In love with a girl in the Philippines.

[Al422 221]

Gross income needed for two people is $19,662.

I guestimeated. Thanks for the accurate answer.

[Al422 221]

Thanks again. We do talk every day for 3 to 4 hours, I think we're doing things right so far

As far as money goes...she wants to pay for things herself even after I offered..so that's a good sign at any rate.

As far as not having a job, it is because I have been taking care of ailing parents and a household which I will be moving from..and the employers of my past do not wish to be referenced at all.

Oh...and the girl next door is in her 80s, soooooo...yea lol

What is a life anyways...we only live for a little while, and then we turn to dust. We get the chance to do good in the world and we get the chance to love, and then afterwards we pass on. It's simply important enough for me to not care if it takes 10 years let alone 4...anything else would be settling for less than best.

My great uncle married a philippinnes woman too...my grandmother says she was one of the kindest people ever.

25k a year and over is not such a far reach for a web developer with confidence ^^

I am happy with her, and that's what counts

""You can always fail at doing what you don't want, so you might as well take a chance on doing what you love""

Looks like you are on the right track, both in attitude and financial plans. Don't worry about past employment. Your current job (as of when she goes to interview) is the one that counts.

Best of luck to you, and please stop here frequently. I probably would have succeeded getting my wife here without this place, but I would have surely made many time wasting mistakes this place saved me from.

[Hank_ 9,174]

I guestimeated. Thanks for the accurate answer.

There are three of them anyway

[Torete 121]

I guestimeated. Thanks for the accurate answer.

Typical carnivore.

[Hank_ 9,174]

[jmc92 0]

I will make updates on this site when (not if) things improve

This has helped alot, at least in some of the desicions I plan on making

I guess if I was curious about anything else though, it would just be in how she could just get a pasport and come here to visit, kinda like I see many foreingers whenever I go to disneyland, the ones from different countries all must have had some sort of way over ^^

[Torete 121]

I will make updates on this site when (not if) things improve

This has helped alot, at least in some of the desicions I plan on making

I guess if I was curious about anything else though, it would just be in how she could just get a pasport and come here to visit, kinda like I see many foreingers whenever I go to disneyland, the ones from different countries all must have had some sort of way over ^^

Wish you the best!

Check this out for starters:

http://www.passport.com.ph/requirements

...then contact "Hank"...he's a wealth of information.

And yes, let us know how things go.

Edited September 19, 2014 by Torete