How can a mid-20's man be in love with mid-50's woman?

[GandD 5,966]

Wow, you're going for it huh?

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

Wow, you're going for it huh?

It's good to have a hobby.

[Jwen 4]

Hey maven Sound of Music is my favourite all time movie..Like the twist with the guns blazing

[QueenComley 295]

The good old saying "age is just a number" really annoys me.

Age is NOT just a number. Your age reflects your maturity, your outlook on life, your achievements, your maturity, your mind set, your life experiences, your life goals, your hopes and dreams for the future etc....People who say age is just a number are fooling themselves. Im not against relationships where there is a vast age difference, but the fact remains that age is not "Just a number" for the simple reasons listed above.

That said, it should not be pre-determined that everyone who is in a relationship where there is a vast age difference is in it primarily for a green card. Humans fall in love for many reasons, and just because it may seem odd or unusual to some, it does not mean that that relationship is wrong.

[Jacque67 7,328]

You know what really makes me sick? When I see people that I don't want to screw together as a couple. Just think about that for a minute. They're having SEX with each other. God how gross.

Fat people, short people, tall people, ones with handicaps, colored people, old people, young people, ones that wear clothes I don't like or stupid religions, democrats, republicans, south-siders, people that drive old cars or play badmitton. I could just puke thinking about all the people out there that I don't want to have sex with - and yet there they are, banging away as if they actually LIKED it.

It has to be something else, right? They can't be ATTRACTED to each other or have FEELINGS - because I don't. And come to think of it there are people that eat snails, bugs, raw fish, or God Help Us - they watch cars driving around in circles for 500 miles and scream as if they were EXCITED about it.

I am the smartest, most insightful person since the beginning of time, the perfect human, more God than human and it follows that people who do different from me are not just wrong, but stinking, putrid puddles of writhing evil bacteria that could very well infect the earth and kill us off.

Any questions for His Majesty?

Are you John Cleese?

[Fan_Dancer 171]

I am sure there are exceptions when it comes to big age gaps. But in the immigration context, especially when the young party is from a very poor country, I don't think love has anything to do with it.

I saw women in their 60s trying to bring over men in their 20s, because "age is just a number". Somehow, if you suggested that they hook up with someone 90+, it became gross. Age is just a number when it works in your favor.

Personally I couldn't do it. I guess I have too little self esteem but I am paralyzed at the idea that my partner might be disgusted when touching me.

[Krikit 1,165]

Personal attack removed.

The good old saying "age is just a number" really annoys me.

Age is NOT just a number. Your age reflects your maturity, your outlook on life, your achievements, your maturity, your mind set, your life experiences, your life goals, your hopes and dreams for the future etc....People who say age is just a number are fooling themselves. Im not against relationships where there is a vast age difference, but the fact remains that age is not "Just a number" for the simple reasons listed above.

There are lots of young people who are much more mature than people who are older. Maturity has nothing to do with age.

[OnMyWayID 1,489]

Yes yes yes ... Young foreign girls put up profiles on Cherry Blossoms or some other site with provocative photos saying they really have a thing for western men while the young foreign guys troll facebook or language learning or whatever social sites looking for older "vulnerable" women and try to fake a natural meeting "oh hi, I was interested in that comment you made about Raleigh and I happened to glance at your photo and you really caught my eye! blah blah."

I look at a lot of these cases and wonder how people could be so naive and others I am convinced are real.. I am no doubt wrong times on both sides. They fill out the paperwork, plead their case, somebody makes a decision (I would hater that job). If both sides are happy and not defrauding the government or the other person of money I really have a hard time mustering up a lot of care for the subject.

[Novembro 1,763]

Personal attack removed.

You forgot to remove the ridiculous, outlandish, inflammatory post when you removed mine.

Thanks.

[QueenComley 295]

Personal attack removed.

There are lots of young people who are much more mature than people who are older. Maturity has nothing to do with age.

Im 36, If I dated a 20 year old guy, no matter how "mature" he is for his age, how exactly does the phrase "age is just a number" come into play???

I have loved and lost, I spent my 20's island hopping the Mediterranean parting, I have been divorced, owned my own home, fought my way up the corporate ladder, Im a step mother of two, aged 9 and 11. No matter how mature a 20 year old may be, would they have experienced the vast majority of what I have? Age IS more than a number. You cram new experiences into each precious year you live. those experiences make you who you are as a person, its those experiences and those extra years that make you think the way you do and act the way you do. Age most certainly is NOT just a number when it comes to a relationship.

[Kathryn41 3,205]

Just for the record - this post is meant as pure satire - and one of the finest examples I have ever read .

You know what really makes me sick? When I see people that I don't want to screw together as a couple. Just think about that for a minute. They're having SEX with each other. God how gross.

Fat people, short people, tall people, ones with handicaps, colored people, old people, young people, ones that wear clothes I don't like or stupid religions, democrats, republicans, south-siders, people that drive old cars or play badmitton. I could just puke thinking about all the people out there that I don't want to have sex with - and yet there they are, banging away as if they actually LIKED it.

It has to be something else, right? They can't be ATTRACTED to each other or have FEELINGS - because I don't. And come to think of it there are people that eat snails, bugs, raw fish, or God Help Us - they watch cars driving around in circles for 500 miles and scream as if they were EXCITED about it.

I am the smartest, most insightful person since the beginning of time, the perfect human, more God than human and it follows that people who do different from me are not just wrong, but stinking, putrid puddles of writhing evil bacteria that could very well infect the earth and kill us off.

Any questions for His Majesty?

[Fan_Dancer 171]

If that is among the best satires you've ever read, lol.

[Jacque67 7,328]

Just for the record - this post is meant as pure satire - and one of the finest examples I have ever read .

I agree. It reminded me of Monty Python. Great piece of writing IMO!

[GandD 5,966]

Just for the record - this post is meant as pure satire - and one of the finest examples I have ever read .

I'm sure the google searchers you guys have been talking about will see it that way.

[Darnell 8,479]

Are you John Cleese?

I die'd when I read that - knowing the bit it was paraphrased from. omg... Stellar-licious-ly funny !