The moan and groan thread

[Ban Hammer 13,112]

Talks of how long before you had sex or talks of sex on the computer where is the dividing line between what can or cant be talked about? and Charles you keep quiet I swear your turning into one of the girls

isn't talking about sex considered to be aural sex?

[Sofiyya 1,687]

The prude patrol is awake and I am ashamed of what I am reading here. The OP was down and out last night and the LAST thing she needed was to see her thread turn into this.

This thread accomplished one thing. It totally separated the members with class from the lowlifes.

Jackie

doodle hope this day is better than yesterday.

I'm w/ you Jac.... this is shameful & ridiculous.... gawd - This certainly went way off track from the intended destination - go figure... no drama for a few days, it was time for a train wreck!

oooo you used those words again

The prude patrol is awake and I am ashamed of what I am reading here. The OP was down and out last night and the LAST thing she needed was to see her thread turn into this.

This thread accomplished one thing. It totally separated the members with class from the lowlifes.

Jackie

doodle hope this day is better than yesterday.

On, pleeeezzzzz! Then, the "classy people's" (assuming there are some here) discussions cannot include:

Sex during menses,

The permissibility of oral sex,

Polygynyous marriages,

Prayer during menses,

Sex during engagements,

All of which have been discussed here in the past, coz, expressing an opinion about each tells us what's happening or not happening each night at those women's homes!

Cuts out a lot of common Muslim subject matter here and says alot about the "lowlifes" of God and the Prophet.

Private, you're soooo right!

hey you left out the ####### sex topic

Talks of how long before you had sex or talks of sex on the computer where is the dividing line between what can or cant be talked about? and Charles you keep quiet I swear your turning into one of the girls

Thanks to you both! I forgot those subjects, ALL discussed by MENA women in front of strange men How disgusting! BWAAAAHHHHHH!

And not one more word about getting wasted! How classless!

Kudos to Caladan, too! We are all watching . . .

Edited January 20, 2007 by Green-eyed girl

[Together4ever 1]

The prude patrol is awake and I am ashamed of what I am reading here. The OP was down and out last night and the LAST thing she needed was to see her thread turn into this.

This thread accomplished one thing. It totally separated the members with class from the lowlifes.

Jackie

doodle hope this day is better than yesterday.

On, pleeeezzzzz! Then, the "classy people's" (assuming there are some here) discussions cannot include:

Sex during menses,

The permissibility of oral sex,

Polygynyous marriages,

Prayer during menses,

Sex during engagements,

All of which have been discussed here in the past, coz, expressing an opinion about each tells us what's happening or not happening each night at those women's homes!

Cuts out a lot of common Muslim subject matter here and says alot about the "lowlifes" of God and the Prophet.

Private, you're soooo right!

I try very hard to stay out of the bullsh*t that inevitably becomes "discussion" on this board, but I think one of the points being made is that OP was feeling pretty down. She just married and is again separated by a pretty large distance from her new hubby. I'm sure discussing sex toys and other sexual matters REALLY didn't help matters much. Not difficult to understand why.

Now I realize that folks here see everything as an opportunity for a free-for-all (I've been guilty of it too... refer to the SSN discussion post RE: soap but I stopped myself) but its a shame its easily forgotten that each and every one of us suffers from emotions during this process and they can easily be trampled on.

I don't care for the ####### discussion, so I didn't participate in it. I'm not tossing any judgements here. Folks do what they want to. Just hard to watch people being trampled at the expense of others "fun".

[brnidokiegurl 0]

A turn on? im sure men the other day were thrilled to hear about what color panties everyone was wearing that wasnt in (General) that was specific what each was going to do

[Sofiyya 1,687]

For women separated from their husbands, a #######/vibrator discussion can be highly informative, imo. I'm one of those women, btw.

A turn on? im sure men the other day were thrilled to hear about what color panties everyone was wearing that wasnt in (General) that was specific what each was going to do

Day of the week panties. More TMI!

[cbd2cai 0]

and Charles you keep quiet I swear your turning into one of the girls

I think he used to bill himself as "honorary MEAN girl"! what does that say about charles?? and does nessa know about that?

