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I filed I129f for my fiancée late February 2014. Almost there now I learn she is pregnant from another man.

What are my options? What should I do? Did this happened to anyone? I feel so unfortunate.

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At this stage you could just do nothing and let it lapse, but best to write and confirm that you will be withdrawing your petition.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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I filed I129f for my fiancée late February 2014. Almost there now I learn she is pregnant from another man.

What are my options? What should I do? Did this happened to anyone? I feel so unfortunate.

You options?

1. Withdraw the I-129F (this is what I would do)

2. Proceed (if you are willing to accept the child...kind of like marrying a divorce woman with a child)

3. Let the baby father take custody of the baby (if she is willing, which I doubt)

Also, complication is, she may be in US before the due date.

What should you do?

I think main choices are limited to above.

Did this happened to anyone?

I'm not sure of what happened to other people's lives will help you much in this case.

If I were you, I would drop the I-129F and look for another woman.

There are plenty of good woman out there.

10-04-2013 We met online
11-21-2013 We met in person in Shanghai for 2 weeks

12-13-2013 I-129F packet sent via express

12-19-2013 USCIS NOA #1 (text and email) received

12-24-2013 USCIS assigns Alien Registration Number
12-31-2013 USCIS NOA #1 hard copy received
06-02-2014 USCIS web site shows NOA #2 approval
06-06-2014 USCIS web site shows case sent to NVC

06-xx-2014 Fiancee acquired birth, marriage, and police certificates from local police station (wrong)

06-16-2014 NVC creates case with GUZ### number

06-19-2014 NVC sends case sent to Guangzhou, China
06-24-2014 Received packet 3 express mail from embassy
06-25-2014 Completed DS-160 and paid K1 visa fee

06-26-2014 Mailed packet 3 response back to Embassy

06-26-2014 Requested police certificate from Russian embassy

07-08-2014 Received packet 4 email from Embassy

07-17-2014 Picked up Russian police certificate

07-25-2014 Fiancee medical exam (received MMR & Varicella, but they missed required TD shot)

07-31-2014 Picked up medical exam reports

08-01-2014 Request (correct) birth, marriage, and police certificates from Notarial Service (GongZhengChu)

08-06-2014 Picked up birth, marriage, and police certificates from Notarial Service

08-14-2014 Passed Interview Guangzhou embassy

09-01-2014 Received passport, visa, & sealed envelope

09-13-2014 POE

09-17-2014 Went to CBP office to get (US entry) I-94 updated correctly

09-18-2014 Applied for Social Security Card
09-19-2014 Applied for Marriage License (via online)
09-25-2014 Received Social Security Card
09-30-2014 Picked up Marriage License
10-09-2014 Marriage by Justice of Peace
10-09-2014 Got Certified Marriage Certificate Copies
10-17-2014 Received a letter from SS office that they need the marriage license
10-09-2014 Applied to change the social security card name
10-24-2014 Went back to SS office to provide the marriage certificate documents again!!!
12-09-2014 Submitted AOS, EAD, and AP
12-16-2014 Received 16 emails and 16 text NOA messages
01-05-2015 Received Biometrics appointment letter for (01-12-2015)
01-12-2015 Had Biometrics (fingerprint & picture) - Required Marriage Certificate!!!
02-17-2015 EAD and AP is approved
02-23-2015 Received AP is approval letter
02-25-2015 Received EAD/AP combo card (expires 02/16/2016)
02-27-2015 Applied for SS card name change (they took her SS card)
02-27-2015 Driver's learner permit test was denied since the SS card was given to SS office for name change
03-17-2015 Received SS card with married name
03-17-2015 Started to change all her accounts to married name
03-23-2015 Received potential interview waiver letter
03-27-2015 DMV rejects learner's permit due to "legal status=pending" and vision test failure
04-05-2015 Vision test for learner's permit
04-06-2015 DPS sent us letter that DHS cleared my wife's status to acquire driver's license.
04-10-2015 Passed Driver Learner's Permit
04-22-2015 Received Driver Learner's Permit ID card (expires 02/16/2016)
08-27-2015 Green Card approved
08-31-2015 Received Green Card "Welcome Notice Was Mailed" letter
09-05-2015 Received Green card
10-26-2015 Passed Driver's License Road Test (on 3rd attempt)
11-03-2015 Received Driver's License (expires 02/16/2022)
11-06-2015 Applied to remove conditional work remark on SS card
11-23-2015 Received updated Social Security Card.
- - - - - - - - - - Pending Future Processing - - - - - - - - - -
05-27-2017 File 10 Year Green Card
08-27-2017 2 Year Green Card Expires
05-27-2018 File USC

