Finally am forced to admit being scammed

[Avery Cates 1,141]

You should be THANKFUL that she never gave you any sex.....since she's obviously a tramp that sleeps around w/o protection, which means she likely has STDs.

Yeah. Pay premium dollar for a clean one that will actually provision the goods next time.

[SingleDad2usc 71]

We had a power outage today

and my PC, laptop, TV, DVD,

iPad & surround sound music

system were all shut down.

Then I discovered that my

iPhone battery was flat;

to top it off it was snowing

outside, so I couldn't play golf.

I went into the kitchen to make

coffee and then I remembered that

this also needs power, so I talked

with my wife for a few hours.

She seems like a nice person.

[belinda63 3,038]

Wow, how did you find your wife? Is she still in the US? Did she get citizenship? Are you going to reconcile? Will she start paying child support? Will she come to visit the children? Did she ever file for divorce? Did she remarry? Did she ever get her green card?

[SingleDad2usc 71]

I'd taken my wife to Disney a few times a year, from half a country away. American men know little about what interests a woman and what makes for a personal relationship. Typical American dating involves local nightclubs and diners. Courtship, in OP's view, is money spent on procedural necessities. I'd taken my bride to overfly her native town in a two engine plane

[Boiler 45,541]

Thats Canadians for you.

[SingleDad2usc 71]

That a Boiler!

[mymarley 14]

call to uscis to hold her greencard or ask them what to do..then buy her ticket..then file for divorce...dont file any anulment in the phil so she have hard time fixing her status heheh...goooooooooooooooooo

[Sandra G. 5,048]

singledad your text Is symbolic ,and I remember that I read another one similar where a kid couldn't access laptop,ipod,ipad,tv and he ended up having dinner with some folks,and he said "they were nice,they said they are my parents" LOL.

Back to the topic...

Edited August 7, 2014 by sandranj

[Caryh 5,206]

Thanks to everyone for their support. The plot thickened this morning when I woke up early after working all night I found my beloved wife secretly applying makeup. When she saw me she quickly hid it. The only time she has ever worn makeup around me was at our wedding. She was being picked up to spend the day with another filipina of very questionable character . When she left I could not stand it anymore so I went into the guest bedroom where she sleeps and keeps her possessions (never did unpack). I looked into her backpack and found a box of almost empty birth control pills. Now, she has never slept with me but she is giving it out around town. Where is the end of this drama? This is all a terrible dream that I can't wake up from. This is the end. Tomorrow she will face a choice, out in the street or the next flight to Manila. Unbelievable, she told me last week that she never had a sex drive.This is the very last straw, I doubt you could know how angry and totally betrayed I feel. Total, unequivocal trash by any standard anywhere.Will this never end?

How did this work out? Is she out or back home?

[palu 23]

She is out but so am I. I was getting only an hour or less of sleep a night for several weeks. I have observed her sneaking outside every time she got a phone call and texting behind the close door of her bedroom. When she thought I was asleep, I found her putting on makeup something she has not done since our wedding., All this to meet another filipina (supposedly). When she left that morning I did something that I never did before, I went snooping in her room. Despite her telling me that she had stop taking birth control pills the second day she was on them, I found 18 missing. These pills can be used as the morning after pill as well, 4 next day and 4 the following day, total of 8 per encounter.8 +8 +2 = 18. Needless to say no sleep that day and I left for work that night to do another 12 1/2 shift. The next morning, I went home , found her asleep, woke here up and told her it was moving day for her. Get out. She left with most of her things and then called the police. They informed me that you can not kick out a spouse from a home. Fine. They escorted her back to get her remaining things and left. That was the last I have heard from her. I have no idea where she is nor do I really care. I know I should have tried to keep my cool but with all of the ####### I took I just could not take it anymore. That is where it stands..

[OLee 64]

She is out but so am I. I was getting only an hour or less of sleep a night for several weeks. I have observed her sneaking outside every time she got a phone call and texting behind the close door of her bedroom. When she thought I was asleep, I found her putting on makeup something she has not done since our wedding., All this to meet another filipina (supposedly). When she left that morning I did something that I never did before, I went snooping in her room. Despite her telling me that she had stop taking birth control pills the second day she was on them, I found 18 missing. These pills can be used as the morning after pill as well, 4 next day and 4 the following day, total of 8 per encounter.8 +8 +2 = 18. Needless to say no sleep that day and I left for work that night to do another 12 1/2 shift. The next morning, I went home , found her asleep, woke here up and told her it was moving day for her. Get out. She left with most of her things and then called the police. They informed me that you can not kick out a spouse from a home. Fine. They escorted her back to get her remaining things and left. That was the last I have heard from her. I have no idea where she is nor do I really care. I know I should have tried to keep my cool but with all of the ####### I took I just could not take it anymore. That is where it stands..

She is not your spouse anymore as far as I understand. And it is obvious that somebody has been "consulting" her (call the police for escorting her back home, etc.). I wonder what is her next step. Not because you care, just because it seems it is not over yet. I wish you peace anyway.

[SingleDad2usc 71]

Yes, she is no longer your spouse (if annulment has been finalized) - but do you even read what members post here for your sake? You got extremely lucky: she could've easily come back with restraining order against you. Of course you couldn't kick her out, because she already resided in this apartment over 30 days...

[Ranshiel 1]

First of all your feelings got hurt...Suck it up! Now it is time to get smart and go in to battle mode... If she is saying all of these things to you make sure you video her get the proof you need to make sure that you can prove what your saying.... If what you saying is true document record and video her.. And she will find her self back in PI trolling for another man but in a different country because she want be able to do this to another American.... good luck I was burnt by a woman in Manila but at least i didn't bring her here or marry her she showed her true colors before it got that far..And do not judge all pinay by this skank i love the phils and there are many wonderful women there more good than bad just choose better..

[rlogan 2,036]

Olee, you need to read the entire story. We are going for an annulment of lack of marital consummation based on fraud on her part. It is in the court now.I have been played for a bigger fool than anyone I have ever heard of. If I were not boiling over, I would be embarrassed for being played so.

Well I've seen bigger doozies. I got scammed for a little while long ago. Never applied for any kind of papers, for that very reason. But just thank goodness you are getting it turned around.

[Avery Cates 1,141]

She is out but so am I. I was getting only an hour or less of sleep a night for several weeks. I have observed her sneaking outside every time she got a phone call and texting behind the close door of her bedroom. When she thought I was asleep, I found her putting on makeup something she has not done since our wedding., All this to meet another filipina (supposedly). When she left that morning I did something that I never did before, I went snooping in her room. Despite her telling me that she had stop taking birth control pills the second day she was on them, I found 18 missing. These pills can be used as the morning after pill as well, 4 next day and 4 the following day, total of 8 per encounter.8 +8 +2 = 18. Needless to say no sleep that day and I left for work that night to do another 12 1/2 shift. The next morning, I went home , found her asleep, woke here up and told her it was moving day for her. Get out. She left with most of her things and then called the police. They informed me that you can not kick out a spouse from a home. Fine. They escorted her back to get her remaining things and left. That was the last I have heard from her. I have no idea where she is nor do I really care. I know I should have tried to keep my cool but with all of the ####### I took I just could not take it anymore. That is where it stands..

I told you to wait for the annulment to be finalized before removing her from the home.

You're only helping her now.