One, Two... Many Rants

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

not offended..he would be but....I am seriously considering ending this now....I do have evidence enough that we did enter marriage in good faith and proof enough of how much he did not work on anything or did nothing during this marriage and I am tired of it all. No matter what I say or do makes any difference and I need to get my head together so I can start working and doing things I enjoy again. Considering this whole ending of things like....now. I just don't know where to start honestly ....and i know it will be up to me to handle it.

Well, I am glad you have evidence. Is he really so stupid that he doesn't get that he is a terrible husband?

[JTB11 1,079]

Well, I am glad you have evidence. Is he really so stupid that he doesn't get that he is a terrible husband?

It is like he just chooses to ignore it by going online...but at this stage I did speak to him as bluntly I possibly could and told him that while I still care about him I no longer am in love with him and that these months were just really a test of my patience and I kept getting knocked down and I no longer want to be in this marriage. While I understand his issues and fears and all the things I am not willing to forego my own sanity in order to accommodate all the issues he has without any work on his part. At this point even if he decided to do something (which he is not because that is easy)...I don't care.

I did say that he can move with me now and that I would try and help him get away from his computer and help him with resume and get him health insurance and what not but I had hoped that he would at least be ready to contribute minimally....as I can see now...he only basically expects to make the move, sit at home, eat and play computer games which will have me avoid the place we are living in from day one just so I don't have to see it and I don't want to do that.

[NikLR 13,227]

I got the same stuff today !!!! Grilling whole potatoes with spices on the skins since they were hit last week and ribeye steaks grilling those with homemade steak sauce and instead of salad we are having triple ice cream cake with chocolate oreo crust

what kind of spices on skins?

[JTB11 1,079]

what kind of spices on skins?

i make three different spice mixes rub potatoes in olive oil and then in spices let me see the rubs...I got them written down...

1.) 1 to 1 and 1/2 tsp. kosher salt, 1/2 tsp - coriander, ground cumin, paprika (the hungarian sweet kind), chilli powder, ground allspice (i mix my own), dried thyme, black pepper and pinch of sugar (not necessary but I do it)

2.) 1x chilli powder, 1x cayenne pepper, 1x black pepper, and 2x garlic salt ( I mix kosher salt and garlic powder) and a bit of brown sugar ...taste it to see if it is good if not adjust

many.) 4-3-2-1 rub for chicken and I use it for potatoes

4 tablespoons Kosher Salt

3 tablespoons brown sugar

2 tablespoons sweet paprika

1 tablespoon cayenne pepper

oh and I boil the potatoes (about 10 mins not too long but to make them a little soft...i judge by touch) prior to rubbing them with olive oil and spices and sticking them into aluminum foil and grilling.

Edited July 3, 2014 by JTB11

[Jacque67 7,328]

i make three different spice mixes rub potatoes in olive oil and then in spices let me see the rubs...I got them written down...

1.) 1 to 1 and 1/2 tsp. kosher salt, 1/2 tsp - coriander, ground cumin, paprika (the hungarian sweet kind), chilli powder, ground allspice (i mix my own), dried thyme, black pepper and pinch of sugar (not necessary but I do it)

2.) 1x chilli powder, 1x cayenne pepper, 1x black pepper, and 2x garlic salt ( I mix kosher salt and garlic powder) and a bit of brown sugar ...taste it to see if it is good if not adjust

many.) 4-3-2-1 rub for chicken and I use it for potatoes

4 tablespoons Kosher Salt

3 tablespoons brown sugar

2 tablespoons sweet paprika

1 tablespoon cayenne pepper

oh and I boil the potatoes (about 10 mins not too long but to make them a little soft...i judge by touch) prior to rubbing them with olive oil and spices and sticking them into aluminum foil and grilling.

Sounds delicious .

Have a great July 4 and stay strong!

[JTB11 1,079]

Sounds delicious .

Have a great July 4 and stay strong!

thank you !!!!

[NikLR 13,227]

boiling first seems like a good idea.. Otherwise baked potatoes takes like an hour.

[JTB11 1,079]

boiling first seems like a good idea.. Otherwise baked potatoes takes like an hour.

ya..it took us good 30 mins with boiling. I was a bit worried..did not want them mushy but they came out good.

