The moan and groan thread

[Ban Hammer 13,112]

Its got to be u Chuckie your the only one who ventures over here

i'm not aware of anything about her sex life so it must not be me.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

Just so we're all clear here, who exactly are the prudes?

They know better than I do. I and others have listed the subjects that have been discussed here that involve sex and tmi, and no one was a prude then, Apparently, one of them, the conservative Muslima, has broken some secret pledge on this thread and it's causing a big commotion. I'm waiting for that shoe to drop.

Edited January 20, 2007 by Green-eyed girl

[Bosco 1]

It will never cease to amaze me how people can read into posts what they want. No one here had a problem with the talk of sex toys as much as they had a problem with the contradictory behaviors and thoughts that run rampant in MENA. Anyone who is in MENA on a regular basis and bothers to take the time to understand what they are reading and the dynamics at play here know exactly to what I am referring.

If anyone thinks jokes about sex toys are inappropriate they so not have to post (as I amsure several did) and if you think jokes about sex toys are amusing, then knock youself out. But do not come here one day protraying yourself as a conservative muslima witha conservative MENA husband living a modest lifestyle only to turn aroudn and call other people prudes for questioning the NOT the appropriateness of a sex joke, but guestioning the contradictory nature of your posts.

Exactly. It is the contradiction that is the issue.

Who is this conservative muslima with a conservative MENA husband living a modest lifestyle? Have we met her? Is she on this thread? Names, please!

Next how many of your men do smoke, drink or do both?

How many of you girls smoke or drink or do both?

Im just curious to hear opinions, i dont want judgements or name calling and i dont want this to be 50 pages of you said, he said, why did you say,

Neither my husband nor I smoke, drink, or eat pork for that matter.

As an aside, we don't go around passing judgements on those who do. However, if I read someone on here calling someone out for drinking or smoking and then go on to talk about what they do that is out of line with their religion (by definitions they themselves have given), I would probably speak up. My speaking up would be about their hypocrisy and not whatever behavior they are engaging in. I probably do several things I feel are not what I should be doing in a single day, so I try not to be critical of how others are are handling their faith; however, when someone calls others out saying it clear, easy, the behavior is indulgent etc, and then goes on to make an exception for themself, it proves it isn't always so clear or easy and nearly everyone indulges in something or other.

I see a contradiction in saying "I don't judge others who do what I don't do, then judging people who talk about dildos when you wouldn't.

There is plenty of hypocrisy coming from those who are pointing fingers.

Can you stop with your lies? That is the second one you are telling about me in this thread.

First saying I am a public supporter and defender of whatever the heck you call sex and now this? Saying I have judged people talking about dildos. Re-read my posts in this thread. I have not placed any judgements on anyone - I did ask you how masturbation and extramarital sex were different from your hedonism perspective. I joked with Sarah about abnormal and gross which is an ongoing joke, and I said that the Prophet and God did not joke about masturbation, which as far as I know is a fact.

[Ban Hammer 13,112]

Just so we're all clear here, who exactly are the prudes?

They know better than I do. I and others have listed the subjects that have been discussed here that involve sex and tmi, and no one was a prude then, Apparently, one of them, the conservative Muslima, has broken some secret pledge on this thread and it's causing a big commotion. I'm waiting for that shoe to drop.

tell em what they've won for being such a prude!

a free trip to.........

[LaL 418]

Just so we're all clear here, who exactly are the prudes?

They know better than I do. I and others have listed the subjects that have been discussed here that involve sex and tmi, and no one was a prude then, Apparently, one of them, the conservative Muslima, has broken some secret pledge on this thread and it's causing a big commotion. I'm waiting for that shoe to drop.

tell em what they've won for being such a prude!

a free trip to.........

that is a FAKE prude ranch picture! if it was the REAL one they would all be riding sidesaddle. there is MY moan & groan!

[Sofiyya 1,687]

It will never cease to amaze me how people can read into posts what they want. No one here had a problem with the talk of sex toys as much as they had a problem with the contradictory behaviors and thoughts that run rampant in MENA. Anyone who is in MENA on a regular basis and bothers to take the time to understand what they are reading and the dynamics at play here know exactly to what I am referring.

If anyone thinks jokes about sex toys are inappropriate they so not have to post (as I amsure several did) and if you think jokes about sex toys are amusing, then knock youself out. But do not come here one day protraying yourself as a conservative muslima witha conservative MENA husband living a modest lifestyle only to turn aroudn and call other people prudes for questioning the NOT the appropriateness of a sex joke, but guestioning the contradictory nature of your posts.

