I Don't Often Rant; but When I Do, I Prefer to Rant on VJ

[JTB11 1,079]

Stuffed myself with perhaps the dozenth meal Tiff ever cooked......I feel kinda fat now......

you are going thru symphatetic pregnancy ? Making yourself fat so Tiff feels better....awwww such a good husband !

[kitthekat 1,317]

my mom just happily agreed to plan a malay-muslim wedding for jonas and i back in singapore...scheduled for 2016

Edited September 30, 2014 by kitthekat

[SAT 9,609]

my mom just happily agreed to plan a malay-muslim wedding for jonas and i back in singapore...scheduled for 2016

1- awesome!! Very happy for you and Jonas!

2- Am I invited? (Forget the rest of the Marklarz here, they can't afford to go to Singlapore, I can.....)

2A- Is that when they...um.....you know....kinda...um....cut you so that you can't enjoy sex ever again? Like a good taliban?

2B- Are they serving curry goat at the wedding?

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

my mom just happily agreed to plan a malay-muslim wedding for jonas and i back in singapore...scheduled for 2016

Does she know that you are already married and living together?

[kitthekat 1,317]

Does she know that you are already married and living together?

of course not, you want her to disown me?

1- awesome!! Very happy for you and Jonas!

2- Am I invited? (Forget the rest of the Marklarz here, they can't afford to go to Singlapore, I can.....)

2A- Is that when they...um.....you know....kinda...um....cut you so that you can't enjoy sex ever again? Like a good taliban?

2B- Are they serving curry goat at the wedding?

thank you! i am so relieved that she is finally accepting that we want to be together. all of you are invited! uh...as long as you don't tattle on me.

and no, they are not going to cut him or me anywhere...what?!

i've no idea what my mom is gonna do for food...i'm leaving it all up to her.

[SAT 9,609]

I was kidding, but I was referring to this.....

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_genital_mutilation

And I'd really go if I'm invited !!

Brat, I'm sure I speak on everyone's behalf when I say that we're really happy for you.

And that we're very glad that your mom has come to accept Jonas.

It's great, great news all around!

Does she know that you are already married and living together?

Ah there's trophie......

Where did you go? You had to drive 323 miles for a doctor's visit?

Edited September 30, 2014 by SAT

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

I was kidding, but I was referring to this.....

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_genital_mutilation

Ah there's trophie......

Where did you go? You had to drive 323 miles for a doctor's visit?

To go to a real doctor/hospital it is about 4 hours round trip, but no, just sleeping many many hours a day. I think I'm coming off the tail end of the flu.

They have guides for some of the hospital in the southern part of the state about FGM due to the large number of Somali immigrants. I try not to judge, but I think that has got to be one of the worst things I've ever heard of being done on a mass scale.

[kitthekat 1,317]

thank you you guys have been my rock through it all. i think i'd have gone crazy without this thread.

[Pooky 3,772]

thank you you guys have been my rock through it all. i think i'd have gone crazy without this thread.

You want to be sane?

[Ontarkie 14,193]

Yay Kit, it will be so good for you both.

[SAT 9,609]

To go to a real doctor/hospital it is about 4 hours round trip, but no, just sleeping many many hours a day. I think I'm coming off the tail end of the flu.

that's gonna be a drag throughout the next few months to a year.....

Yay Kit, it will be so good for you both.

They gotta hurry up so they can make 7 kids to break your record......

[Ontarkie 14,193]

They gotta hurry up so they can make 7 kids to break your record......

As long as it's not me

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

that's gonna be a drag throughout the next few months to a year.....

The obgyn is only 45 minutes away, but the hospital is very very small and with some things like the NT scan we have coming up, we have to go to Fargo.

[SAT 9,609]

that's not too bad......

[rlogan 2,036]

One thing I like about Dr. Phil is "this problem needs a hero".

You can be a "right fighter". It just doesn't matter if you are right sometimes. In that circumstance, no matter how much raw emotion is telling you to fight that you actually have to do the opposite - even though they are the one that hurt you... you are the one that sucks it up.

A person has to stand up for themselves. Establish boundaries and enforce them. Otherwise people just walk all over you. But on the other hand, you take responsibility for seeing how someone is before you marry them. Once you sign on to the deal with marriage, you don't have a right to expect them to change.

It may be infinitely perplexing. #######? Why is it that they can't do this one thing?

Nobody is perfect. This is as close as you are going to get. And it is way over the top awesome. What does it get you to be a "right fighter" here? It gets you punished. What does it get you to be Dr. Phil's hero? It gets you laid. That's the thing I know Dr. Phil means. He never says it. But just look at that spiffy little unit he's married to. I get it Dr. Phil. lol. Double entendre there. And I'll get it today as always.

Would you rather be right? Or would you rather get laid? I mean in this circumstance right here. Where you signed on to the deal, it bit you again, and you have the choice of making futile demands of someone or else getting laid.