Child's Protection

[Fandango 1,440]

####### is with all these newbs? Kezzie answered in a perfectly acceptable fashion and her questions were relevant.

There should be a group discount for hooked on phonics

Here's my recap of the thread:

OP: Garble garble let's break the silence about broken families! TABOO?!!! GarBLE!!! GARBLE!!

Kezzie: I'm not sure there's a taboo?

OP: I AM APPALLED BY YOUR REACTION I WILL LEAVE THIS PLACE AND FIND A FORUM THAT WANTS TO TALK ABOUT CHILD ABUSE GOOD DAY SIRS!

lol, yep

[Kez/JWolf 6]

I am glad I am not the only one confused by the reactions of the OP....

Kez

[Fandango 1,440]

I am glad I am not the only one confused by the reactions of the OP....

Kez

let alone the structure of the OP itself...I think there's a point in there somewhere

[garya505 2]

I am glad I am not the only one confused by the reactions of the OP....

Kez

let alone the structure of the OP itself...I think there's a point in there somewhere

[Tim and Bethanie 1]

I think Bigfoot and Knowledge are the same person.

Not sure how I missed this one on a boring day at work. Great way to get someone to agree with you, and even better that they are the only one making sense of the garble!

[Kez/JWolf 6]

Yeh.... I think they call that the first sign of madness.... talking to yourself and getting an answer....

Kez

[Mags 112]

I think Bigfoot and Knowledge are the same person.

Not sure how I missed this one on a boring day at work. Great way to get someone to agree with you, and even better that they are the only one making sense of the garble!

You wouldn't believe how often that happens on some of the forums I have frequented in the past. OP gets told he/she is talking rubbish and suddenly, miraculously, someone else appears and on their FIRST POST of the forum decide to stick up for the OP AND agrees with everything they say.

Some people think others' are so stoopid...

Edited January 24, 2007 by mags

[Magnolia31 0]

who said it was tabo to talk about abuse??? and why do you assume that if a marriage is failing then there has to be some form of abuse and where does a child fit into this???

Kez

I didn't get that from her post. Maybe you misread it?

[Tim and Bethanie 1]

who said it was tabo to talk about abuse??? and why do you assume that if a marriage is failing then there has to be some form of abuse and where does a child fit into this???

Kez

I didn't get that from her post. Maybe you misread it?

Nah it wasn't misread, you probably haven't read the other thread this one is referring to.

[Tim and Bethanie 1]

I think Bigfoot and Knowledge are the same person.

Not sure how I missed this one on a boring day at work. Great way to get someone to agree with you, and even better that they are the only one making sense of the garble!

You wouldn't believe how often that happens on some of the forums I have frequented in the past. OP gets told he/she is talking rubbish and suddenly, miraculously, someone else appears and on their FIRST POST of the forum decide to stick up for the OP AND agrees with everything they say.

Some people think others' are so stoopid...

I feel stoopid, because not sure why this persons schtuff showed up when they are iggied. It is all better now though.

[nhbigfoot 0]

I think Bigfoot and Knowledge are the same person.

Not sure how I missed this one on a boring day at work. Great way to get someone to agree with you, and even better that they are the only one making sense of the garble!

You wouldn't believe how often that happens on some of the forums I have frequented in the past. OP gets told he/she is talking rubbish and suddenly, miraculously, someone else appears and on their FIRST POST of the forum decide to stick up for the OP AND agrees with everything they say.

Some people think others' are so stoopid...

I feel stoopid, because not sure why this persons schtuff showed up when they are iggied. It is all better now though.

Wrong, not the same person and all I said was knowledge was attacked. Also not very nice, especially to a "newbie". FYI, the OP was trying to get away from a fight by opening this post to talk about something. Another discussion had gotten to the point where nothing was being accomplished. The first answer to the OP was by someone who was not happy in the previous thread. Then the other person who was going to ignore knowledge in the other thread joined this thread to offer more negativity. It is all too easy to say something about newbies, but you also know nothing about me. Sorry to disappoint you but I really do not wish to spend my time arguing with anyone, it was just too obvious that the enmity from the previous discussion was about to carry over here, and it did. I also try to avoid denigration, which apparently is an attitude in short supply here.

