In the Kitchen with Hannibal Dexter: Rant a Fromage

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

Totally hypothetical here, but let's say you were, there are three things you will want to keep in mind:

1. