Finally am forced to admit being scammed

[SingleDad2usc 71]

More likely, the love will bloom: a month will have past, by then

Edited July 31, 2014 by SingleDad2usc

[Caryh 5,206]

This afternoon she mentioned going home to her family in the Philippines after the annulment is signed by the judge. YAHOO! The day the annulment is signed I am going to buy her a one way plane ticket and tell her this is it, the last dime I spend on her. She evidently just came on a recon mission to see if what I was giving her met her requirements.Evidently I failed thank the Lord. Of course she let me know that she would not supply any affection, emotional or financial support to the marriage. Well over $26,000 in the last year and a half to this sham marriage that I was in all by myself and didn't know it. A bitter, bitter lesson learned. Now lets hope she sticks to this plan.

Buy her a balikbayan box and a pillow and say this is your passage home. The pillow is more comfort than she's given you in the marriage.

[Unknown Guest 15]

This afternoon she mentioned going home to her family in the Philippines after the annulment is signed by the judge. YAHOO! The day the annulment is signed I am going to buy her a one way plane ticket and tell her this is it, the last dime I spend on her. She evidently just came on a recon mission to see if what I was giving her met her requirements.Evidently I failed thank the Lord. Of course she let me know that she would not supply any affection, emotional or financial support to the marriage. Well over $26,000 in the last year and a half to this sham marriage that I was in all by myself and didn't know it. A bitter, bitter lesson learned. Now lets hope she sticks to this plan.

Wow! $26k! what did u spend all that money on? Glad u were able to get away from this scammer. I had originally thought she just came w/o getting anything in return other than the paperwork and plane ticket paid for....

[NKrishMT 17]

I'm sorry that you have to go through this situation. Girls and guys who do such things are desperate, self-conceited, and are too proud. Be strong and remember that God has someone better for you.

Edited August 1, 2014 by NKrishMT

[palu 23]

Thanks to everyone for their support. The plot thickened this morning when I woke up early after working all night I found my beloved wife secretly applying makeup. When she saw me she quickly hid it. The only time she has ever worn makeup around me was at our wedding. She was being picked up to spend the day with another filipina of very questionable character . When she left I could not stand it anymore so I went into the guest bedroom where she sleeps and keeps her possessions (never did unpack). I looked into her backpack and found a box of almost empty birth control pills. Now, she has never slept with me but she is giving it out around town. Where is the end of this drama? This is all a terrible dream that I can't wake up from. This is the end. Tomorrow she will face a choice, out in the street or the next flight to Manila. Unbelievable, she told me last week that she never had a sex drive.This is the very last straw, I doubt you could know how angry and totally betrayed I feel. Total, unequivocal trash by any standard anywhere.Will this never end?

[OLee 64]

Thanks to everyone for their support. The plot thickened this morning when I woke up early after working all night I found my beloved wife secretly applying makeup. When she saw me she quickly hid it. The only time she has ever worn makeup around me was at our wedding. She was being picked up to spend the day with another filipina of very questionable character . When she left I could not stand it anymore so I went into the guest bedroom where she sleeps and keeps her possessions (never did unpack). I looked into her backpack and found a box of almost empty birth control pills. Now, she has never slept with me but she is giving it out around town. Where is the end of this drama? This is all a terrible dream that I can't wake up from. This is the end. Tomorrow she will face a choice, out in the street or the next flight to Manila. Unbelievable, she told me last week that she never had a sex drive.This is the very last straw, I doubt you could know how angry and totally betrayed I feel. Total, unequivocal trash by any standard anywhere.Will this never end?

Did she just recently start using birth control pills? If she did, they can screw her mind at the beginning. It is true that some ladies lose sex drive while taking those pills. I am an example - birth control pills contributed big time to losing my relationship years ago. No sex drive, I felt bloated, ugly, depressed, with constant headaches... She may not giving it around town.

[palu 23]

Did she just recently start using birth control pills? If she did, they can screw her mind at the beginning. It is true that some ladies lose sex drive while taking those pills. I am an example - birth control pills contributed big time to losing my relationship years ago. No sex drive, I felt bloated, ugly, depressed, with constant headaches... She may not giving it around town.

