Am I the only one

[bretthalimule 7]

Am I the only one who doesn't want to hear about CSC applicants getting approved?

[sweet cakes 326]

Am I the only one who doesn't want to hear about CSC applicants getting approved?

Why don't you want to hear CSC approvals?

Edited August 7, 2014 by sweet cakes

[Pitaya 2,577]

~Moved from K1 Process to K1 Progress Forum~

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[LoveinGhana 18]

Am I the only one who doesn't want to hear about CSC applicants getting approved?

I know it's hard to see those applications get processed so fast. However, our time will come. I am happy for all of those at CSC who are getting approved. I wish I was at the CSC but I am not so I have no choice but to wait.

Hang in there it will all work out!!!!

[Nikki88 12]

Am I the only one who doesn't want to hear about CSC applicants getting approved?

You are not the only one.

[idriss765 1]

The TSC is apparently speeding back up, hopefully they finally implemented a better system there!

[jfgk1987 303]

You are hardly the only one, but it's not like they can help the fact that they are at CSC and that CSC is going faster due to not having a backlog of petitions. They can be happy too.

[Eva&Gary 3]

Definitely NOT the only one !!!

[bretthalimule 7]

Sorry approaching our 5 month mark and having a bad day and pissed off!! This is insane.

[S_R 148]

You definitely not the only one. Just like folks who are happy they don't live in areas prone to hurricane or earthquakes.

[Marco&Bettina 502]

They have just as much right to be happy about their approvals as anyone else.

[bretthalimule 7]

I never said I didn't want them to be happy

[Marco&Bettina 502]

I never said I didn't want them to be happy

I honestly used to be annoyed by it too. But some time ago, I stopped caring. Now I just ignore the threads & have learned to accept the fact that it is what it is.

[HoussemAnna 20]

I have watched many types of visa get approved while I have been in my fifteen month wait and still counting... I am married, not waiting to get married, and have been waiting to start a life with my husband.... what I learned is to stop comparing my case to other's. Yes different visa's have different processing times, and some people do get luck of the draw on where their petition is sent. I just think positive towards others and remind myself this could be worse. Not too long ago I seen folks posting on how unfair it is for married people to wait while K1 visa were being processed faster.... we all get our turn and are relieved when we get our approvals... so I know things are so frustrating and it makes you want to pull out your hair, but keep faith and spread good will around to our fellow petitioners. We all need some positive encouragement.

[SweetOpossum 55]

I know it is hard, but we don't have any control over these things.

We just got approved 2 weeks ago after 186days . During this time I experienced all kind of emotions, and I had some very sad days. One action that I took was to only allow myself to log into VJ once every 2 weeks to help me stop obsessing with other people getting approved faster (Not just from CSC, but even people at TSC who filed 2 -3 months before we did)

I wish you the best, If you can focus on the positive, motivate and encourage yourself and your partner... the time will come. And remember, this is just one step in a long process, I am glad we made it out of TSC, but I am aware we still have to go thru the NVC and then have other little steps before the interview.