Roll Call of Fallen Commrades

[IB6UB9 42]

I'm not sure exactly how old you are, but I think we're fairly close, I'm 50. There comes a time in a man's life when this type of lifestyle is no longer desirable. Granted it comes at different times for different folks, but it definitely comes. I was never on the level of partying and womanizing that you've posted here, but I did like to have my share of fun. My party days came to an abrupting halt in my early 40's, it was like someone flipped a switch and not only did I not enjoy that lifestyle anymore, but my body couldn't handle it either. I still like to kick back a few and have fun, but nothing like I did 10 years ago. It's a big deal if I see 11pm on a Saturday night.

My advice, from one man to another, for whatever it's worth, is plan for that day to come sooner than later. It would really suck to wake up one day with a 20 something wife and realize you just can't do it anymore. But good luck in whatever you chose to do.

I'm totally with ya on that one. I just hit 50 last month and I was ready to settle down with this last one. I toned it down to 1st gear when she got here... granted that village ####### hole only had two bars and both of them are major dives. I need to find one that doesn't get bored...has hobbies and doesn't mind me kicking back watching football. The last thing I need is one of those super active chicks who likes to go out a lot or one who's into the health thing like hiking, jogging and other time consuming ####### when I have satellite TV at home and a package that includes my movie channels and umpteen sports channels.

[Leatherneck 693]

My buddy is married to a Filipino gal and she's totally cool but there's something about RUB chicks that I like. With a RUB gal it's like one big chess match and that keeps it interesting. They can go from rocking your world in the sack to sticking a fork in your shoulder in the blink of an eye over a little joke they took the wrong way . They aren't submissive...and I went out with a submissive gal once for a few months and it got boring fast. If (some) RUB gals weren't so shady they would be near perfect imo.

Guess you still like life with some edge to it. Someday you'll want to 'slow your roll' a bit. There are women that are not "submissive" yet value a rather harmonious relationship.

One day, getting "your world rocked in the sack" will become less important --whereas peace, tranquility, and stability will be priceless. Consider, in 15-20 years from now, what happens when you can no longer rock that now 20 something's years old world in the sack? Looking back, a 30, 35, or 40 year old might not have been such a bad idea.

[Teddy B 17,252]

I'm totally with ya on that one. I just hit 50 last month and I was ready to settle down with this last one. I toned it down to 1st gear when she got here... granted that village ####### hole only had two bars and both of them are major dives. I need to find one that doesn't get bored...has hobbies and doesn't mind me kicking back watching football. The last thing I need is one of those super active chicks who likes to go out a lot or one who's into the health thing like hiking, jogging and other time consuming ####### when I have satellite TV at home and a package that includes my movie channels and umpteen sports channels.

My wife and I agree to give and take, we do the things we both like. More importantly, because we're both the same age, we like a lot of the same things, so finding things to do is never a problem. We joke and laugh about how active we used to be with sports and outdoor activities. I played ice hockey into my mid 40's and my wife used to run 7k every day, but now we have to tone it down to a brisk 45min walk with the dog every night after work and light exercise, otherwise we ache for a week after. We each do our own things too, but I have made a die hard Pats fan out of her so we watch the games together every Sunday.

Welcome back btw.

[IB6UB9 42]

Guess you still like life with some edge to it. Someday you'll want to 'slow your roll' a bit. There are women that are not "submissive" yet value a rather harmonious relationship.

One day, getting "your world rocked in the sack" will become less important --whereas peace, tranquility, and stability will be priceless. Consider, in 15-20 years from now, what happens when you can no longer rock that now 20 something's years old world in the sack? Looking back, a 30, 35, or 40 year old might not have been such a bad idea.

I hear ya but my ol man is 70 now and he still rides his Harley everywhere and is still slaying the ladies and his ol man wasn't any different. My grandpa was knocking boots with barmaids well into his late 70's and that was before Viagra. Even my great grandpa who owned a bar for years was getting his share of nurses when they finally stuck him in an old folks home. It might have something to do with those Dutch - Norwegian genes.

