Roll Call of Fallen Commrades

[Teddy B 17,252]

Running, playing hockey, exercising the dog = active healthy lifestyle. I'm a pack a day smoker (not filtered Camels). Put it this way, my last two bear hunts were done out at the landfill while sitting in my truck with a fifth of cuervo.

That's my kind of bear hunt.

The running and hockey don't happen anymore. I smoked a pack a day til my late 30's, best thing I ever did was quit those nasty sticks.

[IB6UB9 42]

Mine was an arranged marriage. I knew almost nothing about mine before I agreed. Basic stats and a picture. I just said I don't want a fat slob and that I was ready to settle down permanently.

[GandD 5,966]

I don't know. I was attracted to my wife by her personality, simplicity, morals. I quickly bypassed all the women in sexy poses etc etc. I was looking for a strong, independent, woman with Morals. She is very attractive in my eyes, but in a modest simple way.

Despite all my talk in here, she runs our house, without question. She does a lot for me and I do a lot for her, not because I am a man or she is a woman. It's because we respect each other as people. I just got done cooking her breakfast while she slept.

INMHO the people, who go on and on about men being scared of a strong smart women are just as bad as the people who go on and on about a woman being in the home, doing chores etc.

The truth is make your spouse the most important thing in your life and treat them as a friend first. Then all that Women s role, mens role BS will not matter .People will assume whatever role they are comfortable with.

How could you be attracted to your wife's personality by looking at a picture? What made you choose to make contact with her profile? I'm not disputing the eventual take over of personality attraction over the course of most successful partnerships. I'm just saying we all judge physically first. No doubt you were looking for a "companion" which probably made you choose a more conservative profile pic based on your assumption that the "super hots" would be too much work or cost too much or whatever. Look what kip said about the older woman vs the younger woman in the two pics from earlier. Just by looking at the picture, we assume one would be a better wife and one would be more fun in bed. Based on what you want in the future, you choose accordingly.

[luckytxn 2,264]

They are the best. Just take the time needed. Have some fun beforehand until you know you found the one. That last one was nowhere ready to settle down. Find one that is ready.

Running, playing hockey, exercising the dog = active healthy lifestyle. I'm a pack a day smoker (not filtered Camels). Put it this way, my last two bear hunts were done out at the landfill while sitting in my truck with a fifth of cuervo.

There's some smoking hot Filipino gals but I have a thing for tall chicks with that RUB accent...that and the stiletto heels pressed against the back of my head while their wearing a mini skirt and thigh highs.

I hear ya and I'm going to take my time this time around and try and make a better choice. That gal in Kyiv I really like a lot is still blowing me off even after she got the flowers, candy, etc... delivered to her today at her work, but I'm going to give her a little cool down time and see if she finally see's the light and comes to daddy. That one is hard headed for sure.

[The Nature Boy 4,224]

How could you be attracted to your wife's personality by looking at a picture? What made you choose to make contact with her profile? I'm not disputing the eventual take over of personality attraction over the course of most successful partnerships. I'm just saying we all judge physically first. No doubt you were looking for a "companion" which probably made you choose a more conservative profile pic based on your assumption that the "super hots" would be too much work or cost too much or whatever. Look what kip said about the older woman vs the younger woman in the two pics from earlier. Just by looking at the picture, we assume one would be a better wife and one would be more fun in bed. Based on what you want in the future, you choose accordingly.

Ok point to you

[GandD 5,966]

Ok point to you

It is what it is and I don't think there's anything wrong with per say. Unfortunately you apparently had bad experiences with American women but sometimes you guys act like you "had" to go oversea's to get a "good" or "sexy" woman which is when the local women begin to take offense. And its understandable why.

[luckytxn 2,264]

Well I do it to needle the babes here to get a rile up. Many good American babes. As for me I always have traveled when able and to Asian countries usually so it is no big deal to me. Some will go for it as they wanted a sense of adventure also and have thought of traveling anyway to other exotic locations. They may have looked at sites and seen someone that intrigued them enough to chat. Whatever the reason we are happy.

