Goodbye

[maggieNomar 0]

This will most likely be my final post in MENA, if not in VJ all together. I have learned a lot from you guys, but the time has come for me to depart. While I am sad to go, I cannot participate in this 3rd grade BS anymore.

I thought this site was to help others get through what can be an incredibly hard process. Especially when dealing with SOs in the middle east. Those who have been through it know how hard it is to wait and wait and maybe even be denied for no good reason and then fight like hell to win. But you know when you are with people who have been there, they will guide you, help you, cry with you, whatever it takes to get you through to success. I have watched others get their visas, reunite and marry, and I cheered every one of them on, even though it hurt because they interviewed after us. I wanted those same people to give me dancing yellow guys when my turn came. I went through hard times, and there were people who were there for me every step, people I thought were real friends. Sucker that I am. The saddest part for me is that the people I thought were my friends were the ones that hurt me the most in the end.

I rarely if ever got caught up in the drama of others. It seems that although I have tried to be friendly/nice towards everyone, that is not allowed here. I did not read in the TOS that there were police here who will PM you when you talk to someone they do not like. It's the freaking internet. We will never meet 95% of the people we see on here. So why the big deal??? Why is it you have to choose what you can and cannot reply to because Susie won't talk to you if you do? I tried to simply ignore the PMs, which came from more than one person, but no, they just kept coming. This process is hard as hell at times. And to have to deal with this kind of drama is flat out ridiculous. So for that reason, this forum no longer serves the purpose I came here for.

I wish those of you who are together all the happiness in the world, and those of you still waiting a speedy visa in hand celebration.

[jordanianprincess 0]

Did I miss something?

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Women are so stupid.

[jordanianprincess 0]

Women are so stupid.

and Men are pigs...so what is your point?

[Sofiyya 1,687]

Sweetie, I added you to my friends list just yesterday! Sorry about the PMs. I don't get them, but I'm often a subject of them, I hear.

I hope you reconsider, but best wishes to you, whatever you choose.

[Henia 11]

Bonne Chance!

Did I miss something?

I think I missed something too.

[peezey 0]

Dramatic goodbye posts are 3rd grade B.S. IMO.

[brnidokiegurl 0]

Hope you stay, and the PMS are childish as you said. THis group can have so much to offer to others that need the help, me included, but we (or I) already know how to fight and argue. I don't see any other group being made fun of so much as this one, I liked Maggie and I think those of you responsible for her words will see yourselves, but then again you probably wont.

[sarah and hicham 3]

yallah!

Hope you stay, and the PMS are childish as you said. THis group can have so much to offer to others that need the help, me included, but we (or I) already know how to fight and argue. I don't see any other group being made fun of so much as this one, I liked Maggie and I think those of you responsible for her words will see yourselves, but then again you probably wont.

And just the other day I thought you were an advocate for "two sides to every story".

[Henia 11]

Hope you stay, and the PMS are childish as you said. THis group can have so much to offer to others that need the help, me included, but we (or I) already know how to fight and argue. I don't see any other group being made fun of so much as this one, I liked Maggie and I think those of you responsible for her words will see yourselves, but then again you probably wont.

I personally learned 95% of my visa info in the first 2 months of being on VJ... I just to stay to earn my little heart, then cos it was so funny here... very lively overall nice bunch.

[Fandango 1,440]

yallah!

Hope you stay, and the PMS are childish as you said. THis group can have so much to offer to others that need the help, me included, but we (or I) already know how to fight and argue. I don't see any other group being made fun of so much as this one, I liked Maggie and I think those of you responsible for her words will see yourselves, but then again you probably wont.

And just the other day I thought you were an advocate for "two sides to every story".

[jordanianprincess 0]

I don't think anyone can be responsible for making you leave. You can simply ignore those people who you don't care for and continue to interact with the ones you do care for. Needless to say, I don't get along with everyone on this forum but that doesn't stop me from coming here. There is no reason to let other intimidate you and there is no reason to take everyone so personally because as the OP said, this is only the internet.

I also agree with Peezey here and have always felt that long dramatic posts of saying goodbye are just as childish as the fights that may lead up to it. Everyone seems to have a full understanding that this forum is dysfunctional for lack of a better word and many don't have an issue following along fights between other people and often chiming in. Just get over it!

[brnidokiegurl 0]

Always two sides one right one wrong

[peezey 0]

Always two sides one right one wrong

Now you're just trying to be funny, right?

I don't think anyone can be responsible for making you leave. You can simply ignore those people who you don't care for and continue to interact with the ones you do care for. Needless to say, I don't get along with everyone on this forum but that doesn't stop me from coming here. There is no reason to let other intimidate you and there is no reason to take everyone so personally because as the OP said, this is only the internet.

I also agree with Peezey here and have always felt that long dramatic posts of saying goodbye are just as childish as the fights that may lead up to it. Everyone seems to have a full understanding that this forum is dysfunctional for lack of a better word and many don't have an issue following along fights between other people and often chiming in. Just get over it!

Not to mention I find it strange that the discussions, arguments, debates, fights that go on here end up in people thinking the other is now their sworn enemy. There are few things less immature than that.

[sarah and hicham 3]

Always two sides one right one wrong

Now you're just trying to be funny, right?

I sure as hell hope so!