The NVC October Moral Support/Ranting Thread

[Ketsuban 1,034]

Soloenta, they are taking the royal piss with your case. I wish there was something we could do to help

Edited October 7, 2014 by Ketsuban

[aidansgirl 5]

Hello So we are stuck in NVC for 6 months now (from april ) and I want to ask if there is some website where i can check our status online?

[EOC 440]

I'm so very sorry I am in you shoes, just got off with NVC and just can't stop crying again, I don't know how much more of this I can take. Spoke to Sara she is talking about a checklist from June that I was told to ignore about some proof of relationship, W T F is that and why I think they men my parents. I think it's discrimination because well you know. I can't catch my breath!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I really don't know what to classify NVC with. This is not fair at all, i think you should get your senator, congressman, governor or those in power involved in this. This is absolute rubbish. Why are they saying different things every time you call. Is there some group of devils in NVC messing up with your file. I can't imagine what and how you are feeling right now, this isn't fair. OMG this is pure injustice. I don't know what to say or do anymore. I wish am working in NVC or know someone working in NVC, i would have pleaded with him/her to help close your case. Am so sorry sweetie.

[Soloenta 2,218]

Sorry I havent been around guys, but just caught up on 25 pages or so! lol Our last scan dates are August 18th for IV and September 15th for AOS checklist.

No CC yet obviously, really hope they dont take the full 60 days for the checklist

@Soloenta have you tried contacting your congressman? I think it would help!

Hi sweet heart nice to see you again. Not for this no at least not yet. They are saying I need to send a copy of my parents marriage certificate. I wonder what next the kitchen sink?

[Soloenta 2,218]

Ok I just need to rant!!!!

I feel so ripped off by stupid NVC! the received our AOS package on 4th of August and our IV package on the 10th of September so after waiting the stupid 60 days and calling them to now realise that they are only reviewing both according to my last scan date which means I have to wait another month on top of the 60 days we have already waited.

its really stressing me out as im terrified of getting a checklist for the AOS package and now i have to wait another month to find out if its ok or not and if its not its going to put us back even more!!!! sorry i need to rant no one else in my life gets all this stuff. its driving me nuts!!

thanks for listening

First thing, first to the thread.

I know exactly how you feel and I don't even have words when it comes to NVC I want it wiped out of my mind forever! You can come and Rant, cry and blow off steam when ever you want this is why this thread was made. Praying you don't get a checklist for anything at any time.

[TeaCup 65]

Hi sweet heart nice to see you again. Not for this no at least not yet. They are saying I need to send a copy of my parents marriage certificate. I wonder what next the kitchen sink?

That is so ridiculous! Have you tried calling and speaking to a supervisor and ask can you bring it to the interview? Or at least will it be reviewed quicker? Anything?

[Soloenta 2,218]

OMG!!!! i am so so so sorry Soloenta….i really think you should call up NVC and ask them to expedite your process….they gave you false information about your AOS…….i know it may not work, but hey it truly doesn't hurt to try….this is very unfair.

I am feeling depressed hearing your news...

Thank you very much, just called, you know how Austin says to cry as in faking it. I lost it, I'm ashamed to say I toally lost it could hardly talk what a disaster. Poor woman was beside herself, I was a total mess. She said at this point they can't expedite. This is just to much, criminals don't go through what we do. It would be considered cruel and unusual punishment. Haven't stopped crying since yesterday I have a migraine because of it, only good thing is I'm not hungry at all. ;(

[Ebu70 63]

I'm so very sorry I am in you shoes, just got off with NVC and just can't stop crying again, I don't know how much more of this I can take. Spoke to Sara she is talking about a checklist from June that I was told to ignore about some proof of relationship, W T F is that and why I think they men my parents. I think it's discrimination because well you know. I can't catch my breath!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sweetheart please don't cry, it is now time you write to senator Barbara Boxer's office, my sis wrote to her office and it helped my case. Send the written consent form from her website asap. You can fax or mail it phone # 510 -286-8537, ask for fax #, . Please be calm, this to shall pass. my prayers are with you. All this with the help of boxer can end very soon

Edited October 7, 2014 by Ebu70

[Soloenta 2,218]

I'm so, so sorry, Soloenta. I think you have every right to raise hell and demand an exception to the 60-day review. They have put you through a roller coaster of emotions and it's time they let you off the ride! Maybe one of your congress people can help? Good luck to you and big hugs.

