I need help with removal of conditions

[BirdyGirl85 23]

I don't really understand why you are asking about ROC when it is a year away still... If you stay married with your wife, you don't do ROC until May 2015. But if you do end up getting divorced before then, then ROC after the divorce is finalized.

It does sounds like your wife is depressed. I think it would be best for you and her if she can get some kind of professional help. I wish you two the best and that things improve.

Edited June 16, 2014 by BirdyGirl85

[Kathryn41 3,205]

Your wife is showing classic symptoms of depression. You are both dealing with some very heavy stress loads and I think this is one of those times where you would both benefit from outside help instead of trying to handle it all on your own.

Please try to convince your wife to see a doctor first and the doctor may be able to convince her to see a counselor or therapist. Sometimes medication is a useful tool to help someone over the hump of that 'last straw'.

You should also try to see a counselor or therapist (I know, you have a very busy schedule, but please try to find some time) either with your wife or on your own.

The first years of a marriage are stressful even under the best of circumstances, and with all of your other stressors, you both are in need of outside help. You don't need to carry this load alone. You obviously both love each other and don't want to divorce - and that would not really solve the problem as it is just a way of avoiding the problem - so make it a priority in your lives to seek the outside professional help that will support you as you work your way through these very demanding concerns and issues.

Good luck to you both.