Backaches, Bimbos, and Breakups

[Darnell 8,478]

I know, I know. A big part of me welcomes the relief, but another part of me wants her to stand up and actually participate in the marriage, something she's really not done since arrival. I will be heartbroken, but it'll pass. I have steve's approach, with having others in line and available. Still, is about 8 years of what now seems a waste. I'll get over that, also.

[Ontarkie 14,221]

I'm so sorry Darnell, but you are only one person and it takes two to work on a marriage. Big Hugs!

[Darnell 8,478]

Maybe I'll get lucky and that magic number becomes 3, me, her and her mother, when her mother hits USA dirt next month.

[NikLR 13,227]

/hugs darnell!

[Darnell 8,478]

thanks, NLR and toofies and KitsofKats. emotions all over the place today, I don't even wanna throw the on switch to the garden watering system at times.

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

So it seems like maybe the new next door neighbors have 6 kids rather than 4. Jesus, people around here are fertile.

Maybe it was rude not to or rude to, but not introducing ourselves while they are in the middle of hardcore moving in (probably on a rare day off) is ok, right?

[NikLR 13,227]

I think it's pretty rare to introduce yourselves to neighbours unless you're both outside at the same time. I'd never go knock on a neighbour's door and say "hi i'm so and so from over here!"

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

I think it's pretty rare to introduce yourselves to neighbours unless you're both outside at the same time. I'd never go knock on a neighbour's door and say "hi i'm so and so from over here!"

We were both outside, but separated by a bit of shrubbery, but they seemed pretty busy.

Edited September 1, 2014 by N-o-l-a

[SAT 9,609]

update:

we are filing for divorce 1 oct 2014.

still some hope not to do this, still some hope after filing (takes 90 days min in Texas)

and

I not want this divorce.

Good luck Skip....

So it seems like maybe the new next door neighbors have 6 kids rather than 4. Jesus, people around here are fertile.

Maybe it was rude not to or rude to, but not introducing ourselves while they are in the middle of hardcore moving in (probably on a rare day off) is ok, right?

Malaysia is like that.....9 kids and sheet.....

[SAT 9,609]

Me and the chip off the old block......

My "Niki shot"

The mug collection from this trip....

Edited September 2, 2014 by SAT

[rlogan 2,036]

A big part of me welcomes the relief

Yup. The anguish of an uncertain future is the worst part of it. Once you know where you're going, you can finally start putting one foot in front of the other.

[Ontarkie 14,221]

Me and the chip off the old block......

My "Niki shot"

The mug collection from this trip....

Nice pics Steve!

I got two sleeping babies woot woot!

Supper was awesome my husband did a great job with the chicken. I did potato skins and macaroni salad. I didn't touch the sausage was just too much food.

Lucas is 6 months today, vax day tomorrow bah.

[SAT 9,609]

Thanks Stretch.....

[TBoneTX 45,285]

Sorry to hear that. Don't get too despondent .

Echoed here, si D man.

[TBoneTX 45,285]

1. A big part of me welcomes the relief

2. another part of me wants her to stand up and actually participate in the marriage, something she's really not done since arrival.

1. Listen to this big part, feel man.

2. You can't want something for someone more than she wants it for herself, no man.

not introducing ourselves while they are in the middle of hardcore moving in (probably on a rare day off) is ok, right?

Si ma'am... er, no ma'am... er... Moving is stressful (as you know), so waiting till they had a chance to breathe was better, si ma'am.

1. Nice pics Steve!

2. I got two sleeping babies woot woot!

Many. Lucas is Many months today, vax day tomorrow bah.

1. Si wee ma'am!

2. Zzz, wee man/ma'am.

Many. The hardest thing is watching them start crying because they're too little to know what's hurting them or why it has to happen, sigh man.