Star Rant, Return of the Jada

[Ontarkie 14,435]

oh the biking one looks more comfortable.

[NikLR 13,232]

Hello Asia

I'm annoyed at my husband. He goes out last weekend to pick up a few things ends up at a friends house. He makes plans for Saturday with them but really doesn't plan anything.. He wants them to come here and we cook. Well he doesn't bother to tell them that. He calls them finally on Wednesday and now we are going there, I wouldn't mind if he actually helped with our little tornado. They have 1 older kid who according to them was the perfect child who never got into anything. So ya I don't end up enjoying myself cause I'm stuck running around with daughter because she can't sit still and wants to play. I can't even let her play in the yard while we sit out on the porch because nothing is safe.

I feels for ya! maybe have talk that says "hey hubs... our daughter doesn't have fun at their house which means I don't have fun, which means you will NOT be having fun. Just sayin'"

brought up the house thing with hubs again. He keeps thinking i am forgetting about it because he is. But I'm not, I'm just trying really really really really hard not to nag and apparently am being very successful at it.

[JTB11 1,079]

13 miles, shower....omg all the dog carriers are awesome !!! lol !

[Darnell 8,479]

*shrugs*

and yes....Hubs had taken all his vacation time in Vermont already although he could have done a week he decided to leave me here while I do AOS so now he cannot go. MIL cannot go either. There might be one more person coming just don't know yet. They have a cabin there. He gets cabin and I get the "what do you call the thing that is pulled behind the car"...that.

omg - you gonna be in a trailer? sweet!

[Darnell 8,479]

Congrats!

Jada look this is perfect for you.

ok - get 3 backpacks, teenage size, and start ripping and cutting,

you can make this outta 3 backpacks !!!!!

YUM !

[SAT 9,609]

The proper nomenclature is camper

[Darnell 8,479]

I feels for ya! maybe have talk that says "hey hubs... our daughter doesn't have fun at their house which means I don't have fun, which means you will NOT be having fun. Just sayin'"

brought up the house thing with hubs again. He keeps thinking i am forgetting about it because he is. But I'm not, I'm just trying really really really really hard not to nag and apparently am being very successful at it.

google calendar.

make a recurring event, say twice a day, and have it send out notifications via sms/text notifications to both phones.

mischief managed.

The proper nomenclature is camper

i likes teardrop trailers - google it - go make yerself one this season.

can build them out of anything, and customize the kitchen as you desire !!! is fun !

but sleeping is only 2 people inside....

Edited May 24, 2014 by Darnell

[SAT 9,609]

My days of camping is finished old boy.....

[Ontarkie 14,435]

Now that is cool Darnell!

Have you seen one in person?

[SAT 9,609]

Now that is cool Darnell!

Have you seen one in person?

Isn't there one in your yard? Didn't you find one after mowing the lawn? Along with 4 cars and 16 empty cable reels?

I bought a used camper for the property upstate. A 27 ft Shasta in 2005? Never spent a night in it yet lol.

[NikLR 13,232]

So out of curiosity, how often CAN I say something without it being nagging?

[N-o-l-a 7,168]

So out of curiosity, how often CAN I say something without it being nagging?

Depends on what it is, but if it is this house buying thing, I wouldn't say outright, I'd be more like, "I'm going to call the realtor to get a showing at this house, do you want to come along?" "Can we get that pre-approval done this week?"

[SAT 9,609]

So out of curiosity, how often CAN I say something without it being nagging?

To me, you're already nagging

"Just saying"

[SAT 9,609]

Ok, I'm being serious now....

If the other person perceives it as nagging, then it's nagging.

And you're in your rights to want your own house.

[NikLR 13,232]

Okay well fine. I won't mention it to him again until Tuesday, when he told me to, and then never again after that. If we have to stay here another year paying an extra $105/month or pay $1495/month for a month to month lease because he doesn't get his butt in gear then so be it. It's his VA loan, his credit etc... I can't do anything about pre-approval or a loan so going to look at a house for me is stupid. I give up.

I'll just quit when I was planning to quit my job and go to school when I was planning on going.