The NVC October Moral Support/Ranting Thread

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I am so sorry Solenta about all this situation, they do treat us like criminals, let me tell you what happened to me on Feb 25 2014 a date ill never forget. I was going there with my husband for our honeymoon, we had our ceremony here in Mexico on feb 22, I was coming back to Mexico after the honeymoon so anyways, they denied me thw entry to the U.S. because I was married to a usc and not only that they cancel my visa, for them to cancel my visa they detained me for 8 hours, like a criminal, pretty much on jail, I wasnt doi g anything illegal, ever since I had memory I own a tourist visa but thwy didnt care. It was such a nightmare the border officers offended me and my husband. I still dont know whyt they did that, while I was there in that little office, around 10 officers were "working" and they didnt really work at all, I was they only one that was out that day but they have around 56 kids from guatemala in a small space like animals, making fun of them an nobody was working on their cases to releaae them. The whole system is broken, they dont want to fix it, they dont want me or your husband to move there, but we wont give up. I am never gonna give up because of this and one day hopefully soon ill be able to spend my life with him.

I received an email a few days a go with the 2-4 weeks estimated, today I received the 60 days, I cried like a baby, my dream of spending Xmas witn my hubby for the first time ever is gone, I just wanna go downstairs make brownies, buy ice cream eat a whole bag of twix and watch sex and the city to forget about this but I am already chubby because of this situation.,

Praying for you solenta..

Dear Lord, I lift up wives who struggle with anxiety. You know the details of what triggers their fears and you know what they face on a daily basis. My prayer is that you would comfort these women and that your awesome peace would remove their fears and anxiety. I pray their husbands would wrap their loving arms around them and also comfort them. I pray these marriages are not hindered by the anxiety, but rather strengthened! I know the debilitating affect of anxiety and I know you dont want us living life controlled by it. I call out to you for help Lord. Please transform our hearts so that we do not live in fear or allow anxiety to consume us any more in Jesus name AMEN!

Am so sorry for all you went thru. I pray you get thru this process ASAP so you can be with your husband.

[Soloenta 2,218]

there is NOTHING to be ashamed about. If they would have told me what they told you, and did what they are doing to you, I would by crying NON_STOP. This is total BS. I am really sorry. Really sorry. I know it is so painful. I shudder at the thought of it.

I think you need some wine and a nice dessert, and then some sleep. Then wake up rested and with a calm mind write down what all options you can come up with.

I shall pray everyday for you to get your case complete and move on as i do for mine.

Hang in there. Please. It shall be all right.

Thank you so much Target, My father bless his heart found their marriage certificate so we are good to go there, if he hadn't found it God only knows. Thank you so much for your prayers you have been in mine and wont stop until you have your visa and pas POE. God bless you for your kindness.

I am so sorry Solenta about all this situation, they do treat us like criminals, let me tell you what happened to me on Feb 25 2014 a date ill never forget. I was going there with my husband for our honeymoon, we had our ceremony here in Mexico on feb 22, I was coming back to Mexico after the honeymoon so anyways, they denied me thw entry to the U.S. because I was married to a usc and not only that they cancel my visa, for them to cancel my visa they detained me for 8 hours, like a criminal, pretty much on jail, I wasnt doi g anything illegal, ever since I had memory I own a tourist visa but thwy didnt care. It was such a nightmare the border officers offended me and my husband. I still dont know whyt they did that, while I was there in that little office, around 10 officers were "working" and they didnt really work at all, I was they only one that was out that day but they have around 56 kids from guatemala in a small space like animals, making fun of them an nobody was working on their cases to releaae them. The whole system is broken, they dont want to fix it, they dont want me or your husband to move there, but we wont give up. I am never gonna give up because of this and one day hopefully soon ill be able to spend my life with him.

I received an email a few days a go with the 2-4 weeks estimated, today I received the 60 days, I cried like a baby, my dream of spending Xmas witn my hubby for the first time ever is gone, I just wanna go downstairs make brownies, buy ice cream eat a whole bag of twix and watch sex and the city to forget about this but I am already chubby because of this situation.,

Praying for you solenta..

Dear Lord, I lift up wives who struggle with anxiety. You know the details of what triggers their fears and you know what they face on a daily basis. My prayer is that you would comfort these women and that your awesome peace would remove their fears and anxiety. I pray their husbands would wrap their loving arms around them and also comfort them. I pray these marriages are not hindered by the anxiety, but rather strengthened! I know the debilitating affect of anxiety and I know you dont want us living life controlled by it. I call out to you for help Lord. Please transform our hearts so that we do not live in fear or allow anxiety to consume us any more in Jesus name AMEN!

Amen Alepenaflor God Bless you and your in my prayers also. I think the illusion of power gets to them so they act in the way they do. What cowards to treat you like that I'm so very sorry. I can't even imagine how you felt while all this was going on. I pray that one day this wont even be in your memory. We can't let these cowards win.