Edited January 20, 2007 by cbd2cai

[brnidokiegurl 0]

Just a case of selective subjects for some i think, to discuss in public forum guess that would be up to the individual as is the continued reading of this one. Little one sided if you read it for whatever reason then down it in the same breath,

[Ban Hammer 13,112]

A turn on? im sure men the other day were thrilled to hear about what color panties everyone was wearing that wasnt in (General) that was specific what each was going to do

oh yeah

and i'm still waiting on wom's catalogue

and Charles you keep quiet I swear your turning into one of the girls

I think he used to bill himself as "honorary MEAN girl"! what does that say about charles?? and does nessa know about that?

yes and yes.

[Caladan 19]

For women separated from their husbands, a #######/vibrator discussion can be highly informative, imo. I'm one of those women, btw.

A turn on? im sure men the other day were thrilled to hear about what color panties everyone was wearing that wasnt in (General) that was specific what each was going to do

Day of the week panties. More TMI!

You harlot. You mentioned your underwear. Next you'll be saying that you wear a bra. Or that you're naked under your clothes!

[brnidokiegurl 0]

Answering to me? i dont remember getting into that one, other than to say (maybe) i didnt have any that specific color, if that, other part is if i did im not dowing everything ive read on this one either

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Interesting.

[mybackpages 0]

It will never cease to amaze me how people can read into posts what they want. No one here had a problem with the talk of sex toys as much as they had a problem with the contradictory behaviors and thoughts that run rampant in MENA. Anyone who is in MENA on a regular basis and bothers to take the time to understand what they are reading and the dynamics at play here know exactly to what I am referring.

If anyone thinks jokes about sex toys are inappropriate they so not have to post (as I amsure several did) and if you think jokes about sex toys are amusing, then knock youself out. But do not come here one day protraying yourself as a conservative muslima witha conservative MENA husband living a modest lifestyle only to turn aroudn and call other people prudes for questioning the NOT the appropriateness of a sex joke, but guestioning the contradictory nature of your posts.

[Ban Hammer 13,112]

You harlot. You mentioned your underwear. Next you'll be saying that you wear a bra. Or that you're naked under your clothes!

omg mena women wear those! i never knew!

[doodlebug 3]

my cell phone bill for the time i was in egypt is $550 and i have no freakin idea how i'm gonna pay it other than from my tax return.

that's exactly why my cell phone got shut off after I came home from Egypt... my bill was $800 dollars and a egyptian mans salary cant pay it ... GRrrrrrrrrrr!

Oh wow I just looked at your timeline!!! I sure thought that VSC was going along a LOT quicker than THAT!!!!!!! Have they mentioned what the hold up is?

you really think things are THAT behind?? From what I noticed I thought it was Right on schedule I talked to the immigration people and they the I 130 is average 6 months.. and my I 129f seems to be moving along. From most of my friends.. and then people here at VJ .. Immigration can go as slow OR quick as they( the gov) want. My girlfriend (egyptian) married a man from America - from her marriage date it took her 5 MONTHS!! to come into the country.. And then I know another guy(egyptian) who married a american.. it took him almost 2 years from when they were married to come to the states.

I am trying to stay positive.. atleast for my husbands sake.. even thought it is easy to sink into the deepest depression over all of this. The first year of your marriage is suppposed to be your "honeymoon" period.. filled with romance, love, excitment and all the gushy things of newly weds.. And with the Visa process.. It is pushing me to my Edge of Patience, depression, sadness, overeating, being stressed out-of-my-mind. We fight with eachother out of frustration.. and in the end make up.. telling eachother that we are sorry and that we are completely overwhelmed with our situation We tell ourselves that this is just a Test for us to get through.. What doesnt kill you will make you stronger right???

Actually I was looking at your I130timeline and assumed that you filed the I129F at the same time without paying attention. It seems as though they are holding the I130's up until the I129F's get processed and even then the new trend is to retain the I130. The I129 seems to be going well. I've seen many from Vermont have their NOA2 within anywhere from 30 to 60 days, though there are the exceptions so keep your hopes up!!!

And I can totally relate to the fact that this should be the honeymoon lovey dovey time. Hang in there kiddo...this too shall pass. Surah 94 was suggested to me last night and I have vowed to read it everyday until this whole nightmare is over.

[deemabrouk 0]

what happened to the origional topic of this thread?