can't believe she did that!

Good thing you didn't get superior Octavio or Sylvia or even Betsy! Cuz they didn't give soloenta that option!

[romii 150]

I know you guys, samreen and soloenta, feel very frustrated and think the end is never near but trust me it'll change one day. We're all destined in life to be somewhere and we all get there with patience. Samreen you mentioned that your marriage is getting effected by this process then trust me when I say this, a case complete doesn't help actually. NVC might end the wait but then a new concern of getting through the interview and settling with a new life begins. These worries never end basically.

I seriously pray for everyone and wish no one has to go through this. Even when someone mentions something about getting married in another country, I'm always like don't do it. Or prepare yourself for the worst if you want to. This whole process is terrible and it not only breaks a relationship, it breaks down the individual completely too. May God help us all.