Star Rant, Return of the Jada

[Darnell 8,479]

so, when you were alone in the house today,

was his door locked?

and if not,

whyinh3ll did you not go in there, and remove all power cords to all gear?

I say do that tomorrow, hide the power cords,

leave a handwritten note, "We must start talking face to face now"

and report back...

[SAT 9,609]

still using texting devices, I see. wth?

Fair Point. Apologies for leaning that way.

Hey this just occurred to me....perhaps he was conceived thru ####### sex? And that's why he's an.......

[JTB11 1,079]

and report back...

I won't do that. I cannot do that. There is this whole thing of me believing people are capable of using their brains and make choices...if he is so dumb that he doesnt realize face to face is important...then be it.

and btw...I tried the face to face....he told me or typed...later....that...he cannot come up with answers, it takes him a long time and he cannot follow..that by the time he comes up with something to say i am already miles away on something else. So i said "who the f...cares, just speak up for god sakes ..we will back track I dont care...say anything" and he came up with a story about how me asking him how the new hire at work is was difficult to answer to.....

seriously...either i am just a complete idiot or he is pulling random stuff out of his azz and focusing on the wrong things all together.

Hey this just occurred to me....perhaps he was conceived thru ####### sex? And that's why he's an.......

[Darnell 8,479]

honey - if you two not talk on that first bus-ride up to NYC and NOT get stuff sorted then,

then I give up trying to be helpful.

Why? you had him alone for 3 to 5 hours in a place where you both could not scream.

at the most, I can offer suggestions that will make his environs totally unlive-able but you'll come out smelling like the villain.

[JTB11 1,079]

honey - if you two not talk on that first bus-ride up to NYC and NOT get stuff sorted then,

then I give up trying to be helpful.

Why? you had him alone for 3 to 5 hours in a place where you both could not scream.

at the most, I can offer suggestions that will make his environs totally unlive-able but you'll come out smelling like the villain.

I had him 8 hours on bus and 4-5 hours waiting and i did make him talk....he came up with (after one hour of me talking)

"I hate NYC, I hate it hate it hate it....I think people are mean here and unhappy and rude and I dont want to be here"

that was second ride though. The first one he said nothing...he was nauseated...he only spoke later as i was going to the interview with his famous "I am not ready for NYC i dont want to be here"

Edited May 21, 2014 by JTB11

[N-o-l-a 7,168]

1 million sperm and Js hubs was the fastest one......

Sad.

and never having any baby at all ever, nope.

You'll change your mind, you are still young.

I had him 8 hours on bus and 4-5 hours waiting and i did make him talk....he came up with (after one hour of me talking)

"I hate NYC, I hate it hate it hate it....I think people are mean here and unhappy and rude and I dont want to be here"

that was second ride though. The first one he said nothing...he was nauseated...he only spoke later as i was going to the interview with his famous "I am not ready for NYC i dont want to be here"

He is such a f###tard, really. Plus, people in NYC are plenty nice.

[JTB11 1,079]

at the most, I can offer suggestions that will make his environs totally unlive-able but you'll come out smelling like the villain.

I am truly, at this stage, trying to find a way how we can find a common ground..be that..."we are done" or "we are both going to work on this" i am leaning towards the first since one of the things he mentioned via chat today is that "if we were to move some place he would not be getting a job or his GED as long as he was doing fine without it" which he would since i would be the one working...so ya.

[JTB11 1,079]

He is such a f###tard, really. Plus, people in NYC are plenty nice.

besides...what did he see in NYC that made him think so....people freezing their butts off ? Yah..I was plenty unhappy walking in the cold for 5 hours too and did not feel like smiling...so you know...basing it on what.....

of course he made a point out of "the only people that were nice you had to pay to" since i took him to the New York Palace lounge and for lunch there....like i care. It was good food sure they were kissing my butt cause i was paying and ?

[SAT 9,609]

"if we were to move some place he would not be getting a job or his GED as long as he was doing fine without it" which he would since i would be the one working...so ya.

He'd be very successful at being a failure

[Darnell 8,479]

he has had no social interaction with humans on levels that were meaningful,

growing up in such a stale environment.

IMO, he's frozen at age 11, maybe 12, and you cannot unfreeze him.

[JTB11 1,079]

He'd be very successful at being a failure

but he wouldn't care as long as he has place to sleep and place to play games...shrugs. I am just the wrong person for him period. I dont make him want to be a better man or have a way to motivate him. He feels like he is competing with me over things rather than us being partners. I am sure he would be a great man with someone else...someone better suited for him.

[Darnell 8,479]

I am truly, at this stage, trying to find a way how we can find a common ground..be that..."we are done" or "we are both going to work on this" i am leaning towards the first since one of the things he mentioned via chat today is that "if we were to move some place he would not be getting a job or his GED as long as he was doing fine without it" which he would since i would be the one working...so ya.

reminder - free marriage counseling through the county health services.

sure - it means he takes off of work, and sure, that means his mother takes off of work to drive his sorry @ss there, but so what? services are free. I'll leave it to you to find them.... on the internet... using the google....

[Ontarkie 14,365]

shorter version??

not sure why the other one had 2 mins of dead silence.

That is a pretty cool song!

I can FYL too, if you'd like

I hope Mr. Stretch didn't forget to bring his automatic shotgun just in case they came across some delicious wild game....

No shot gun but more deer.

bad Steve...bad !

sigh...MIL tried to lock the dog in her room for the night....been listening to her whine and scratch the door for 10 mins before she let her out into my room...uh just take care of the dog every day and she will want to be with you !! GOD !

horrible women, she must know you're fed up and is scared you will take the dog when you leave.

MIL wants to deprive you of the dogs company now?

they are terrible ppl

don't ask me...I learned to curse a lot in the recent past...it is driving me crazy. Like seriously...you won't speak to me in person nor will you even attempt to....grrrrrrrr.....there is a reason i want to scream

i learn to curse a lot when i married my ex

so, when you were alone in the house today,

was his door locked?

and if not,

whyinh3ll did you not go in there, and remove all power cords to all gear?

I say do that tomorrow, hide the power cords,

leave a handwritten note, "We must start talking face to face now"

and report back...

i like this idea too, i'd be nasty enough to tell him after i broke things oh wait i've done something like this.

I am truly, at this stage, trying to find a way how we can find a common ground..be that..."we are done" or "we are both going to work on this" i am leaning towards the first since one of the things he mentioned via chat today is that "if we were to move some place he would not be getting a job or his GED as long as he was doing fine without it" which he would since i would be the one working...so ya.

he wants you to be his mother not wife

but he wouldn't care as long as he has place to sleep and place to play games...shrugs. I am just the wrong person for him period. I dont make him want to be a better man or have a way to motivate him. He feels like he is competing with me over things rather than us being partners. I am sure he would be a great man with someone else...someone better suited for him.

no one is right for him

[SAT 9,609]

Um....I think J is out of love there Skip.....

[N-o-l-a 7,168]

but he wouldn't care as long as he has place to sleep and place to play games...shrugs. I am just the wrong person for him period. I dont make him want to be a better man or have a way to motivate him. He feels like he is competing with me over things rather than us being partners. I am sure he would be a great man with someone else...someone better suited for him.

Nope. I sincerely hope that another woman doesn't get stuck with him.