Kez answered as follows: "who said it was tabo to talk about abuse??? and why do you assume that if a marriage is failing then there has to be some form of abuse and where does a child fit into this???

The OP was talking about a general taboo regarding discussions of how children are affected by all forms of violence or abuse, and what effect the immigration process might have on this. A dialogue was requested, and I again say all she got was an attack. Then the thread deteriorated into what it now is. Sad. And not much of an introduction for a "newbie". Although I did really like the popcorn smiley, perhaps the first one I ever did enjoy enough to want to use.

The reactions of some of the people who have replied should give knowledge some insight into how taboo the subject really is. Anger usually masks another emotion, quite often fear. Seems like the question hit a nerve, so the reaction is either get angry or use silly put downs to make the subject more palatable.

I was hoping that this medium would be helpful, instead I am watching people use putdowns and sarcasm to ruin the thread. Is there anyone who can actually talk to knowledge about her topic? Does anyone here know why IMBRA exists?

[Fandango 1,440]

I think Bigfoot and Knowledge are the same person.

Not sure how I missed this one on a boring day at work. Great way to get someone to agree with you, and even better that they are the only one making sense of the garble!

You wouldn't believe how often that happens on some of the forums I have frequented in the past. OP gets told he/she is talking rubbish and suddenly, miraculously, someone else appears and on their FIRST POST of the forum decide to stick up for the OP AND agrees with everything they say.

Some people think others' are so stoopid...

I feel stoopid, because not sure why this persons schtuff showed up when they are iggied. It is all better now though.

Wrong, not the same person and all I said was knowledge was attacked. Also not very nice, especially to a "newbie". FYI, the OP was trying to get away from a fight by opening this post to talk about something. Another discussion had gotten to the point where nothing was being accomplished. The first answer to the OP was by someone who was not happy in the previous thread. Then the other person who was going to ignore knowledge in the other thread joined this thread to offer more negativity. It is all too easy to say something about newbies, but you also know nothing about me. Sorry to disappoint you but I really do not wish to spend my time arguing with anyone, it was just too obvious that the enmity from the previous discussion was about to carry over here, and it did. I also try to avoid denigration, which apparently is an attitude in short supply here.

Kez answered as follows: "who said it was tabo to talk about abuse??? and why do you assume that if a marriage is failing then there has to be some form of abuse and where does a child fit into this???

The OP was talking about a general taboo regarding discussions of how children are affected by all forms of violence or abuse, and what effect the immigration process might have on this. A dialogue was requested, and I again say all she got was an attack. Then the thread deteriorated into what it now is. Sad. And not much of an introduction for a "newbie". Although I did really like the popcorn smiley, perhaps the first one I ever did enjoy enough to want to use.

The reactions of some of the people who have replied should give knowledge some insight into how taboo the subject really is. Anger usually masks another emotion, quite often fear. Seems like the question hit a nerve, so the reaction is either get angry or use silly put downs to make the subject more palatable.

I was hoping that this medium would be helpful, instead I am watching people use putdowns and sarcasm to ruin the thread. Is there anyone who can actually talk to knowledge about her topic? Does anyone here know why IMBRA exists?

blah blah blah, since when is it law to be 'nice'....especially to noobs?

Did I miss a memo?

Btw, whoever you are....try a lil reading comprehension to what Kezzie actually said there before ya go flyin off on some tangent that's irrelevant.

[diadromous mermaid 36]

I think Bigfoot and Knowledge are the same person.

Not sure how I missed this one on a boring day at work. Great way to get someone to agree with you, and even better that they are the only one making sense of the garble!

You wouldn't believe how often that happens on some of the forums I have frequented in the past. OP gets told he/she is talking rubbish and suddenly, miraculously, someone else appears and on their FIRST POST of the forum decide to stick up for the OP AND agrees with everything they say.

Some people think others' are so stoopid...

I feel stoopid, because not sure why this persons schtuff showed up when they are iggied. It is all better now though.

Wrong, not the same person and all I said was knowledge was attacked. Also not very nice, especially to a "newbie". FYI, the OP was trying to get away from a fight by opening this post to talk about something. Another discussion had gotten to the point where nothing was being accomplished. The first answer to the OP was by someone who was not happy in the previous thread. Then the other person who was going to ignore knowledge in the other thread joined this thread to offer more negativity. It is all too easy to say something about newbies, but you also know nothing about me. Sorry to disappoint you but I really do not wish to spend my time arguing with anyone, it was just too obvious that the enmity from the previous discussion was about to carry over here, and it did. I also try to avoid denigration, which apparently is an attitude in short supply here.

Kez answered as follows: "who said it was tabo to talk about abuse??? and why do you assume that if a marriage is failing then there has to be some form of abuse and where does a child fit into this???

The OP was talking about a general taboo regarding discussions of how children are affected by all forms of violence or abuse, and what effect the immigration process might have on this. A dialogue was requested, and I again say all she got was an attack. Then the thread deteriorated into what it now is. Sad. And not much of an introduction for a "newbie". Although I did really like the popcorn smiley, perhaps the first one I ever did enjoy enough to want to use.

The reactions of some of the people who have replied should give knowledge some insight into how taboo the subject really is. Anger usually masks another emotion, quite often fear. Seems like the question hit a nerve, so the reaction is either get angry or use silly put downs to make the subject more palatable.

I was hoping that this medium would be helpful, instead I am watching people use putdowns and sarcasm to ruin the thread. Is there anyone who can actually talk to knowledge about her topic? Does anyone here know why IMBRA exists?

blah blah blah, since when is it law to be 'nice'....especially to noobs?

Did I miss a memo?

Btw, whoever you are....try a lil reading comprehension to what Kezzie actually said there before ya go flyin off on some tangent that's irrelevant.

Wow! For those that referred to knowledge's post as 'garbled', how about trying this discussion in a language that is not your first? Tsk, tsk.

[anya-D 8]

I find this topic interesting.. and yes i've read the other tread - but I dont think it's all related and that it's a taboo.. this things happen and how children effect from this rollercoster is something to think about... (aboues either physicly or emotionally)

I have no answer though... but i'm sure children will effect from broken relationship too... But I think the best thing you can do in the situation is talk to the children about what's going on and ensure that they will not be left out on what ever outcome will be..

[knowledge 0]

I find this topic interesting.. and yes i've read the other tread - but I dont think it's all related and that it's a taboo.. this things happen and how children effect from this rollercoster is something to think about... (aboues either physicly or emotionally)

I have no answer though... but i'm sure children will effect from broken relationship too... But I think the best thing you can do in the situation is talk to the children about what's going on and ensure that they will not be left out on what ever outcome will be..

Thanks, my english is not so good sometimes, so i'll try to be more clear: I meant that here on this site is taboo...from what i have read...to a point that the dramatic situations revealed here...were preoccupying and reflected more the interests of the adults...and not those of the kids...For the rest, you exactly understood what i was trying to say...also the fact that because we have no answser, tried to see if it's possible to to talk about...

My preoccupation still remains in regards with your statement to the fact they should "not be left out", as you put it so well...it's the chore of my concern...because this is abandonement...especially if the child is young...and for a long duration of time...In addition to the difficult process...if it lasts also, this is to me another addition to think more what a kid can bear to take...If it's too much for us, imagine for the kid...this is still not mentionned overall on here...Then, you answered...talking to the kid..yesssss.....thus, another question to debate maybe...: how to talk to the kid about the situation...