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~Moved from K1 Progress to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits Forum~

~Similar topics are often discussed at this forum~

Completed: K1/K2 (271 days) - AOS/EAD/AP (134 days) - ROC (279 days)

"Si vis amari, ama" - Seneca

 

 

 

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jfgk1987   303

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It's not uncommon for this to happen to happen. You really only have 2 options, you continue with the petition or you withdraw it.

What are the circumstances? How did you find out? Was she cheating on you the whole time? Was it a one night stand? Was she taken advantage of and/or was it against her will?

No one can really give you advice (besides being told to withdraw) without knowing all the information.

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K-1

I-129F NOA1 => NOA2: 161 days

NOA2 => Interview: 64 days

AP: 33 days

Total: 258 days

AOS

I-485 NOA => GC: 333 days

No Interview

ROC

07/30/2017: Package Sent

08/01/2017: NOA

09/07/2017: Biometrics

12/04/2018: Approved! 490 days

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I should have mentioned that i have seen quite a few similar posts on VJ, I have not kept track of them.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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At this time I'm clueless as to circumstances and anything of that nature learned it from family members. I'm very sad, angry.

I know I can withdraw petition if I choose too. And also I really love this girl, if I choose to proceed, won't her being pregnant affects the case in any way?

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Boiler Grand Master

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Suggest you have a long hard think, this has disaster written all over it.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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I filed I129f for my fiancée late February 2014. Almost there now I learn she is pregnant from another man.

What are my options? What should I do? Did this happened to anyone? I feel so unfortunate.

This is your personal decision to make. Left with me, that would be over with the relationship.

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At this time I'm clueless as to circumstances and anything of that nature learned it from family members. I'm very sad, angry.

I know I can withdraw petition if I choose too. And also I really love this girl, if I choose to proceed, won't her being pregnant affects the case in any way?

We all fall in love at some point and crazy things happens. So what? That's me, I would be done with infidelity.

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At this time I'm clueless as to circumstances and anything of that nature learned it from family members. I'm very sad, angry.

I know I can withdraw petition if I choose too. And also I really love this girl, if I choose to proceed, won't her being pregnant affects the case in any way?

It won't affect the case unless she has the baby before gets here, since the child is not yours I'm not sure how she could bring it with her, maybe someone else will chime in about that...

If you found out through her family members I'd say withdraw the petition. They did you a favor by warning you.

K-1

I-129F NOA1 => NOA2: 161 days

NOA2 => Interview: 64 days

AP: 33 days

Total: 258 days

AOS

I-485 NOA => GC: 333 days

No Interview

ROC

07/30/2017: Package Sent

08/01/2017: NOA

09/07/2017: Biometrics

12/04/2018: Approved! 490 days

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The baby could be a derivative of the K-1 if born prior to her coming here. It would receive a K-2 visa. Permission or a court order would be required of the father (usually) for the child to immigrate.

If she delivers after arriving in the US you need to think of how you will pay for the delivery.

It could cause problems during the interview for the visa as this would be proof that she does not take your relationship seriously.

This is a personal decision to be made by you. My personal opinion would be that even if it was the slip of the moment she should have used protection to prevent exactly this situation.

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