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SAT Grand Master

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I know I'm over simplifying it, perhaps even trivializing it, so I'm sorry.

Sometimes people are good folk, but just aren't so good in a marriage.

Oh please Trophie, you owe me no apology. (But you owe me fiddy bucks for something, I just forgot what)

You know I love ya....

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hubs asked if we were looking at any houses tomorrow. Step in the right direction.

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Haven't really talked to them recently, to be honest. i paid back MIL for the plane tickets she paid for for us to initially fly to the US last year so she'd stop holding that over our heads, but that

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Sorry it was hard Jada. It was hard when I had to leave my ex even though it was my only choice. His abuse turned from me to the kids.

Steve I surely don't know enough about your wife but with baby on the way you definitely need to find some peace soon. Counseling may just help.

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SAT Grand Master

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Sorry it was hard Jada. It was hard when I had to leave my ex even though it was my only choice. His abuse turned from me to the kids.

Steve I surely don't know enough about your wife but with baby on the way you definitely need to find some peace soon. Counseling may just help.

Once again, you guys are my saviors, even if it's just for tonight....

I was just sitting here like an idiot.....

I shoulda stayed single forever.

Nik mentioned something about regret. It's enlightening. She should be the Dali Camel.....

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Once again, you guys are my saviors, even if it's just for tonight....

I was just sitting here like an idiot.....

I shoulda stayed single forever.

Nik mentioned something about regret. It's enlightening. She should be the Dali Camel.....

No you shouldn't have, you have a precious daughter who would not be here without you.

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Ontarkie Grand Master

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I'm a strong believer that just about any relationship can be fixed IF both ppl want it too. Minus drugs/alcohol or abuse those are deal beakers for me.

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Oh no not what I'm saying at all

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I'm going to go to bed in hopes of getting some much needed sleep. Lately, every other night, I can't sleep. And every other- other night, I'm dead tired. I've also skipped out on work like every other day lol......

When's my next vacation again?

Good night to you good folks.

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Oh Stretch, you weren't a part of this thread when we all first met....

T'was right before our Malaysian trip last March....

Almost came to a divorce then.

what a long long story if I had to tell it again....

:( I'm sorry that you're going through this

HAve you had a chance to write everything down, get it all out? Sometimes it helps to purge it on paper.

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1. oh if you're offering up T-bone to do the roof I need mine done soon. Roof that is and only the roof!

2. No need we will rant in all of them

Many. Is that a good thing or do you need a smack upside the head with a frying pan?

1. The roof, the whole roof, & nothing but the roof? Consulting fee + labo(u)r, D ma'am.

2. Si, ma'am.

Many. CABA alert... or Mrs.-T-B.-#1 alert, frightening man.

You need Tarklar to help you throw a blue tarp over your house?

Tarp! The herald angels sing. Consulting fee + labo(u)r, sigh man.

we are a house of Many

Census correction applied, see ma'am.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

TBoneTX Grand Master

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I guess I can't seek it...

Seek, man.

Remove yourself from toxic environment, without this nothing good will come

Si, man.

And just exactly what is the toxic environment?

See below, man.

Your home, duh.

Obvious to everyone but you, apparently.

Oj tak, si man. Where's the +Many button, huh ma'am?

It is either spending the rest of your life feeling happy or trapped in eternal misery.

Oj tak, si man. Where's the +Many button, huh ma'am?

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06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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I don't know if one should stay in unhappy marriage for the sake of children.

Oj tak, si ma'am. Where's the +Many button, huh man?

1. T'was right before our Malaysian trip last March.... Almost came to a divorce then.

2. what a long long story if I had to tell it again....

1. Should've then, sigh man.

2. Paste link instead, ease man.

I'm going to go to bed in hopes of getting some much needed sleep. Lately, every other night, I can't sleep. And every other- other night, I'm dead tired.

Backed there, backed that, sigh man.

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06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

TBoneTX Grand Master

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Thursday back-report, see man:

Awoke rather early, truncated zzz man.

Left with VJ Gringo (VJG) for Many errands, industrious man.

Dropped lawnmower at repair shop, pay$ManytoCentralAmericanyardcrew man.

Completed state inspection for Mrs.-T-B.-mobiile, finally man.

Gave Mrs.-T-B.-mobile a full drink, gas man.

Bought supplies at Lowe's, $i man.

Bought supplies at Harbor Freight & got free stuff, $i and whee man.

Returned to casa, with back aching (too much standing, upstanding man).

Therapied back while VJG de-shells A/C condenser unit outside, bifurcated man.

Watched VJG de-shell condenser unit; saw insulation-thick dust, uh-oh man.

Alternately ate breakfast, watched Mini-B., and watched VJG, ingest and see wee and see man.

Fended off Central Americano yard crew while VJG re-shelled unit, diplomacy man.

Paid Central Americano yard crew, $igh man.

Took shower; prepped for road trip, loaded family/guests in Mrs.-T-B.-mobile, cram man.

Used up 2 gift cards worth $Many at great BBQ restaurant, ingest man.

Went resale shopping, whee man.

Spent $Many at first store, $i man.

Spent $Many at second store, $i man.

VJG & Ecuatoriana wife had fun and were satisfied, whee man.

Out-pigged at Dairy Queen, paying $0 (VJG paid $Many), no $i man.

Returned to casa with exhausted carload, semi-zzz man.

VJG did 2 thorough tours of casa attic, see and sweat man.

VJG offered theories on poor airflow flow, insightful man.

Removed staples/tags from resale purchases, adios man.

Talked with mouths with VJG, wife, & Mrs. T-B., chatter man.

Got lab results on-line, see man.

CK still elevated; retest in week, sigh man.

Kidney results normal, whee man.

Liver function slightly out of range, sigh man.

Shall arise on Friday to take brood to outlet mall last visited on Viernes Negro,* drive man.

*= Black Friday

Cat prep exhaustion, man.

Mornin', Commie-babes & Singapuras!

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

 
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