At this point I don't care anymore. She is a user without any limits whatsoever. I've lied to myself every day for a year and a half about her nasty behavior and grabbing with both hands. Today is the day. She is history.

[palu 23]

Did she just recently start using birth control pills? If she did, they can screw her mind at the beginning. It is true that some ladies lose sex drive while taking those pills. I am an example - birth control pills contributed big time to losing my relationship years ago. No sex drive, I felt bloated, ugly, depressed, with constant headaches... She may not giving it around town.

Olee, you need to read the entire story. We are going for an annulment of lack of marital consummation based on fraud on her part. It is in the court now.I have been played for a bigger fool than anyone I have ever heard of. If I were not boiling over, I would be embarrassed for being played so.

[OLee 64]

Olee, you need to read the entire story. We are going for an annulment of lack of marital consummation based on fraud on her part. It is in the court now.I have been played for a bigger fool than anyone I have ever heard of. If I were not boiling over, I would be embarrassed for being played so.

Palu, I did read the whole story from the very beginning, it shook me a lot. For some reason I just wanted to add something to her credit even if she is a story by now. You are an extremely good person, there is no evil in you as you didn't recognize for a long time you are being consumed. I sincerely hope everything turns out into a brighter side for you. But, please, don't get depressed and don't give up in trusting people - there IS love in the world and you will find it. Take it as a good lesson and move on.

[palu 23]

A question, does anyone know, do I make an Infopass appointment when I have gathered the annulment, fake bio page of her's etc and hand deliver it? We have enough trash now in the US and I want to do my part to help clean it up Let's keep America green!.

[Avery Cates 1,141]

Thanks to everyone for their support. The plot thickened this morning when I woke up early after working all night I found my beloved wife secretly applying makeup. When she saw me she quickly hid it. The only time she has ever worn makeup around me was at our wedding. She was being picked up to spend the day with another filipina of very questionable character . When she left I could not stand it anymore so I went into the guest bedroom where she sleeps and keeps her possessions (never did unpack). I looked into her backpack and found a box of almost empty birth control pills. Now, she has never slept with me but she is giving it out around town. Where is the end of this drama? This is all a terrible dream that I can't wake up from. This is the end. Tomorrow she will face a choice, out in the street or the next flight to Manila. Unbelievable, she told me last week that she never had a sex drive.This is the very last straw, I doubt you could know how angry and totally betrayed I feel. Total, unequivocal trash by any standard anywhere.Will this never end?

Haha one of my ex's did that same "no drive" line. Turns out she was mighty popular over at the Taco Bell and WalMart.

Be careful about trying to remove her from the home before the annulment is finalized though. I'd wait. You don't want her to have anything at all on you. Avoid her as much as possible until then.

[Boiler 45,541]

Deep breath, you know what you want, focus on that.

[Unknown Guest 15]

Thanks to everyone for their support. The plot thickened this morning when I woke up early after working all night I found my beloved wife secretly applying makeup. When she saw me she quickly hid it. The only time she has ever worn makeup around me was at our wedding. She was being picked up to spend the day with another filipina of very questionable character . When she left I could not stand it anymore so I went into the guest bedroom where she sleeps and keeps her possessions (never did unpack). I looked into her backpack and found a box of almost empty birth control pills. Now, she has never slept with me but she is giving it out around town. Where is the end of this drama? This is all a terrible dream that I can't wake up from. This is the end. Tomorrow she will face a choice, out in the street or the next flight to Manila. Unbelievable, she told me last week that she never had a sex drive.This is the very last straw, I doubt you could know how angry and totally betrayed I feel. Total, unequivocal trash by any standard anywhere.Will this never end?

You should be THANKFUL that she never gave you any sex.....since she's obviously a tramp that sleeps around w/o protection, which means she likely has STDs.

[SingleDad2usc 71]

In NYC, a person can't be removed from any apartment where a person has stayed over 30 days already. You need housing court decision on that (could easily take half-year). I hope your local laws are different

[Darnell 8,478]

A question, does anyone know, do I make an Infopass appointment when I have gathered the annulment, fake bio page of her's etc and hand deliver it? We have enough trash now in the US and I want to do my part to help clean it up Let's keep America green!.

I've written about what to do, how to do. please go back and find/read my post.