What happens if you miss interview?

[christeen 966]

Nobody knows that answer... You have been around this site to know better Han to ask that question... C'mon stop being silly and wait till tomorrow...

[Nich-Nick 3,354]

I don't want to get my hopes up in case he doesn't get approved.

Your hopes are already up. You are engaged to be married. Does that make you happy? Then be happy.

You are choosing negative. You find the most remote, ancient details on the internet to perseverate over. Things that nobody finds. But yet you don't read the Visa Journey UK forum daily threads that chit chat about what people take to the embassy, what people got asked, how they know when the visa is issued, what if you forgot something. It's talked about over and over again.

So why ask about denial chances when you have made up your mind that will be the outcome. 300 positive statements will not change your mind. You sabotage your happiness.

List your concerns for the reason he would be denied. What specifically is tormenting you today?

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[christeen 966]

Oooo... new game to get the OP's mind off worrying.... the Whats Tormenting me today game? Lets see....

1. That I accidentally hit "reply all" on an explicit or snarkey email

2. Being it is throwback Thursday on FB someone will post an old photo of me looking good and think "wow she looks terrible now"

3. I think my milk this morning was expired, will I get sick?

4. I think the gift bag I used for a party last week was the same bag she gave me last year... Is that rude?

Anyway... No reason to think you would be denied...

[Rebecca Jo 1,962]

I think you should make a plan about what you will do after the denial. Like where you will live and stuff like that. Look around at apartments in the city he lives in. Stuff like that.

It's not like the UK is a third world country. You could live there quite happily.

[Novembro 1,763]

But that would be another immigration process and we all know how this one has gone...

[QueenComley 295]

Unless Im completely out of the loop... if your a genuine couple, with all the paper work and documents required then they should not have grounds to deny your fiancé.

I can not begin to tell you the stress and the worry I put myself under when I received the interview date for my actual AOS ( I know you haven't even got to that part yet). My sleeping pattern consisted of me existing on 3 hours sleep a night, from the minute I received the interview notice letter up to the date of my interview. I actually suffer with severe anxiety (I suspect you do also), and I played the worst scenario and outcome possible in my head over and over and over. Not only did I have my husband to consider if the outcome was bad, but I had to consider the effect it would have on My step-daughter and Step-son.

Leading up to the big day we quarreled quite a bit, and I went over my paperwork and documents ten thousands times. All that worry and stress was NOT worth it. Had I tried to sit down and think through logically and calmly I would have realized that there were no grounds to deny my green card. I had a fantastic immigration attorney who would answer all my calls and emails when I was frantic at midnight thinking I was going to get a big fat No at my interview. He would patiently calm me down and promise me my case was so bog standard, with no red flags and the only issue I had was my worrying LOL. The interview itself???? In and out in less than 5 minutes with an approval for my green card.

Try and look further than your worries and anxiety. You guys love each other. Your genuine. You have all the documents and required paperwork to prove it. I so wish I had looked at it from a different perspective, I wish I had looked at it as this amazing, exciting journey. But instead I fretted and made myself sick with worry. What a waste of precious time that I will never get back.

I have a sneaky feeling your gonna be a very happy lady tomorrow. Please keep us all posted.

[corvusheart 163]

My concern is him missing a couple docs I'm not sure if he has MRV or courrier receipt. If he forgets a doc does that mean denial?

[christeen 966]

You have been here lng enough to know that it means he will get a 221g a request to turn in the documents or missing items...

[kehills 217]

No one can tell you if he will be denied or approved. No one can give you the magic percentage change you're asking for. No matter how many times you ask. No matter how many threads you create. No matter how many ways you ask it. Because we don't know. Do you really, honestly want people to grab a magic number out of thin air?

Fine. He has no chance. Do you feel better?

He has a 10% chance.

He has an 87.32195786% chance.

No one knows. What everyone does know is what everyone keeps telling you: the process. The process isn't going to change between posts.

You need to calm down. Take up knitting. Yoga. Walk a dog. Because this is not the end of the road, by a long shot, and you're not going to help yourself, your fiancé, your friendships, your eventual marriage, or the whole of life by panicking every time a form is due or an interview has to happen. Settle down, participate in threads that aren't about you, read up on the process in region specific forums, and prepare for a couple of years of paperwork and interviews and handling what-if's.

[CLMIKE 22]

I'm so excited. The potential!

[Novembro 1,763]

Just wait for AOS.

[Mbrennan 15]

Or when the CEAC status goes to 'administrative processing' (standard for London)

[QueenComley 295]

(quote inappropriate comment already removed, also removed - VJ Moderation)

As for AOS....I was going to say the same.

OP, try to minimize your stress levels. If you have no red flags and are organized and prepared there should be no problem.

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[Ryan H 3,828]

***Looking at the OP's signature, her fiance has had a successful interview which means this thread has now run its course and is closed to additional discussion.***