You made me laugh a little when you said you wanted to eat ice cream etc and that you were already chubby OMG same here I have to try to lose while going through all this and what is it with women that we have to eat to calm down? My husband loses wt when he's stressed I gain. Geeeeeeez what luck eh. I just lit candle for all of us an pray as you and to the blessed mother that our prayers be answered.

[Soloenta 2,218]

I truly believe GOD hates me!!!!!

we had received a checklist (due to my lawyer's mistake) and sent it back on Sept 7 via email (my lawyer did) (Electronic Processing).. I called up today a month later ( as i never received an email confirming they got it ). Talked with Gus. Apparently there is no record of that of that email in their system. So he wants us to send it back. Yippppppeeee!!! now instead of Sept 8 it is Oct 8 as our scan date…though it is not confirmed yet…as the email is still not reached there yet...

I am thoroughly disgusted and depressed.

No never, God doesn't hate you this is man made. You would think the lawyer would have called to make sure, but I always wonder how much is NVC's fault call me paranoid but I don't trust them at all.

I think we should all promise God something, I don't go to mass every Sunday but I will promise him to go every Sunday and I will pray for all of us there. Maybe it's time to ask for a miracle and make an effort?

[Soloenta 2,218]

there is NOTHING to be ashamed about. If they would have told me what they told you, and did what they are doing to you, I would by crying NON_STOP. This is total BS. I am really sorry. Really sorry. I know it is so painful. I shudder at the thought of it.

I think you need some wine and a nice dessert, and then some sleep. Then wake up rested and with a calm mind write down what all options you can come up with.

I shall pray everyday for you to get your case complete and move on as i do for mine.

Hang in there. Please. It shall be all right.

Thank you so much Target, My father bless his heart found their marriage certificate so we are good to go there, if he hadn't found it God only knows. Thank you so much for your prayers you have been in mine and wont stop until you have your visa and pas POE. God bless you for your kindness.

I am so sorry Solenta about all this situation, they do treat us like criminals, let me tell you what happened to me on Feb 25 2014 a date ill never forget. I was going there with my husband for our honeymoon, we had our ceremony here in Mexico on feb 22, I was coming back to Mexico after the honeymoon so anyways, they denied me thw entry to the U.S. because I was married to a usc and not only that they cancel my visa, for them to cancel my visa they detained me for 8 hours, like a criminal, pretty much on jail, I wasnt doi g anything illegal, ever since I had memory I own a tourist visa but thwy didnt care. It was such a nightmare the border officers offended me and my husband. I still dont know whyt they did that, while I was there in that little office, around 10 officers were "working" and they didnt really work at all, I was they only one that was out that day but they have around 56 kids from guatemala in a small space like animals, making fun of them an nobody was working on their cases to releaae them. The whole system is broken, they dont want to fix it, they dont want me or your husband to move there, but we wont give up. I am never gonna give up because of this and one day hopefully soon ill be able to spend my life with him.

I received an email a few days a go with the 2-4 weeks estimated, today I received the 60 days, I cried like a baby, my dream of spending Xmas witn my hubby for the first time ever is gone, I just wanna go downstairs make brownies, buy ice cream eat a whole bag of twix and watch sex and the city to forget about this but I am already chubby because of this situation.,

Praying for you solenta..

Dear Lord, I lift up wives who struggle with anxiety. You know the details of what triggers their fears and you know what they face on a daily basis. My prayer is that you would comfort these women and that your awesome peace would remove their fears and anxiety. I pray their husbands would wrap their loving arms around them and also comfort them. I pray these marriages are not hindered by the anxiety, but rather strengthened! I know the debilitating affect of anxiety and I know you dont want us living life controlled by it. I call out to you for help Lord. Please transform our hearts so that we do not live in fear or allow anxiety to consume us any more in Jesus name AMEN!

Amen Alepenaflor God Bless you and your in my prayers also. I think the illusion of power gets to them so they act in the way they do. What cowards to treat you like that I'm so very sorry. I can't even imagine how you felt while all this was going on. I pray that one day this wont even be in your memory. We can't let these cowards win.

You made me laugh a little when you said you wanted to eat ice cream etc and that you were already chubby OMG same here I have to try to lose while going through all this and what is it with women that we have to eat to calm down? My husband loses wt when he's stressed I gain. Geeeeeeez what luck eh. I just lit candle for all of us an pray as you and to the blessed mother that our prayers be answered.

I am so sorry you have to go through this. I know it is painful, but please don't give up! Try to distract yourself, meet up and talk with a friend or relative, get some good sleep and tomorrow will be a new day. You are so close to being done with NVC! Don't look back on your visa journey (hey, you already got most of it behind you) but concentrate on what is left. Get in contact with your congressman, senator, ombudsman to get support from them (NVC gave you conflicting information - that's so not okay) and give the silly NVC whatever they want. You are almost done, honey! Wish we could all help you more! I am praying for a speedy CC for you! You deserve it so much!

