Backaches, Bimbos, and Breakups

[JTB11 1,079]

You don't want to be sleeping in a car, its not safe!

nobody would see me in there....and I would find a safe area too.

[Merrytooth 5,748]

No no, Jada. Don't sleep in your car. It is dangerous!!!!

[JTB11 1,079]

how about a camper....the FIL has one (with bees currently) and he said I could use it if need be. I can do that no ?

Speaking of which...how does one get rid of bees inside of a camper....it is the bees that live in the ground....suckers stung me already.

Edited September 4, 2014 by JTB11

[SAT 9,609]

I feel like my life will never get back to normal. Asked a friend to lend me money so I can get some sort of a car and possibly sleep in it plus after lawyer/living expenses aka food and having bought basic items I got no money for a bed or the move itself- is that illegal to sleep in a car for a couple of weeks ? Not a long time but like....3 weeks maybe until first pay check....

J I told you you could sleep here for Pete's sake......

I got your back I tell ya.....

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

I feel like my life will never get back to normal. Asked a friend to lend me money so I can get some sort of a car and possibly sleep in it plus after lawyer/living expenses aka food and having bought basic items I got no money for a bed or the move itself- is that illegal to sleep in a car for a couple of weeks ? Not a long time but like....3 weeks maybe until first pay check....

It is somewhat illegal in that you'll have difficulty finding a place to do it and said place is going to be unsafe for you. I would say you could camp out in a tent, but again, the single woman thing is dangerous.

J I told you you could sleep here for Pete's sake......

I got your back I tell ya.....

I would take him up on this.

[Merrytooth 5,748]

Jada, listen to Steve.

Don't sleep in your car for 3 weeks!

This woman died in her car!

http://www.nbcphiladelphia.com/news/local/Parking-Lot-Death-Elizabeth-272846101.html

[SAT 9,609]

it is illegal to sleep in a car, it's called "Vagrancy". In NYC it's called "Dis Con" (Disorderly Conduct) causing public annoyance.

But no one enforces it unless someone calls 911.

[SAT 9,609]

how about a camper....the FIL has one (with bees currently) and he said I could use it if need be. I can do that no ?

Speaking of which...how does one get rid of bees inside of a camper....it is the bees that live in the ground....suckers stung me already.

Leave that family to their own devices and never speak of them ever again.

[Merrytooth 5,748]

Leave that family to their own devices and never speak of them ever again.

If they still have a heart, they could very least offer some $$ to help Jada to move.

[SAT 9,609]

If they still have a heart, they could very least offer some $$ to help Jada to move.

even if they have a heart, they have to have the cashola to help her move!

[Caryh 5,206]

Leave that family to their own devices and never speak of them ever again.

Stop being sucked into their dysfunction. Make your break cleanly. You've got Steveklar there to help you out until you get back on your feet. Rely on your friends! Most of us have been in a hard place either money wise or emotionally at some point in our lives. Don't let it drag you down and make stupid mistakes like putting yourself at risk by sleeping in a car!

[SAT 9,609]

gotta go for a bit, hold the thought......

[JTB11 1,079]

If they still have a heart, they could very least offer some $$ to help Jada to move.

I tried talking to my soon ex-husband...he has 35k in savings (his parents put most of it in there for his college ...yeah ok...) and I tried to explain that I spent all of my savings, got myself in debt and now I am literally without means and that he should be a man at least now and help me with deposit for a place or something because I truly have nothing and he had no response whatsoever. He is cool if I still buy some food with his card for now but that's it. He won't help me. His mother won't either since she is feeding 5 kids of her other son and him with the money of her husband and believes that this situation should teach me some humility...because sleeping on the floor or cooking and cleaning day in and day out and be called "the help" hasn't been enough.....

oh and btw...she thinks that me sleeping in the guest room means nothing ....our marriage is top notch perfect (she told that to the FIL when he pointed out that our marriage is going downhill...) How can someone be this blind.....and she won' ask me about it either...she will ask FIL and the hubs both of which say nothing in response. She is terrified to speak to me because somewhere deep down she knows I would explode and at this point I would.

TO change the subject: pomeranian peed on the carpet ...heart shaped pee right in front of me...it was adorable.

[Caryh 5,206]

I tried talking to my soon ex-husband...he has 35k in savings (his parents put most of it in there for his college ...yeah ok...) and I tried to explain that I spent all of my savings, got myself in debt and now I am literally without means and that he should be a man at least now and help me with deposit for a place or something because I truly have nothing and he had no response whatsoever. He is cool if I still buy some food with his card for now but that's it. He won't help me. His mother won't either since she is feeding 5 kids of her other son and him with the money of her husband and believes that this situation should teach me some humility...because sleeping on the floor or cooking and cleaning day in and day out and be called "the help" hasn't been enough.....

oh and btw...she thinks that me sleeping in the guest room means nothing ....our marriage is top notch perfect (she told that to the FIL when he pointed out that our marriage is going downhill...) How can someone be this blind.....and she won' ask me about it either...she will ask FIL and the hubs both of which say nothing in response. She is terrified to speak to me because somewhere deep down she knows I would explode and at this point I would.

TO change the subject: pomeranian peed on the carpet ...heart shaped pee right in front of me...it was adorable.

Your soon to be ex-laws are friggen idiots, stop letting them get to you. The dysfunction in that family is never ending, and you've been there too long so its rubbing off on you. Steven has your back. Take him up on staying at his place. Heck even borrow his car, he borrows it to the Gumps and he doesn't even like them.

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

I tried talking to my soon ex-husband...he has 35k in savings (his parents put most of it in there for his college ...yeah ok...) and I tried to explain that I spent all of my savings, got myself in debt and now I am literally without means and that he should be a man at least now and help me with deposit for a place or something because I truly have nothing and he had no response whatsoever. He is cool if I still buy some food with his card for now but that's it. He won't help me.

Couldn't you use your womanly charms to get a bit more? Then again maybe he won't be swayed by that being pre-pubiscent and all.