Got scammed through marriage, what are the consequences?

[Leatherneck 693]

Why was the I 130 filed?

Because the bride was not a virgin before the wedding. Apparently the family knew that and needed a victim to marry and divorce the single, non-virgin daughter.

Thus providing a valid reason to a future groom as to why he would be getting a wife that was not a virgin. That's what I gathered.

Edited June 7, 2014 by Leatherneck

[Boiler 45,923]

Because the bride was not a virgin before the wedding. Apparently the family knew that and needed a victim to marry and divorce the single, non-virgin daughter.

Thus providing a valid reason to a future groom as to why he would be getting a wife that was not a virgin. That's what I gather.

The 1 130 is so he can immigrate to the US, which he has repeatedly said he does not want to do.

Nothing to do with the marriage, I understand then issue regarding why she is no longer a Virgin.

[Mark88 184]

Because the bride was not a virgin before the wedding. Apparently the family knew that and needed a victim to marry and divorce the single, non-virgin daughter.

Thus providing a valid reason to a future groom as to why he would be getting a wife that was not a virgin. That's what I gather.

But that's no reason to file a I-130.

[Leatherneck 693]

But that's no reason to file a I-130.

I agree. For their stated purpose, it was an unnecessary step.

[Brit Abroad 166]

If the I-130 has been actioned, return the green card to USCIS with a covering letter stating that the relationship is no longer viable, a divorce will shortly be in process and that you do not want/require residence as a result. If it hasn't, just send a letter to USCIS outlining the same information.

Having declined residency should prove that you have no immigrant intent for future visits to the US for medical conferences.

[SusieQQQ 11,587]

If the I-130 has been actioned, return the green card to USCIS with a covering letter stating that the relationship is no longer viable, a divorce will shortly be in process and that you do not want/require residence as a result. If it hasn't, just send a letter to USCIS outlining the same information.

Having declined residency should prove that you have no immigrant intent for future visits to the US for medical conferences.

If he does that he needs to fill in an I407, not just send a letter. http://photos.state.gov/libraries/164203/dhs/I-407.pdf

This is for London http://london.usembassy.gov/mobile/dhs/uscis/abandon.html but has a lot of useful info for the process, including the need to carry a copy of the i407 on future trips or airlines will not let him board (again, assuming that he had LPR status at some point).

Edited June 7, 2014 by SusieQQQ

[Propofol 1]

Because the bride was not a virgin before the wedding. Apparently the family knew that and needed a victim to marry and divorce the single, non-virgin daughter.

Thus providing a valid reason to a future groom as to why he would be getting a wife that was not a virgin. That's what I gathered.

You are 100% Correct! Thats the long story in short form....

The 1 130 is so he can immigrate to the US, which he has repeatedly said he does not want to do.

Nothing to do with the marriage, I understand then issue regarding why she is no longer a Virgin.

Well, take the other couple things into your consideration then Boiler.... She is 18 years old, only 2 years residency in the US and only has a Green Card!!! What are my chances there for a green card anyway? 2 years? 3 years? LOL. And by the way, Even if I got a green card, I think it will be forfeited the first year cuz I will spend 10 months in SA without being able to come back as I cant return on every 6 months mark

Dont judge things when you dont know anything about it, oh and by the way, acting smartass makes you look like the opposite to it, just saying .

If the I-130 has been actioned, return the green card to USCIS with a covering letter stating that the relationship is no longer viable, a divorce will shortly be in process and that you do not want/require residence as a result. If it hasn't, just send a letter to USCIS outlining the same information.

Having declined residency should prove that you have no immigrant intent for future visits to the US for medical conferences.

Well, the i-130 was approved though it was only i-130 that was sent. I didn't send any other paperworks or such...So I dont have a green card either.

I dont think that i-407 is applicable to me anyway.

[Leatherneck 693]

You are 100% Correct! Thats the long story in short form....

Thanks for confirming my take on the motives of the family.

Hey Doc, get a divorce and when you travel to the USA, have a copy with you should the I-130 or your immigration intents become an issue during POE.

Edited June 7, 2014 by Leatherneck

[dixi27 5]

ignore the religious marriage,just divorce her that way,i am sure u already paid for mehr previous to the wedding,if not u ll have to pay it anyway after divorce,just get a layer and file for divorce,you have been married for only short time,she cant get any of your money or anything,find a layer first,start bu searching the net or ask any friends in the states if you have,good luck

[Propofol 1]

Thanks for confirming my take on the motives of the family.

Hey Doc, get a divorce and when you travel to the USA, have a copy with you should the I-130 or your immigration intents become an issue during POE.

Will do my dear Thanks for everything, been my honor to have you here on my post.

ignore the religious marriage,just divorce her that way,i am sure u already paid for mehr previous to the wedding,if not u ll have to pay it anyway after divorce,just get a layer and file for divorce,you have been married for only short time,she cant get any of your money or anything,find a layer first,start bu searching the net or ask any friends in the states if you have,good luck

Hey Dixi27, yeah I have already paid Mehr which was(35k) before the wedding.

I have already made up my mind and agreed with my lawyer and he will file for a divorce and will carry it to the end with my soon to be ex-wife. He will handle what is necessary to finish this once and forever, it is time for me to get over it and start thinking in myself again.

Thanks everybody for your contributions here, it gave me insight on some blind points I couldn't see before! I appreciate your assistance, all of you! And I wish if I can return the favor to any of you one day.

If you ever came to Saudi Arabia, feel free to contact me for anything you might need here! I am always ready to serve

N.B. I think it is time to close this post too Thanks.

Best of luck to everybody.

Edited June 7, 2014 by drhosamhb

[mrsaboody 0]

It's sad to hear about a family of such capabilities to do that to you. Did you believe your wife to be a pious woman before you sought out marriage? I agree with you being able to divorce her based on the grounds of her lying about virginity before marriage. I don't think that is information or a divorce case her parents would want to fight for. They may want it done hush hush and quickly if that will be your argument. Of course you know in Islam and Arab culture virginity is of highest importance before marriage and can shame a family's name. My husband is in Riyadh and he can give you information on our immigration attorney we use if you like. I also know an aggressive divorce attorney that handles high profile cases. You should even call and speak to the Imam that performed the Islamic ceremony "for advice and marital troubles of course" kind of airing her dirty laundry and explain it all to have him discuss with her family. That will also put pressure on them. Can I ask which state you was married at in the US? You already have a petition approval which is a good thing but you need to go in a different direction of getting a visa. First and foremost consult the immigration attorney. Inshallah all goes well for you.

[Boiler 45,923]

Well, take the other couple things into your consideration then Boiler.... She is 18 years old, only 2 years residency in the US and only has a Green Card!!! What are my chances there for a green card anyway? 2 years? 3 years? LOL. And by the way, Even if I got a green card, I think it will be forfeited the first year cuz I will spend 10 months in SA without being able to come back as I cant return on every 6 months mark

Dont judge things when you dont know anything about it, oh and by the way, acting smartass makes you look like the opposite to it, just saying .

Visiting every 6 months does not maintain your US Residency.

I fully understand that you have no wish to immigrate, hence my confusion in filing a i 130 when the only consequence is to potentially complicate any future visits.

[TBoneTX 45,873]

N.B. I think it is time to close this post too Thanks.

Best of luck to everybody.

Thread closed at OP's request.