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Seems to be mentioned more often with Russian etc going to EU where it seems to be a factor. Never seen similar comments for PI.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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Thank you for your response; I understand better now. Your last sentence is most applicable to my family so perhaps they'll be able to do so the second go around.

Regards.

That's the problem, there's not a single piece of paper in the world that can PROVE an emotion such as intent or patriotism.

I have at home my Oath of Allegiance to Her Majesty Queen Lizzy MkII. To me it is a sincere oath of my love for my country when I signed up to fight for it.

As far as the US embassy are concerned it may as well be a piece of toilet paper.

It's down to how the applicant presents themselves at the interview. As lots of people say, most of the decision is made before the interview even happens. But it's at that window where the applicant has to persuade a total stranger of their intentions, in a system where you're guilty until you prove yourself innocent.

All you can do is tell the truth and hope for the best.

I will be trying again for a B2 at some point in the near future. I don't know what will happen but I can only do my best and be honest.

August 2000: We start e-mailing. I'm in Bosnia, she's in Florida

October 29th 2000: She sends me e-mail asking if I would marry her

October 29th 2000(5 seconds later): I say yes

November 2000: She sends me tickets to Orlando for when I get back

December 6th 2000: Return from Bos

December 11th 2000: Fly to Orlando, she meets me at airport

December 22nd 2000: I fly back to UK

January 3rd 2001: She flies to UK (Good times)

Mid February 2001: Pregnancy test Positive

Mid February 2001: She flies back to US

March 2001: Miscarriage, I fly to US on first flight I can get

May 2001: I leave US before my 90 days are up

June 2001: I fly back to US, stopped at airport for questioning as I had only just left

September 2001: Pregnancy test Positive again

September 2001: She falls sick, I make decision to stay to look after her as I am afraid I may have problems getting back in.

April 16th 2002: Our son is born, we start getting stuff together for his passport

March 6th 2003: We leave US for UK as family

Early April 2003: Family troubles make her return to US, I ask Embassy in London about possibilities of returning to US

April 16th 2003: London Embassy informs me that I will be banned from the Visa Waiver Program for 10 years, my little boys first birthday

June 13th 2006: I-129f sent

August 11th 2006: NOA1 Recieved

After our relationship breaks down she admits to me that she had never bothered to start the application process

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That's the problem, there's not a single piece of paper in the world that can PROVE an emotion such as intent or patriotism.

I have at home my Oath of Allegiance to Her Majesty Queen Lizzy MkII. To me it is a sincere oath of my love for my country when I signed up to fight for it.

As far as the US embassy are concerned it may as well be a piece of toilet paper.

It's down to how the applicant presents themselves at the interview. As lots of people say, most of the decision is made before the interview even happens. But it's at that window where the applicant has to persuade a total stranger of their intentions, in a system where you're guilty until you prove yourself innocent.

All you can do is tell the truth and hope for the best.

I will be trying again for a B2 at some point in the near future. I don't know what will happen but I can only do my best and be honest.

I'm commenting specifically regarding the Philippines, but it's applicable to other countries as well. It's true, the Philippines doesn't have the best track record, but it's understandable and unfortunate at the same time.

Yes, it's problematic on more than one level. And it would be equally accurate to say that there's not a single piece of paper or document in the world that CAN'T be forged making any presentation a moot point unless the CO has a "belief" in their validity. (Provided they're asked for and reviewed.)

Reflecting on what you mention about how one presents themselves at the interview, (in my mind) it should indeed play a role in the CO's consideration but I can't help but wonder if the CO's take into account the very real possibility that many applicant's do not speak English very well. Even if a translator were utilized, that person wouldn't be able to accurately convey the intentions of the applicant. It's not outside the realm of understanding that many people feel intimidated by their mere presence at the embassy much less being in front of the CO. People get nervous, people sweat, become figidty...we're imperfect humans. It's not a perfect system, myself and others I believe understand that. I don't envy the difficulty the CO's deal with day in and day out, but at the end of the day, I truly believe they have the best interests of the US at hand.

As for yourself, perhaps you'll be successful. I will express similar sentiments (and others) to my wife's family so they may better understand this. They will apply again in another 4 months; I will NOT recommend they attempt to establish a "travel history".

Thank you for commenting MacUK, I hope this conversation will give the OP some insight.

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Documents cannot prove intent...if you believe otherwise, then point to one and demonstrate how a piece of paper can 100% guarantee that the applicant will depart the US (and not work illegally) when they are supposed to. I cannot think of one.

Yes, the applicants are 'guilty' until proven innocent, but that's the way our laws are written...now, if our congress (the worst money has bought!) would show some courage (that'll be the day!) and actually legislate and support laws that would end visa abuse, perhaps more people might get visas...but with the lax enforcement, unwillingness to apply penalties for those who thumb their noses at our laws, allow easy changes of status, etc...well, I don't blame the COs for being tough...after all, no one else is minding the store!

If I were 'king' and in charge of our laws, I would do the following:

1- end all waivers...period. NO salvation by marrying some desperate person living in a trailer park ...you overstay, you are barred...period. No exceptions.

