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Form I-751 PLEASE help. Divorce. How early is too early?

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Hello Readers



Thank you all for reading this and please pardon me I am a horrible writer.



I'm in a same sex marriage. Two males.



We met in april 2012 in NYC and started dating since the day we met.



we married in sept 2013 and in october I moved to hawaii to be with him but shortly after we applied for my GC he tells me that he had had unprotected sex with some guy he met online, multiple times. I felt like I was dying. He promised he wouldn't do it again but he's done it countless times since then with multiple people. and says he will not stop, because he likes his freedom.



He told me he wants to be in an open relationship if not he will divorce me.



he has been controlling like you would not imagine. I feel like a 2 year old having to do thing I don't want to do.



He is bipolar



He's had issues his whole life, addiction (now sober for many years), etc, enough for me to now understand that his "probably" sex addiction is linked to his other addictions. I should add that people in NY warned about his sex life in the past before he met me. He had quite a reputation, which I chose not to believe.



He's told me several times he's not attracted to me anymore.



I have been seeing a therapist to help me cope with this



he has been emotionally abusive towards me and is exposing me to HIV.



Would this count as abuse?



We've only been married since oct 2013 and received my 2 year GC in April 2014



I can't stay in this marriage



Can I apply for ROC even though we've been married for such short time?



Help!



MARRIED SEPT 2013


APPLIED DEC 2013


APPROVED APRIL 2014



Please ask me any questions if you need to know more.


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You have your GC so i think that should be alright. Everyone deserve happiness. I think stay in unhealthy relationship just make you feel worst day by day. Move back to where you can work by yourself (e.g New York) and start new life

Our timeline heart.gifheart.gifheart.gif : December,21st 2013- Sent our I-129F packageDecember,23rd 2013- Texas lockbox received the packageDecember,27th 2013- Email Notification for NOA1January,2nd 2014- Alien Registration number changedJanuary,3rd 2014- NOA1 hardcopy receivedJanuary,29th 2014-NOA2 mailed(26 days)!*got information from USCIS at 8.30 pm (GMT+7)February,3rd 2014-NOA2 on handFebruary,19th 2014-NVC left!!!February, 25th 2014- NVC hard copy notif on hand (ask to fill in DS-160)February,26th 2014-DS-160 completed+Packet 3 sentFebruary,27th 2014- Package 4 received (email). Approved interview dateFebruary,28th 2014- Medical examMarch,3rd 2014-Medical exam pick up (approved)March,15th 2014-$240 visa payment done (Permata Bank)March,25th 2014- Interview date with my fiance rose.gif March,27th 2014- Submit his paystubs and my original birth certificate (APPROVED VISA!)April,3rd 2014- VISA ON HAND (L) :goofy: April,10th 2014- My fiance back to US for prepare our new lifeMay,19th 2014-Fly to Chicago! Total time until interview: 81 daysThe BIG PLAN:May,30th 2014- Officially mrs. Stephens wub.pngJune,4th 2014-Apply SSNJune,9th 2014-SSN card receivedJune,11th 2014-AOS package sentJune,16th 2014-EAD and AP initial reviewJune,18th 2014-Got Michigan State ID! can use this to join bank accountJune,18th 2014-Got text from USCIS for 3 of my applicationsJune,25th 2014-got 3 mails from USCISJuly,11th 2014-Biometric appointment at Grand Rapids, MI :dancing:July,26th 2014 Our reception! star_smile.gifAugust,13th 2014-Interview date scheduled for greencardAugust,22nd 2014-USCIS sent my EAD/AP card!woohoo!August,22nd 2014-USCIS sent interview cancel letter because we moved to Ohio<p>
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