One, Two... Many Rants

[Ontarkie 14,357]

Oh, I have kept it.

Faith works for me, sometimes. I rarely recognize God's hand in things, when he's carrying them, but I recognize it, always, after.

Last night she told me she wants to work on the marriage, stay married, and not divorce. Lots of other details, but that's the gist, for now.

Cries of joy, but in the same breath, many things to do today.

That is a good step. Since things do tend to go up and down I think she is still in shock from the move.

I thought about divorce many times like when a spider jumped out at me, or when I was weeding the flower beds and a snake came out. Yup little things would set me off, I would freak out call my husband at work practically crying about the snake/spider trying to find out if that one was a poisoness one or not. But I kept the divorce word to myself as I knew I was just overwhelmed. I hope that is the same for your wife.

[JTB11 1,079]

Jada I would leave the dog, as your inlaws do not know about your divorce.

ya. I just cannot afford it really...it is not just me wanting to keep her....it is about the extra expense too....I cannot see how it would even work. Trying to get a place to live, starting a new job, handling a lot of others things....I know FIL will take care of her good including the extra expenses...not his choice - in fact, he was against getting a third dog because of the money but that is not my problem to handle at the end of the day. She does what she wants and when she wants to and he pays for it. It is how they have it working between them so be it.

Cannot wait to start working and having my own place. I wish lawyer was a little faster with things but he promised judge will be available around the 30 day mark.

[Darnell 8,479]

Jada - I forgot one thing - his parents not know of the divorce at all - so - leave the dog where it is.

[Ontarkie 14,357]

ya. I just cannot afford it really...it is not just me wanting to keep her....it is about the extra expense too....I cannot see how it would even work. Trying to get a place to live, starting a new job, handling a lot of others things....I know FIL will take care of her good including the extra expenses...not his choice - in fact, he was against getting a third dog because of the money but that is not my problem to handle at the end of the day. She does what she wants and when she wants to and he pays for it. It is how they have it working between them so be it.

Cannot wait to start working and having my own place. I wish lawyer was a little faster with things but he promised judge will be available around the 30 day mark.

Yes it's a lot for you to be trying right off the bat. You also wanted to look for a second job, the dog would be left way too much if you did need or want the second job. I'm a sucker for dogs heck any animal that is why I have a house full.

The dog probably won't get spoiled the way you do but she will be fine FIL will make sure she is.

[JTB11 1,079]

One day, I will have a house full of puppies too No breeds just puppies from kennel. Cannot wait.

[kitthekat 1,317]

morning all! had a fantabulous hari raya thanks to my wonderful husband

our dinner:

and after dinner, in lieu of the hari raya lights that would be strung up all around singapore, he brought me up on the seattle great wheel to look at the city all lighted up. seattle actually makes me feel a lot like being back home because of all the tall buildings, city lights, urban sidewalks...very different from the somewhat suburban area we live in. anyway, pic:

[SAT 9,609]

I need another vacation....

May be not.....

May be I'll take the rest of the week.....

[Caryh 5,206]

I need another vacation....

May be not.....

May be I'll take the rest of the week.....

I'm taking Friday off. The wife and I are taking a long weekend trip.

[N-o-l-a 7,168]

ya. I just cannot afford it really...it is not just me wanting to keep her....it is about the extra expense too....I cannot see how it would even work. Trying to get a place to live, starting a new job, handling a lot of others things....I know FIL will take care of her good including the extra expenses...not his choice - in fact, he was against getting a third dog because of the money but that is not my problem to handle at the end of the day. She does what she wants and when she wants to and he pays for it. It is how they have it working between them so be it.

Cannot wait to start working and having my own place. I wish lawyer was a little faster with things but he promised judge will be available around the 30 day mark.

The other problem is dogs can really destroy a rental and you'll be paying a lot to have the place re-carpeted or floors re-sanded. I'm pretty sure you said that this particular dog has pooped inside?

[SAT 9,609]

I'm taking Friday off. The wife and I are taking a long weekend trip.

Break a leg...

[SAT 9,609]

Where did all you schmucks go?

[Caryh 5,206]

Where did all you schmucks go?

Went nowhere, but will be going soon.

Dang shop is taking forever to do simple mechanical fixes on a machine I told them about days ago. Its ready to go as far as controls go, but I can't call the customer in until they fix these mechanical problems.

[Ontarkie 14,357]

I'm taking Friday off. The wife and I are taking a long weekend trip.

Where are you all going?

The car adjuster guy come out to look at the boy's car. So far looks like 3,600 to fix the car, but probably more so the guy has to look things up a bit more then call him back.

Edited July 29, 2014 by Ontarkie

[Caryh 5,206]

Where are you all going?

The car adjuster guy come out to look at the boy's car. So far looks like 3,600 to fix the car, but probably more so the guy has to look things up a bit more then call him back.

Going to the middle of nowhere in Wisconsin, small city of about 25,000 called Stevens Point. There's a grotto near there in and even smaller place called Rudolph that my wife wants to see. http://www.rudolphgrotto.org/

Mostly its an excuse to take a long weekend road trip

[SAT 9,609]

Break 2 legs, so you can be miserable like me...