Star Rant, The Empire Strikes Wack

[JTB11 1,079]

all done with pre-cooking for tomorrow...still waiting on stupid baked beans sigh....but got ribs marinating. chicken de-boned (pain) and bbq sauce cooked, tomorrow making apple/walnut/cheese/lime dressing salad and cooking the ribs and what else....oh yes....bacon crumbs and broil the beans.

in other news...hubs is hurt....I needed mustard at the store so i asked FIL since the hubs cannot drive...as i am walking out hubs is rushing behindish...so i told him "why would you be coming, i just need mustard" (especially since i have been going places on my own for how long ? and JUST told him let's just keep things civil and give each other break until november and see how stuff goes)....

either way...he locked himself in his room and is blasting his music.

[Ontarkie 14,229]

If he wants to work on things counselling is probably the only way as he doesn't communicate well.

[JTB11 1,079]

If he wants to work on things counselling is probably the only way as he doesn't communicate well.

ya we might do that in November once I have money and he moves ....if he moves.

I need this time to be honest because right now...I don't want to talk anymore.

Edited June 27, 2014 by JTB11

[Darnell 8,478]

you all talked out, also? I got that way yesterday.

Almost due for a move-out back to the farmhouse.

[JTB11 1,079]

you all talked out, also? I got that way yesterday.

Almost due for a move-out back to the farmhouse.

uh oh....what happened.

[JTB11 1,079]

you all talked out, also? I got that way yesterday.

Almost due for a move-out back to the farmhouse.

and yes I am done talking....could put a book together with all the stuff I had typed up and all the talking. He had plenty of opportunity and now he decided to be communicative and tag along just so he can say "oh but I tried it is you who did not respond well". If that makes him sleep better at night....fine.

Besides...he could have had a DL by now and then I would have asked him to take me. He did not so he can sit here and sulk.

[Ontarkie 14,229]

After all this time of you trying and him not, a break is needed. If it's possible try to get him in counselling before the move.

[JTB11 1,079]

After all this time of you trying and him not, a break is needed. If it's possible try to get him in counselling before the move.

I am not ready to talk actually....I don't even know if I will be. One of the things I know I do ....let things go on and keep trying until a point is reached and I just cannot for the life of me turn back and try again. It is like a wall....if we went to counseling I would not want to waste my breath on things I already said millions of times that is why the break, I will be gone in a couple of weeks anyhow. He can get his DL/GED he can send me emails or better yet...call me if he wants and I will try to see if i can actually be responsive...right now it does not feel that way but I am in a bad place as far as me and him go so who knows.

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

I am not ready to talk actually....I don't even know if I will be. One of the things I know I do ....let things go on and keep trying until a point is reached and I just cannot for the life of me turn back and try again. It is like a wall....if we went to counseling I would not want to waste my breath on things I already said millions of times that is why the break, I will be gone in a couple of weeks anyhow. He can get his DL/GED he can send me emails or better yet...call me if he wants and I will try to see if i can actually be responsive...right now it does not feel that way but I am in a bad place as far as me and him go so who knows.

If he can't even bother getting the driver's license and GED this summer and enrolling in a community college class in the fall, perhaps he isn't showing any effort at all?

I hate people that are all talk like that.

[JTB11 1,079]

If he can't even bother getting the driver's license and GED this summer and enrolling in a community college class in the fall, perhaps he isn't showing any effort at all?

I hate people that are all talk like that.

ya..he talks all right. Is how I lost my respect for him in the first place...he talked about doing this and that and then just went

"oh well I thought that when we get married things will just snap for me and I will be motivated to do all this but sorry did not happen"

*more throwing hands in the air*

[Merrytooth 5,748]

ya..he talks all right. Is how I lost my respect for him in the first place...he talked about doing this and that and then just went

"oh well I thought that when we get married things will just snap for me and I will be motivated to do all this but sorry did not happen"

*more throwing hands in the air*

He has higher chance of being struck by lightning than has the stars aligning nicely for him

[Novembro 1,763]

I also fought with the husband tonight.

Day of sads.

But now I have wine and these:

TH is gone playing football. The Bachelorette time for me.

[JTB11 1,079]

finished baking beans !! They are yummy, me thinks.

[Novembro 1,763]

beans beans the magical fruit

[JTB11 1,079]

beans beans the magical fruit