Thank you so much sweet heart, it wont do any good. I'll send my Senator an e-mail, my Congress woman Napolitano is worthless. I would call but would start to cry so bad they wouldn't understand me. Thank you for the hug i needed that.

[Soloenta 2,218]

Soloenta, they are taking the royal piss with your case. I wish there was something we could do to help

Yes they are and I think it's because my husband is Arab, I hate to say it, it usually seems like a weak argument to me but now I can't think of anything else. What a sad world we live in. Thank you sweet heart but there is nothing anyone can do against those that are given total power over us. They say there isn't a war that can last 100 years or a body that can take it.

[Soloenta 2,218]

Hello So we are stuck in NVC for 6 months now (from april ) and I want to ask if there is some website where i can check our status online?

Best thing to do is call them the website is worthless and you will only get answers God willing if you call. So sorry for your long wait.

I really don't know what to classify NVC with. This is not fair at all, i think you should get your senator, congressman, governor or those in power involved in this. This is absolute rubbish. Why are they saying different things every time you call. Is there some group of devils in NVC messing up with your file. I can't imagine what and how you are feeling right now, this isn't fair. OMG this is pure injustice. I don't know what to say or do anymore. I wish am working in NVC or know someone working in NVC, i would have pleaded with him/her to help close your case. Am so sorry sweetie.

Thank you my friend I appreciate your kind words. If I contact my Senator I'll have to e-mail because I can no longer speak to anyone normally I just burst out crying I can't control it. I think maybe it might be a nervous breakdown I'm not sure. I can't smile or laugh all I can do is stare, cry and sleep. I'm not sure how I'm typing right now to be honest. I thank you for your sweet and kind words my friend you as the rest of the people on this thread, not on this thread Shannon, Saylin and Dwheels are exceptional in every way and am blessed by God to have known you.

Not sure what to do right now, should i cry or go to sleep? It's a pathetic toss up.

[meg_654 84]

Hello So we are stuck in NVC for 6 months now (from april ) and I want to ask if there is some website where i can check our status online?

You would do best by calling NVC. Another option to email NVCInquiry@state.gov, but it takes a while to receive a reply. I emailed that address on June 17th, and got a reply on July 18th. By the way, my case was received by NVC in the beginning of April, and I just now got a case complete. Best of luck to my beautiful Bulgarian countrymen!

[Soloenta 2,218]

That is so ridiculous! Have you tried calling and speaking to a supervisor and ask can you bring it to the interview? Or at least will it be reviewed quicker? Anything?

Yes have spoken to several supervisors, they say no to everything. Some are nice some not so much. Octavio and Sylvia were a total disappointment

sweetheart please don't cry, it is now time you write to senator Barbara Boxer's office, my sis wrote to her office and it helped my case. Send the written consent form from her website asap. You can fax or mail it phone # 510 -286-8537, ask for fax #, . Please be calm, this to shall pass. my prayers are with you. All this with the help of boxer can end very soon

Thank you my dear I will do just that, it can't hurt. God bless you and thank you so much for your prayers I really need them.

and I could hardly understand Octavio.

You would do best by calling NVC. Another option to email NVCInquiry@state.gov, but it takes a while to receive a reply. I emailed that address on June 17th, and got a reply on July 18th. By the way, my case was received by NVC in the beginning of April, and I just now got a case complete. Best of luck to my beautiful Bulgarian countrymen!

Tell me please did you tell your dear mother about CC and interview and what did she say?

[meg_654 84]

Hi sweet heart nice to see you again. Not for this no at least not yet. They are saying I need to send a copy of my parents marriage certificate. I wonder what next the kitchen sink?

What about sending your own birth certificate? That is a solid proof of relationship between you and your co-sponsor. Even though it doesn't make sense...What is the importance of the relationship between persons filing AOS? Once AOS is signed its a contract between the signatory/s and the government, not a contract between you and your co-sponsor/the other signatory........

Edited October 7, 2014 by meg_654

[Ebu70 63]

Yes have spoken to several supervisors, they say no to everything. Some are nice some not so much. Octavio and Sylvia were a total disappointment

Thank you my dear I will do just that, it can't hurt. God bless you and thank you so much for your prayers I really need them.

and I could hardly understand Octavio.

Tell me please did you tell your dear mother about CC and interview and what did she say?

Remember my dear, mid term elections are next month. The young lady answering the phone from boxer' s office is a sweetheart. I want to see you happy, and God bless you too. Stay strong honey