Husband married me for GC, still on conditional, how to withdraw affidavit of support

[WishHopePray 0]

Our marriage was a traditional arranged marriage that my family fixed. I thought my Husband was perfect, and everyone said we made perfect couple.

We married Oct 2012 and husband came to USA on Oct 2013 and his abusiveness started to surface, but he would always blame me, and I was in denial.

We overheard conversations that said he only married me for GC. He has girlfriend in India who he wants to bring to USA.

I was told I can withdraw affidavit of support because he has conditional green card. How can I do this? What wording do I use? Who in USCIS do I send this to?

Please point me in the right direction.

[belinda63 3,041]

You can't withdraw it since he has already received his green card. I suggest you do what you wish and move on with life.

[NigeriaorBust 4,087]

If you have proof that he has married you for a green card gather it and submit it to USCIS and ICE then move on. His lies are between him and immigration there is nothing you can do to stop him being here. Proof of his girlfriend back home will make it hard for him to bring her here.

[WishHopePray 0]

You can't withdraw it since he has already received his green card. I suggest you do what you wish and move on with life.

He only received CONDITIONAL green card, he is eligible to remove conditions before Oct 2015 ---- I was told I can still withdraw Affidavit of Support

If you have proof that he has married you for a green card gather it and submit it to USCIS and ICE then move on. His lies are between him and immigration there is nothing you can do to stop him being here. Proof of his girlfriend back home will make it hard for him to bring her here.

I can gather various proofs.

As your signature says I know this will take time and I will not enjoy this, but so far I don't enjoy being in a fraudulent marriage, I have no choice but to get back whatever I can, i.e. not being obliged to support him.

[Sajidaw 0]

You can file for divorce and when this relationship ends he has to go back home. He can not remove conditions without you. USCIS like to see proof you are been living together. If no prove he will be out of status . I suggest think quick to take action.

[dwheels76 5,468]

You can file for divorce and when this relationship ends he has to go back home. He can not remove conditions without you. USCIS like to see proof you are been living together. If no prove he will be out of status . I suggest think quick to take action.

This is incorrect. You can remove conditions being divorce. Its a Divorce waiver. He just has to show he entered the marriage in good faith.

Unless the OP puts some evidence in their file to flag it he probably will have no issues with Removing conditions

[NikLR 13,231]

What you can do:

• divorce
• provide proof of visa fraud to ICE and USCIS
• move on with your life or become obsessed with something you cant control.... your choice.

What you can't do:

• pull the affidavit of support (you're stuck with that until one of the conditions are met: he dies, abandons his green card, becomes a citizen, or works 40 work quarters)
• have him removed from the country
• prevent him from removing conditions on his own after divorce

Edited May 10, 2014 by NLR

[JohnR! 5,495]

Our marriage was a traditional arranged marriage that my family fixed. I thought my Husband was perfect, and everyone said we made perfect couple.

We married Oct 2012 and husband came to USA on Oct 2013 and his abusiveness started to surface, but he would always blame me, and I was in denial.

We overheard conversations that said he only married me for GC. He has girlfriend in India who he wants to bring to USA.

I was told I can withdraw affidavit of support because he has conditional green card. How can I do this? What wording do I use? Who in USCIS do I send this to?

Please point me in the right direction.

Divorce him. Move on with your life.

[C-ma'am 684]

**Post moved from ROC to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits

[amuna0526 11]

No, unfortunately you cannot withdraw an affidavit of support, unless he loses his residency in the US, leaves the country, dies, or becomes a US citizen. If you feel your spouse just wanted you for the green card and has a girlfriend overseas, I suggest you gather lots of proof that he only married you to benefit coming here. You probably might need to hire a really good attorney.

[NikLR 13,231]

He can leave the country. The green card makes it so he can travel outside the USA. So simply leaving the country doesn't null the AOS.

[Boiler 45,928]

I wonder how this works for an arranged marriage where everything has be definition been arranged.

[QueenComley 295]

This is incorrect. You can remove conditions being divorce. Its a Divorce waiver. He just has to show he entered the marriage in good faith.

Unless the OP puts some evidence in their file to flag it he probably will have no issues with Removing conditions

Dwheels76 is absolutely correct.

OP's Husband can still successfully remove conditions if they divorce. However, instead of waiting 90 days prior to his conditional green card expires before filing ROC, OP's husband would need to file ROC immediately.

Edited May 10, 2014 by QueenComley

[cherylwasim 1]

He only received CONDITIONAL green card, he is eligible to remove conditions before Oct 2015 ---- I was told I can still withdraw Affidavit of Support

I can gather various proofs.

As your signature says I know this will take time and I will not enjoy this, but so far I don't enjoy being in a fraudulent marriage, I have no choice but to get back whatever I can, i.e. not being obliged to support him.

If you have knowledge of a participant in a fraudulent marriage, then withdrawal your Affidavit of Support, divorce him ASAP to remove the conditions, report it with all the proofs (conversations, chats, connections he has, etc.) This process will take time, however I agree with the other post that you could stand in the way of him requesting visa for this girlfriend in the future. I sincerely hope above everything that everything goes well for you, justice is served, and that you will be able to move past this, and have a life full of happiness and love.

Edited May 11, 2014 by cherylwasim

[NikLR 13,231]

If you have knowledge of a participant in a fraudulent marriage, then withdrawal your Affidavit of Support, divorce him ASAP to remove the conditions, report it with all the proofs (conversations, chats, connections he has, etc.) This process will take time, however I agree with the other post that you could stand in the way of him requesting visa for this girlfriend in the future. I sincerely hope above everything that everything goes well for you, justice is served, and that you will be able to move past this, and have a life full of happiness and love.

You are wrong. She cannot with draw the I-864. Her husband has a green card. The only time a withdrawal of the I-864 is effective is BEFORE the green card is granted, generally in the case of an adjustment of status.

The OP cannot withdraw the I-864.