Finally am forced to admit being scammed

[tuckin14 58]

There is something notably missing from this thread, which is the question of conditional permanent resident/removal of conditions.

If the green card was granted less than two years after marriage, then it is conditional. Two years after issuance the conditional permanent resident must prove that they had a good faith intention to enter into a bona fide marital relationship. If they fail to do so, the green card will expire and the resident will be subject to removal.

If the parties divorce, the CPR (conditional permanent resident) can file with a waiver based on the marriage ending, but must still prove good faith. Based on the facts as presented, this would be hard to do.

You can also report the facts to USCIS, but it may not matter that much until her conditional green card expires and she files her I-751 (removal of conditions). However they will very likely add the facts you report to her file.

[user19000 18]

The green card from the mailbox and just keep it in safe keeping Not taking it away . Tell her you will pay for her to return home and continue supporting her and then don't do it. Then return the green card to immigration as un deliverable.

Two wrongs don't make a right. I wouldn't advise anyone to lie or trick others, especially when that person himself claims to be a victim of fraud, meaning lying, dishonesty...

[Hypnos 6,576]

nope - i don't have an example, but the cited source exists - and it drones on about the green card production timetick...

that stamp not matter if the withdrawal is successful.

bah - i've got it twisted - see

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/500422-what-do-you-guys-thnk-of-this-uscis-respones/?view=findpost&p=7067975

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/500422-what-do-you-guys-thnk-of-this-uscis-respones/?view=findpost&p=7067975

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/500422-what-do-you-guys-thnk-of-this-uscis-respones/?view=findpost&p=7067975

but I still think it's possible to withdraw.

It's not. The visa was already issued and used. Revoking the green card is no longer an option, per your own link.

[SingleDad2usc 71]

Maybe OP has more than a 3-week history(?)

Couldn't agree more.

Another USC spouse victim.

I wonder if he would love her and marry her if she were 60 and he were in his 30s.

[Fan_Dancer 171]

I wonder if he would love her and marry her if she were 60 and he were in his 30s.

Of course. Love is but a number. There are plenty of cases here in which the petitioner is American and much younger than their third world beloved.*

*Lol.

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

You guys are playing with federal law. If she lives at that address she is supposed to get her mail there unless she notifies them to use a different address. Stop with the hiding the green card game. She has the one year stamp anyway.

She needs to go away as in out of your life. You can't have her deported, you can't "hide" her green card. File for divorce. She can worry about removing conditions on her green card when the divorce is final or if she even remembers to do so. Get her out of your life and move on. Beware of false domestic violence accusations as she can use these to file for her removal of conditions.

I agree.

[love4life09 15]

Not an easy thing to admit, but with much embarrassment, I have to admit to being played... after so much work trying to get my wife into the US now I have to work at getting her away. Only three weeks here and her intentions are very clear.On second night she stated at 60 I should not have a desire for relations and stated she never had sexual feelings, ever.I asked why she had not previously mentioned this to me and that it was odd considering not one month before we agreed that she should be on the pill which she started before leaving for the US. The next day she said she didn't love me "but who knows, in a month I might". This from a female in her 30s. I offered to fly her home if she was so unhappy and she liked that idea because she thought I would continue to pay all of her living expenses as I had been doing since before we were married.No, that meant divorce. Not a good reaction from her. Now,we seldom talk and if so fight. She spends her days watching tv and smoking and talking to her new filipina friends. She moved into the spare bedroom on day 3 and has yet to unpack her suitcase.Next stop I guess is a lawyer to get me out of this mess as best I can and as fast as I can.And right now, all she will talk to me about is "when will the green card and ss card get here?".And I really did not see this coming. Love can be stupid as well as blind.

I would send an AR-11 change of address form to USCIS with the address in the Philippines where she came from ,and see how that works out for her.

[Hypnos 6,576]

Perjury. Good thinking.

[Wendy71 26]

Not an easy thing to admit, but with much embarrassment, I have to admit to being played... after so much work trying to get my wife into the US now I have to work at getting her away. Only three weeks here and her intentions are very clear.On second night she stated at 60 I should not have a desire for relations and stated she never had sexual feelings, ever.I asked why she had not previously mentioned this to me and that it was odd considering not one month before we agreed that she should be on the pill which she started before leaving for the US. The next day she said she didn't love me "but who knows, in a month I might". This from a female in her 30s. I offered to fly her home if she was so unhappy and she liked that idea because she thought I would continue to pay all of her living expenses as I had been doing since before we were married.No, that meant divorce. Not a good reaction from her. Now,we seldom talk and if so fight. She spends her days watching tv and smoking and talking to her new filipina friends. She moved into the spare bedroom on day 3 and has yet to unpack her suitcase.Next stop I guess is a lawyer to get me out of this mess as best I can and as fast as I can.And right now, all she will talk to me about is "when will the green card and ss card get here?".And I really did not see this coming. Love can be stupid as well as blind.

So sorry you are going through this hope you get help ASAP not a happy situation to be in

[onye uwaoma 131]

This is very urgent!!! Please do not allow this scammer and her coaches to rope you in vawa accusation. I don't know how you could avoid this trap but hopefully someone will be knowledgeable enough to help you out asap. Accept my symphaty!

[Cathi 5,748]

Couldn't agree more.

Another USC spouse victim.

I wonder if he would love her and marry her if she were 60 and he were in his 30s.

The OP didn't come here asking to be judged, there are many relationships and marriages that last with a big age gap. If you have nothing to contribute to the conversation that will help, it's best not to say anything at all.

Edited July 6, 2014 by mimolicious

[Cathi 5,748]

I would send an AR-11 change of address form to USCIS with the address in the Philippines where she came from ,and see how that works out for her.

Do you think lying to the US government is going to help the situation? Why would you even joke about something like that?

[raven52 233]

Disagree with one post, I am 60 and my wife 31.,.,.,happily married over a year now, she is highly educated, a great job here, and I am very good to her, we do everything together, so.,,.you never know, but so far, it has been great!

As for the OP, I am reading so much of this from the Phils..,.,.,alarming, and I "am told" it is mostly gals from the city areas like Manila, the province gals, have higher morals.,,..,but no offense, some of the city gals are fine wives, also.

You need to file for divorce, ""YESSTERDAY""..,.,.no talking, no I will do it tomorrow, it should have already been done.,.,.,love to idea, send GC back, write a letter (not notarized) you will continue support, and "send her home! There is nothing in this world as bad as a "bad woman"

[KayDeeCee 4,893]

There is nothing in this world as bad as a "bad woman"

There are many horrendous, disgusting atrocities in this world committed by males, and awful natural/accidental tragedies, but yeah sure, nothing as bad as a 'bad woman' exists.

[SingleDad2usc 71]

Nnnice! Alas, OP just mentioned the numbers + 3 weeks of their history

Disagree with one post, I am 60 and my wife 31.,.,.,happily married over a year now, she is highly educated, a great job here, and I am very good to her, we do everything together, so.,,.you never know, but so far, it has been great!

As for the OP, I am reading so much of this from the Phils..,.,.,alarming, and I "am told" it is mostly gals from the city areas like Manila, the province gals, have higher morals.,,..,but no offense, some of the city gals are fine wives, also.

You need to file for divorce, ""YESSTERDAY""..,.,.no talking, no I will do it tomorrow, it should have already been done.,.,.,love to idea, send GC back, write a letter (not notarized) you will continue support, and "send her home! There is nothing in this world as bad as a "bad woman"

Edited July 6, 2014 by SingleDad2usc