Edited May 28, 2014 by IB6UB9

[The Nature Boy 4,224]

My buddy is married to a Filipino gal and she's totally cool but there's something about RUB chicks that I like. With a RUB gal it's like one big chess match and that keeps it interesting. They can go from rocking your world in the sack to sticking a fork in your shoulder in the blink of an eye over a little joke they took the wrong way . They aren't submissive...and I went out with a submissive gal once for a few months and it got boring fast. If (some) RUB gals weren't so shady they would be near perfect imo.

i can promise you Pinay women are far from sumissive

Go here

you will never look back

http://www.filipinocupid.com/

[luckytxn 2,264]

Kip. We just want the best for you because we like you. We have found good babes and are happy. Please think about settling down.

I hear ya but my ol man is 70 now and he still rides his Harley everywhere and is still slaying the ladies and his ol man wasn't any different. My grandpa was knocking boots with barmaids well into his late 70's and that was before Viagra. Even my great grandpa who owned a bar for years was getting his share of nurses when they finally stuck him in an old folks home. It might have something to do with those Dutch - Norwegian genes.

[The Nature Boy 4,224]

Kip. We just want the best for you because we like you. We have found good babes and are happy. Please think about settling down.

I also don't know why folks think Asian women are submissive. My wife sure isn't.

Sure is quite today. I think the Mods are massing on the border. Even the Day shift posters are in hiding .

[The Nature Boy 4,224]

Speaking of Asian women. i am riding down the road yesterday and I get a phone call. Some guy asks if I am interested in a job. I was like, no not really. My wife hits me on the arm., are you crazy she asks? So then i tell the guy yeah maybe. Turned out to be a fairly lucrative job.

I wonder how he got my name, I guess that is the white male privilege thing I keep hearing about. I did post a resume on "the Man.com" last year. Maybe that's it

[Crashed~N2~Me 970]

My wife is Filipina. My wife is NOT a submissive. (& Thank God she is not) I am NOT a submissive. (but) WE are submissive to each other.

My wife strives to be an excellent wife & expects me to strive to be an excellent husband. This results = us being Best Friends. Equals. Partners.

We maintain the POV = A Husband or Wife which is truly empowered in their relationship puts the best maxed out love into the relationship.

I suspect a submissive Husband or Wife is incapable of maxing out their love meter when dominated by the other. & I suspect the dominator has no clue what he/she is missing out. (but) I suppose a narcissistic person doesn't really care anyway...so each their own..(shrug).

ETA: Is this thread taking a turn to Marriage advice..? Wow...this thread is a beast living it's own life the way it wants.

Edited May 28, 2014 by Crashed~N2~Me

[luckytxn 2,264]

Misconceptions. My wife is quiet but she is far from submissive. She somehow gets me to do what she wants even if I am sure I won't be doing it. Kip just has a preference for the white babes. Nothing is wrong with that. I for some reason had an eye for Asian babes. Nothing wrong with that.

I also don't know why folks think Asian women are submissive. My wife sure isn't.

Sure is quite today. I think the Mods are massing on the border. Even the Day shift posters are in hiding .

[decocker 7,198]

It would really suck to wake up one day with a 20 something wife and realize you just can't do it anymore. But good luck in whatever you chose to do.

like he'd have any issue with 'trading her in' for another. i doubt any guy can successfully settle down with any woman that is an object first and a human being second, or third (human probably comes after hard body).

Edited May 28, 2014 by val erie

[GandD 5,966]

Everyone judges would be spouses initially by appearance. Some just get a little obsessed with it.

[luckytxn 2,264]

Nice. Check it out at the least. Lucky your wife heard and woke you up. I am also satisfied with something I don't like to change and can miss out on greener pastures. I get calls and emails a lot but only in other truck driving jobs. I never put in a resume anywhere.

Speaking of Asian women. i am riding down the road yesterday and I get a phone call. Some guy asks if I am interested in a job. I was like, no not really. My wife hits me on the arm., are you crazy she asks? So then i tell the guy yeah maybe. Turned out to be a fairly lucrative job.

I wonder how he got my name, I guess that is the white male privilege thing I keep hearing about. I did post a resume on "the Man.com" last year. Maybe that's it

[decocker 7,198]

Everyone judges would be spouses initially by appearance.

they do?

[GandD 5,966]

they do?

Yeah, including you.