Exactly. It is the contradiction that is the issue.

Who is this conservative muslima with a conservative MENA husband living a modest lifestyle? Have we met her? Is she on this thread? Names, please!

Next how many of your men do smoke, drink or do both?

How many of you girls smoke or drink or do both?

Im just curious to hear opinions, i dont want judgements or name calling and i dont want this to be 50 pages of you said, he said, why did you say,

Neither my husband nor I smoke, drink, or eat pork for that matter.

As an aside, we don't go around passing judgements on those who do. However, if I read someone on here calling someone out for drinking or smoking and then go on to talk about what they do that is out of line with their religion (by definitions they themselves have given), I would probably speak up. My speaking up would be about their hypocrisy and not whatever behavior they are engaging in. I probably do several things I feel are not what I should be doing in a single day, so I try not to be critical of how others are are handling their faith; however, when someone calls others out saying it clear, easy, the behavior is indulgent etc, and then goes on to make an exception for themself, it proves it isn't always so clear or easy and nearly everyone indulges in something or other.

I see a contradiction in saying "I don't judge others who do what I don't do, then judging people who talk about dildos when you wouldn't.

There is plenty of hypocrisy coming from those who are pointing fingers.

Can you stop with your lies? That is the second one you are telling about me in this thread.

First saying I am a public supporter and defender of whatever the heck you call sex and now this? Saying I have judged people talking about dildos. Re-read my posts in this thread. I have not placed any judgements on anyone - I did ask you how masturbation and extramarital sex were different from your hedonism perspective. I joked with Sarah about abnormal and gross which is an ongoing joke, and I said that the Prophet and God did not joke about masturbation, which as far as I know is a fact.

Not a lie when I take what you've said to me as a means of trying to make a point that infers that I've done something wrong here. Why ask me about if masturbation and premarital sex were different from hedonism if, in that context, you weren't trying to point out some contradiciton on my part? To me, that puts you in the judgment category. If you're not, my bad, but it sure comes across that way.

[Ban Hammer 13,112]

that is a FAKE prude ranch picture! if it was the REAL one they would all be riding sidesaddle. there is MY moan & groan!

lol, too many days in the saddle makes one ride sidesaddle

[deeshla 0]

Religious people like sex too. God talks about sex in the Quran, and the Sunnah of the Prophet has never been shy about it. If it's good enough for them, it's good enough for me.

Prude patrol, please continue haranging. Your need for drama is never ending.

Riiiigggghtt. It couldn't possibly be that the hypocrisy of some is being pointedly revealed? The Prophet might have something to say about married muslimas who blast their bedroom business on a public forum. Or maybe he was more of a Totally Rad Open Guy About Sex than I thought. If its Prudes vs. Proud Vibrator Owners Who are Married but Will Joke About Vibrators on an Open Forum with Men Who Aren't Their Husbands, I'll be on the Prude Team.

I love to read anything you write. I can't find a smiley that nods its head strongly enough.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

I love to read anything you write. I can't find a smiley that nods its head strongly enough.

Now, if only any of it were true!

[~Jackie~ 30]

on that note....it is sunny and chilly in Chicago. Snow expected later. Go Bear's on Sunday.

Jackie

(nothing controversial here, except the bears will pounce on the saints )

[mybackpages 0]

on that note....it is sunny and chilly in Chicago. Snow expected later. Go Bear's on Sunday.

Jackie

(nothing controversial here, except the bears will pounce on the saints )

sunny? what is that?

oh and is it football season?

[Ban Hammer 13,112]

I love to read anything you write. I can't find a smiley that nods its head strongly enough.

Now, if only any of it were true!

apparently, it's ok for someone to blast their vibrator news around the forum as long as no men read it

[Ban Hammer 13,112]

maybe a few of the posters here need this when they are in mena........

link

[Sofiyya 1,687]

I love to read anything you write. I can't find a smiley that nods its head strongly enough.

Now, if only any of it were true!

apparently, it's ok for someone to blast their vibrator news around the forum as long as no men read it

What some of the judgers don't seem to realize is that by being so self-righteous about this, they've given lots of power to others to criticize the content of their posts and pronounce them lowlifes. What until there's another panty post

So goes the MENA drama factory.

[melly 0]

I hope I can offend someone with this. I'm wearing blue and white striped panties today.