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Very angry to learn that the idiot wimp has 35k savings yet you have to pay for many many stuff and become in debt.

F**king A** hole

Use his card to buy some gas/gift cards before you leave!

Done with K1, AOS and ROC

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Haven't really talked to them recently, to be honest. i paid back MIL for the plane tickets she paid for for us to initially fly to the US last year so she'd stop holding that over our heads, but that

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Your soon to be ex-laws are friggen idiots, stop letting them get to you. The dysfunction in that family is never ending, and you've been there too long so its rubbing off on you. Steven has your back. Take him up on staying at his place. Heck even borrow his car, he borrows it to the Gumps and he doesn't even like them.

Right on!

Steve is offering you a golden opportunity to get out of this crappy situation. Concentrate on the job, and sort out the divorce business later.

Good luck!

Very angry to learn that the idiot wimp has 35k savings yet you have to pay for many many stuff and become in debt.

F**king A** hole

Use his card to buy some gas/gift cards before you leave!

Good idea. Stock up on gift cards.

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Couldn't you use your womanly charms to get a bit more? Then again maybe he won't be swayed by that being pre-pubiscent and all.

Seeing that he said he would not pick me out of a line of women I doubt that lol No seriously though...he is like a statue...you talk to him and he stares into space. I am not even trying anymore.

and yes...pisses me off too that he has all this money and is sitting on it as if he had no part in all of this. But then again what can I expect from a husband who tells you he will lend you money for a bike if you want one lol

F...it....I won't get worked up over it anymore. I just want this nightmare to be over. Paperwork is being signed soon, I need to make sure he does not go crazy and starts some ####### up since he has been angry with me...I assume because his father is teaching me to drive and helping me out and it makes him feel like a loser.

Very angry to learn that the idiot wimp has 35k savings yet you have to pay for many many stuff and become in debt.

F**king A** hole

Use his card to buy some gas/gift cards before you leave!

lol I went as far as to use the card to pay for my ROC but I guess that would not be good lol I mean...thought about using it or taking the bed with me since and have him sleep on the floor for a change.

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Life goes on, my ex-husband is a moron.

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Seeing that he said he would not pick me out of a line of women I doubt that lol No seriously though...he is like a statue...you talk to him and he stares into space. I am not even trying anymore.

and yes...pisses me off too that he has all this money and is sitting on it as if he had no part in all of this. But then again what can I expect from a husband who tells you he will lend you money for a bike if you want one lol

F...it....I won't get worked up over it anymore. I just want this nightmare to be over. Paperwork is being signed soon, I need to make sure he does not go crazy and starts some ####### up since he has been angry with me...I assume because his father is teaching me to drive and helping me out and it makes him feel like a loser.

lol I went as far as to use the card to pay for my ROC but I guess that would not be good lol

What's he going to do if you max out his card? Sue you? Doubt it.

Personally I would do a runner- get out and then think about a divorce. You don't need to pander to him just to get him to sign some documents.

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What's he going to do if you max out his card? Sue you? Doubt it.

Personally I would do a runner- get out and then think about a divorce. You don't need to pander to him just to get him to sign some documents.

I wanna max out your card Frenchy........

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What's he going to do if you max out his card? Sue you? Doubt it.

Personally I would do a runner- get out and then think about a divorce. You don't need to pander to him just to get him to sign some documents.

I would not do that though....I am not that kind of person...i think about it and laugh on the inside. Karma will get him one day.

I do need to be here for him to sign stuff and make sure he makes it to the office....he doesn't care about this at all...if he could he would stayed married to me just so he does not have to tell anyone how badly he f...ed up. Is all that matters to him...so if i dont make him go .....all kinds of things can happen.

I wanna max out your card Frenchy........

that's the Steve I remember lol

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I would not do that though....I am not that kind of person...i think about it and laugh on the inside. Karma will get him one day.

I do need to be here for him to sign stuff and make sure he makes it to the office....he doesn't care about this at all...if he could he would stayed married to me just so he does not have to tell anyone how badly he f...ed up. Is all that matters to him...so if i dont make him go .....all kinds of things can happen.

that's the Steve I remember lol

Not sure about the karma bit- can he sink any lower?

Abandon him.

You can still live with someone else even if he refuses the divorce ( for now).

His friends will laugh at him, and make him consider a divorce, once they know you have skipped town. He owes you money. Spend the amount he owes on his credit card.

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Not sure about the karma bit- can he sink any lower?

Abandon him.

You can still live with someone else even if he refuses the divorce ( for now).

His friends will laugh at him, and make him consider a divorce, once they know you have skipped town. He owes you money. Spend the amount he owes on his credit card.

he has debit card and his savings in bonds or whatever. He has no credit card....he got denied when he tried getting one because he has no bills, no rent , no car ..nothing.

GC received on the 28th of February, 2014 - no interview, no additional RFE's

Divorced as of September, 2014

NOA1 for ROC 14 October, 2014

Life goes on, my ex-husband is a moron.

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You know you wanna let me max out your card......

I'm already maxed out!;)

he has debit card and his savings in bonds or whatever. He has no credit card....he got denied when he tried getting one because he has no bills, no rent , no car ..nothing.

All the more reason to skip town. Stay with Steve and find a job and a cheap room share until you get on your feet.

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