2- end automatic admissions of six months...make it 3 instead....and if you think you deserve more, be fully prepared to explain why...

3- end extensions for the same reason as above...exception: you are in a coma.

4- end ALL changes/adjustments of status except from the K1...

5- EWIs should be barred permanently no matter who they marry...

6- get caught working, pay all back taxes on those under-the-table earnings before you are deported...if you refuse, barred permanently.

7- H1Bs - companies should be required to scout for qualified American citizens before handing over a job to someone from another country. Exception: the applicant has found a cure for cancer.

8- Create a better system for screening marriage fraud.

9- bottom line: cease tolerating abuse or willful disobedience of our laws....there is NO excuse.

10- asylum - end it. All that happens is our country will fill up with carefully coached liars and miscreants.

Now, I imagine I will hear a lot of flack...'oh, you are so mean'...so what? Whose country is it? Mine? Or somebody else's from another country. I want legitimate tourists, students, etc...not those who lie, cheat and scam their way into the US, then suddenly claim (while weeping mightily) how they 'want to be legal.'...sorry...you had your chance...

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Reflecting on what you mention about how one presents themselves at the interview, (in my mind) it should indeed play a role in the CO's consideration but I can't help but wonder if the CO's take into account the very real possibility that many applicant's do not speak English very well. Even if a translator were utilized, that person wouldn't be able to accurately convey the intentions of the applicant. It's not outside the realm of understanding that many people feel intimidated by their mere presence at the embassy much less being in front of the CO. People get nervous, people sweat, become figidty...we're imperfect humans.

Speaking as someone for whom English is my first language I admit I don't think much about how difficult it could be for people from other countries, but I'd like to think that those COs who are assigned to non English speaking embassies would be well aware of language barrier problems and take it into consideration.

As to fidgetiness (not sure if that's a real word but I like the sound of it), I pride myself that I'm a calm disciplined confident man who has always stood firm when under pressure.

But when I walked up to that window I felt like I was a kid again, being sent to the Headmasters office for doing something stupid in class. I dread to think how horrendous it must be for anyone with a more nervous disposition.

August 2000: We start e-mailing. I'm in Bosnia, she's in Florida

October 29th 2000: She sends me e-mail asking if I would marry her

October 29th 2000(5 seconds later): I say yes

November 2000: She sends me tickets to Orlando for when I get back

December 6th 2000: Return from Bos

December 11th 2000: Fly to Orlando, she meets me at airport

December 22nd 2000: I fly back to UK

January 3rd 2001: She flies to UK (Good times)

Mid February 2001: Pregnancy test Positive

Mid February 2001: She flies back to US

March 2001: Miscarriage, I fly to US on first flight I can get

May 2001: I leave US before my 90 days are up

June 2001: I fly back to US, stopped at airport for questioning as I had only just left

September 2001: Pregnancy test Positive again

September 2001: She falls sick, I make decision to stay to look after her as I am afraid I may have problems getting back in.

April 16th 2002: Our son is born, we start getting stuff together for his passport

March 6th 2003: We leave US for UK as family

Early April 2003: Family troubles make her return to US, I ask Embassy in London about possibilities of returning to US

April 16th 2003: London Embassy informs me that I will be banned from the Visa Waiver Program for 10 years, my little boys first birthday

June 13th 2006: I-129f sent

August 11th 2006: NOA1 Recieved

After our relationship breaks down she admits to me that she had never bothered to start the application process

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Hey MacUK,

I forgot to say it, but good luck on your next attempt, I would personally be interested to know if you're successful. Also, thank you for your level-headed responses it was great to dialogue with you.

Regards.

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Speaking as someone for whom English is my first language I admit I don't think much about how difficult it could be for people from other countries, but I'd like to think that those COs who are assigned to non English speaking embassies would be well aware of language barrier problems and take it into consideration.

As to fidgetiness (not sure if that's a real word but I like the sound of it), I pride myself that I'm a calm disciplined confident man who has always stood firm when under pressure.

But when I walked up to that window I felt like I was a kid again, being sent to the Headmasters office for doing something stupid in class. I dread to think how horrendous it must be for anyone with a more nervous disposition.

You hit the nail on the head my friend! My mother-in-law, sister-in-law and child all expressed the exact same sentiment you have as when you went to the window for your interview....feeling like a kid, sent to the principal's office. (Mother-in-law a 30+ year retired school teacher) :-)

Thank you for expressing yourself in a compassionate manner; I hope it helps the OP also. I understand and I know my family will relate. I will share this thread with them.

You are correct, just be honest and present yourself with an air of confidence and hope for the best. Let me know if you're so inclined? Back to work for me...sigh.

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COs are trained to disregard 'normal' nervousness...that is to be expected in many countries...but there is a difference between the jitters and body language tells when the applicant is attempting to 'be creative.' That is one of the reasons good COs ask a variety of questions that are designed to elicit responses that can measure that credibility or consistency in answering...memorized responses are easily picked off...and inconsistent stories can often be identified, then poked out to see those inconsistencies, which will usually end in a denial (but the CO is NOT going to point all of the inconsistencies...they are NOT there to coach applicants for a future request....)...

some stories just make no sense...a 24 year between jobs who wants to 'hang out' for six months visiting 'friends' is...well....who in the world would believe that?

