Is my future Thai Bride a Bar Girl?

[Tango777 3]

If she prays a lot and goes to the temple a lot (like 3 or 4 times a week) that's a good sign I think. Age is a big factor too. You are young so of course you are going like someone under 30 which is there are more dangerous ladies. Take is slow. There are bg's that are fine people, just not so many of them. A lot of free lancers too that really do send the money home. I know this. It all just takes time. Even if you meet someone who is pure as the driven snow, there will still be ups and downs over time.

[Ning 619]

If she prays a lot and goes to the temple a lot (like 3 or 4 times a week) that's a good sign I think. Age is a big factor too. You are young so of course you are going like someone under 30 which is there are more dangerous ladies. Take is slow. There are bg's that are fine people, just not so many of them. A lot of free lancers too that really do send the money home. I know this. It all just takes time. Even if you meet someone who is pure as the driven snow, there will still be ups and downs over time.

I went temples many times in Thailand and I assure you there were these hookers there as well. In Thailand we don't consider bar girls as fine people. In fact they live with the shame of what they have done and so does their family. In the villages people all know what the girl is doing and talk about it all the time unless, as is the custom in Thailand, she is standing right there. The girls actually feel they have a tattoo on their forehead showing what they do and that cant be washed away. Prayers cant replace prejudice nor our culture.

I don't believe it snows anywhere in Thailand but I do know there are hills and valleys to overcome.

[Tango777 3]

Yes Ning, I believe you. I made the rounds my first 6 or 8 trips and I must have been exceeding lucky to meet nice people (ladies of course). Every one and there more than a few. I was not greedy and never pressured anyone so maybe that helped too. I still know a couple of them, they are out of the game now. Heck, it's much more bad here in the States to be involved in that sort of thing. As for the stigma back in the village, yes I know your right. I don't know too much about it, just one story I heard about a girl who blew through quite a bit of farang money. I do believe however that I am very lucky, my wife, my life is a dream now.

[TEX_715 6]

first word said to you: welcome

[JIJourney 96]

Yes Ning, I believe you. I made the rounds my first 6 or 8 trips and I must have been exceeding lucky to meet nice people (ladies of course). Every one and there more than a few. I was not greedy and never pressured anyone so maybe that helped too. I still know a couple of them, they are out of the game now. Heck, it's much more bad here in the States to be involved in that sort of thing. As for the stigma back in the village, yes I know your right. I don't know too much about it, just one story I heard about a girl who blew through quite a bit of farang money. I do believe however that I am very lucky, my wife, my life is a dream now.

congratz tango