Hugs

Awww thank you so much wont give up sent an e-mail to my Senator see what happens couldn't call cause I burst out crying. What is ombudsman I'll e-mail them, where do I find the information to e-mail them do you know? I wont give up I'll so the best I can. IF these Ombudsman can help I'll write an e-mail that will light a fire under their A$$'s. Thank you again.

[Ryan H 3,810]

What is ombudsman I'll e-mail them, where do I find the information to e-mail them do you know? I wont give up I'll so the best I can. IF these Ombudsman can help I'll write an e-mail that will light a fire under their A$$'s. Thank you again.

The Ombudsman that is being referenced is for USCIS. They have no jurisdiction as far as the NVC is concerned so writing them would be a waste of time.

[Soloenta 2,218]

Soloenta: my heart is breaking for you. I wish I could find a way to make things better for you. It is just so horrible to see such a lovely person go through this nightmare.

Stay strong, sweetie.

Your so sweet Robisons, thank you I wont give up I just wonder if this is happening now then what will happen at the interview. I hate having pictures taken of me so not many of them at all. It worries me Egyptian Embassy makes NVC look like amateurs. Just spoke to my husband he keeps me strong wish i could talk to him day and night.

The Ombudsman that is being referenced is for USCIS. They have no jurisdiction as far as the NVC is concerned so writing them would be a waste of time.

Oh ok thank you very much then we truly have no recourse should have known that.

[TargetNovember14 41]

yes i was and still am frustrated. a whole month gone down the drain, thanks to my lawyer after he made us get a checklist… now i will be calling him and the NVC everyday until they let me know if everything is going right.

No never, God doesn't hate you this is man made. You would think the lawyer would have called to make sure, but I always wonder how much is NVC's fault call me paranoid but I don't trust them at all.

I think we should all promise God something, I don't go to mass every Sunday but I will promise him to go every Sunday and I will pray for all of us there. Maybe it's time to ask for a miracle and make an effort?

[AustinCanada 681]

yes i was and still am frustrated. a whole month gone down the drain, thanks to my lawyer after he made us get a checklist… now i will be calling him and the NVC everyday until they let me know if everything is going right.

Wait.... You're calling NVC everyday!? I thought that was your lawyer's job?

[abg 25]

Oh ok thank you very much then we truly have no recourse should have known that.

A suggestion, since you will have to wait the sixty days, why not resubmit all the AoS's with transcripts and requested evidence so NVC can't say something else is missing and wrong and attach a NICE $#@&*% letter.

[Soloenta 2,218]

yes i was and still am frustrated. a whole month gone down the drain, thanks to my lawyer after he made us get a checklist… now i will be calling him and the NVC everyday until they let me know if everything is going right.

No one seems to do their job anymore how sad.

Oh ok thank you very much then we truly have no recourse should have known that.

A suggestion, since you will have to wait the sixty days, why not resubmit all the AoS's with transcripts and requested evidence so NVC can't say something else is missing and wrong and attach a NICE $#@&*% letter.

I am going to resubmit the Supervisor said to wait until she calls she wants to make sure there will be no surprises. What do you mean with transcripts, request evidence from NVC they don't even call you back when they say they are and who do I request it from in the package I resubmit?

[mdzcpa 58]

I truly believe GOD hates me!!!!!

we had received a checklist (due to my lawyer's mistake) and sent it back on Sept 7 via email (my lawyer did) (Electronic Processing).. I called up today a month later ( as i never received an email confirming they got it ). Talked with Gus. Apparently there is no record of that of that email in their system. So he wants us to send it back. Yippppppeeee!!! now instead of Sept 8 it is Oct 8 as our scan date…though it is not confirmed yet…as the email is still not reached there yet...

I am thoroughly disgusted and depressed.

Wow...I am so sorry to hear this. Checklists at the NVC stage are like daggers to the heart. When our attorney screwed up our AOS and caused a checklist I immediately fired his butt and sent the correct AOS in myself. My trust was lost on this "immigration attorney."

Hang in there though. 60 days will happen quicker than you think. Good luck!

[abg 25]

No one seems to do their job anymore how sad.

I am going to resubmit the Supervisor said to wait until she calls she wants to make sure there will be no surprises. What do you mean with transcripts, request evidence from NVC they don't even call you back when they say they are and who do I request it from in the package I resubmit?

Sorry, I meant tax transcripts(returns) and parents marriage certificate.

[michelle_enrique 6]

So after two weeks of waiting for my checklist and receiving BS answers to why I didnt receive it within a couple of days

I finally received it today after it was "resent" for the third time!

[Soloenta 2,218]

Sorry, I meant tax transcripts(returns) and parents marriage certificate.

Oh sorry, yes I have it all ready to go. ty .

[Soloenta 2,218]

So after two weeks of waiting for my checklist and receiving BS answers to why I didnt receive it within a couple of days

I finally received it today after it was "resent" for the third time!

Typical of the SOB's did you actually expect anything better from them? It's a mess an evil mess!NIghtmare beyond belief. (L)