It is what it is and I don't think there's anything wrong with per say. Unfortunately you apparently had bad experiences with American women but sometimes you guys act like you "had" to go oversea's to get a "good" or "sexy" woman which is when the local women begin to take offense. And its understandable why.

[The Nature Boy 4,224]

It is what it is and I don't think there's anything wrong with per say. Unfortunately you apparently had bad experiences with American women but sometimes you guys act like you "had" to go oversea's to get a "good" or "sexy" woman which is when the local women begin to take offense. And its understandable why.

I actually had good experiences with American women, and lots of em LOL. In fact my friends started dating Filipinos already here . They encouraged me to settle down and meet a good girl from the province.

As my wife says. before I came, you went from woman to woman and only came home to sleep and bathe. I saved you from all that ROFL

[Leatherneck 693]

Mine was an arranged marriage. I knew almost nothing about mine before I agreed. Basic stats and a picture. I just said I don't want a fat slob and that I was ready to settle down permanently.

Then you really are one lucky guy! Such a monumental decision done in that manner -- took courage, or several shots of... name your adult beverage.

[luckytxn 2,264]

I trusted her Uncle and Aunt I had gotten to know. I had misgivings because of the age difference though but they proved me wrong.

Then you really are one lucky guy! Such a monumental decision done in that manner -- took courage, or several shots of... name your adult beverage.

[spookyturtle 9,465]

Getting back into the money is the main goal of course but I won't rest until she gets sent back. My uncle offered to have her taken care of but I want to do this legal like. I was all into settling down this last time. I never cheated on her once since we got married and I stayed out of the bars.

As far as getting another broad from over there...man spooks the pickings up here totally suck. At my age I'm stuck with the bar rats that have that rode hard put away wet look and they usually have some serious issues ....either booze, mental hang ups, twisted lifestyle or all of the above. One of my RUB honeys turned me on to a singles site which is actually a Facebook app. I killed it on that site and added about 40 = 50 broads to my Skype and started narrowing it down from there. Now I found one that's only three years younger than me, she's a chemist turned school teacher, she speaks ok English and doesn't have any kids. The problem with her is she's into classical music, ballet, and other stupid #######. She likes going to concerts and plays at the theatre and I can only guess how she would handle life with me up here. She mentioned having a friend in NYC and that right there can be construed as a red flag. It took me forever and a lifetime to finally get her to show me her boobs on cam and that only happened when she got loaded off of wine while talking with me on cam for hours one night.

Here's a few pics of her.

Now to give you an idea of what she's up against...here's another gal on my Skype...she's a cheerleader over there for a basketball team..and she does gymnastics.

The older one would probably make for a better wife and long term partner, but if your interests are too different, that's no good either. And she is attractive too. How old is she, 40's? Nice smile, nice figure.

[spookyturtle 9,465]

Since I'm bored atm, I'l post a few fishing vids made with the phone when I was fishing with my nephews a few days ago and today. NSFW... a few bad words in the vids. The oldest boy is 11..he's a fishing fanatic and his brother is 9. Both of these kids play on all star hockey teams in Anchorage.

It looks like a good time was had by all!

[Jacque67 7,328]

The older one would probably make for a better wife and long term partner, but if your interests are too different, that's no good either. And she is attractive too. How old is she, 40's? Nice smile, nice figure.

She wouldn't like Alaska. Don't make her suffer.

Are there really no decent women in your neighbourhood ?

[luckytxn 2,264]

That is a huge leap of judgement that you can't know.

I will say that I want to introduce him to an awesome VN babe I know but.....Alaska?

She wouldn't like Alaska. Don't make her suffer.

Edited May 28, 2014 by luckytxn

[Jacque67 7,328]

But seriously, any foreigner who is willing to move to Alaska, is going to be ambitious and try to move on once in the States. How about a divorced RUB who is living in the States?