[Ontarkie 14,226]

It is like he just chooses to ignore it by going online...but at this stage I did speak to him as bluntly I possibly could and told him that while I still care about him I no longer am in love with him and that these months were just really a test of my patience and I kept getting knocked down and I no longer want to be in this marriage. While I understand his issues and fears and all the things I am not willing to forego my own sanity in order to accommodate all the issues he has without any work on his part. At this point even if he decided to do something (which he is not because that is easy)...I don't care.

I did say that he can move with me now and that I would try and help him get away from his computer and help him with resume and get him health insurance and what not but I had hoped that he would at least be ready to contribute minimally....as I can see now...he only basically expects to make the move, sit at home, eat and play computer games which will have me avoid the place we are living in from day one just so I don't have to see it and I don't want to do that.

I'm sorry J, he needs to stay behind ad get the help he needs. If he's going to move with you tell him the computer stays behind no games no internet, till he gets a real job.

[TBoneTX 45,304]

Are you going to have a laser hair removal?

I've had Many sessions on my calves. Today I'm gonna have the 6th one.

I see the difference, but still not all hair disappeared.

Oh, I read you got waxing

Done that once

Math corrected and TMCI (too much chica information), oj tak.

Your name is Bill Mee Later

$i, man.

Motel has a public computer, obviously, see man.

[TBoneTX 45,304]

TAAAAAAAAAAAAARKKKKKKKKKKKK.

y?

For everyone's own GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD, ma'am.

trying to wake up Tarklar???

Zzz, man?

He edited me.

Sx, mx'xm.

Maybe Mini-B will be a Star Quarterback or running back in the future

He's already a lady-killer, wee man -- convinced every older chica in the McDonald's play-area to go up the maze with him, wee man.

[kitthekat 1,317]

I'm sorry J, he needs to stay behind ad get the help he needs. If he's going to move with you tell him the computer stays behind no games no internet, till he gets a real job.

spoken like a true parent! i think this is a great idea!

[TBoneTX 45,304]

Got it straightened out but wasted two hours when I'm already too busy

At least you didn't waste Many hours, no man.

delivered on the Many'rd.

Date corrected, see ma'am.

Many laptop out there

$Many computer parts

Corrections to help with the claim, $i ma'am.

I am seriously considering ending this now

Where's the +Many button, huh ma'am?

[TBoneTX 45,304]

i make Many different spice mixes rub potatoes in olive oil and then in spices let me see the rubs...I got them written down...

many.) Many-Many-2-1 rub

Many tablespoons Kosher Salt

Many tablespoons brown sugar

2 tablespoons sweet paprika

1 tablespoon cayenne pepper

oh and I boil the potatoes (about Many mins not too long)

Partial math credit earned, si ma'am, but more work to do, see ma'am.

Have a great July Many

Date corrected, see ma'am.

[TBoneTX 45,304]

Cameo vacation report, see man:

Left casa an hour later than planned. Cat looked morose: "Where are Daddy & Mommy & Little Brother going?"

Took scenic route, made Many stops on way.

Took full hour to drive the Many miles from Hwy. Many to motel in San Antonio area, exhausted man.

GPS didn't have rather new address of motel in it, no man. Made two panicked road-calls to motel and finally made it, exhausted man.

Dropped stuff in room, headed for Riverwalk, drive man.

Parked in central mall ramp.

Bought tickets for $Many, $Many, & $2 for Many-minute narrated riverboat tour, $igh man.

Many-minute trip was exactly at the max of tolerance, exhausted man.

Ate dinner in Mall food-court. Went to Dairy Queen. Had a Hung'rbuster combo & a Bestbuster combo for $Many & $Many, $igh man.

Were still hungry. Got Many slices of pizza for $Many each.

Food total was $Manyyyyyyyyyyyyyy, $igh man.

Put up with fotos by Mrs. T-B. (who ran out of camera memory courtesy of Selfies, vain ma'am).

Headed for parking-ramp, unfortunately passing by a Shasa store, $igh man.

Mrs. T-B. bought Many items for $Many in Shasa, $igh man.

Parking fee came to an outrageous $Many, $igh man.

GPS sent us to Outer Jupiter on way back to motel, sojourn man. Made it back. Mini-B. fell completely asleep in car, wee zzz man.

Mrs. T-B. will be angry at us for computerizing here all night, she ma'am. Sea World tomorrow, Sea man.

Spanish limerick, see man:

Ciudadana:

"Tarjeta de credito!

Quiero ahora!"

[Female citizen:

"Credit card!

I want it now!"]

Till tomorrow or Saturday night, c u man/ma'am. Mornin', Commie-babes!