Or a single woman in her 20's wanting to visit some as yet unidentified 'family friend' for 3 months whom she has never met...

Or older folks who claim they have to tend the farm, but want to visit their adult children for six months...! Really? Who's watering and plowing the field?

Or the ever popular 'knowledge transfer' (i.e, computer programming in disguise) or other questionable training - especially by new hires...whose company has NEVER sent anyone to the US to 'meet clients and exchange product information'...

and there are thousands more...

The challenge for the COs is sorting out all of these stories and trying to identify the bona fide ones...all the time knowing that a particular culture is prone to abusing the visa privilege and our borders are a leaking sieve....

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Filed: Country: Philippines
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Hi,

My mom will have her interview the 23rd of May for TV too.. I was wondering when did your mom know that she was denied? did they tell her on the day of the interview?

Good day,

They will let her know right away with either an approval, or being given the disapproval slip (reason). They could also advise her that further "administrative processing" has to occur before a decision can be made. My in-laws found out immediately after being given the slip and getting their denial.

Good luck to your mother and think positive!

Regards

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I agree that the decision is made before the applicant arrives at the window. My in-laws were just approved and the CO didn't look at the paperwork that they brought showing their home ownership and bank accounts. The "interview" was no more than 60 seconds and they were given an approval.

Another interesting thing: The day their visa applications were submitted, the system showed a two week wait for an interview. By the time they made it to the bank to pay for their visas and that receipt made it into the visa system (several days), the system showed only a one week wait and plenty of available appointment times (over 20). I believe that the first look at their application showed that they didn't need the two week timeframe to background check and that the preliminary approval was already finished.

A lot is happening behind the scenes.

07/19/12 - Married

Adjustment of Status from F-1 Student Visa: Day 00 - 07/20/12 - Sent I-130, I-485, I-765, I-131

Day 03 - 07/23/12 - Confirmation from USPS that package was received in Chicago - signed for by D Colonna

Day 11 - 08/03/12 - Acceptance confirmation texts and emails

Day 14 - 08/06/12 - Checks cleared

Day 18 - 08/10/12 - Received biometrics appointment notice (dated 08/06/12 for appointment on 08/30/12)

Day 22 - 08/14/12 - Completed biometrics via successful walk-in at Columbus, OH office (We were the only ones there!)

Day 25 - 08/17/12 - Received NOAs

Day 36 - 08/28/12 - Notice via text of interview on 10/02/12

Day 38 - 08/30/12 - Received interview notice hard copy

Day 65 - 09/24/12 - Notice via text of I-131 approval

Day 71 - 10/02/12 - Interview

Day 71 - 10/02/12 - Text messages of APPROVAL of I-130 and I-485 - Card in Production

Day 78 - 10/09/12 - Received Welcome Notice

Day 80 - 10/11/12 - Received Conditional Green Card

Removal of Conditions: Day 00 - 07/07/14 - Sent I-751

Day 03 - 07/10/14 - Confirmation from USPS that package was received in California

Day 07 - 07/14/14 - Check cleared

Day 07 - 07/14/14 - Received NOA (dated 07/10/14)

Day 14 - 07/21/14 - Received biometrics appointment notice (dated 07/17/14 for appointment on 08/01/14)

Day 18 - 07/25/14 - Completed biometrics via successful walk-in at Columbus, OH office (We were the only ones there...again!)

Day 38 - 08/14/14 - Text message of APPROVAL of 1-751 - Card in Production

Day 43 - 08/19/14 - Notice via text indicating card has been mailed

Day 44 - 08/20/14 - Notice via text with USPS tracking number

Day 46 - 08/22/14 - Received Permanent Green Card

Naturalization: Day 00 - 08/21/15 - Sent N-400

Day 03 - 08/24/15 - Confirmation from USPS that package was received in Arizona

Day 07 - 08/28/15 - Check cleared

Day 10 - 08/31/15 - Acceptance confirmation text and email

Day 14 - 09/04/15 - Received NOA (dated 08/28/15)

Day 24 - 09/14/15 - Received biometrics appointment notice (dated 09/05/15 for appointment on 09/21/15)

Day 28 - 09/18/15 - Completed biometrics via successful walk-in at Columbus, OH office

Day 32 - 09/22/15 - Notice via text and email indicating in line for testing and interview

Day 35 - 09/25/15 - Notice via text and email indicating interview is scheduled

Day 41 - 10/01/15 - Received interview appointment notice (dated 09/28/15 for appointment on 11/03/15)
Day 73 - 11/03/15 - Interview

Day 74 - 11/04/15 - Text message of APPROVAL of N-400 - Oath Ceremony Scheduled

Day 75 - 11/05/15 - Received Oath Ceremony appointment notice (dated 11/04/15 for appointment on 11/17/15)

Day 87 - 11/17/15 - Oath Ceremony - US CITIZEN

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Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Philippines
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Hi,

My mom will have her interview the 23rd of May for TV too.. I was wondering when did your mom know that she was denied? did they tell her on the day of the interview?[/quote

How was your mom's interview?

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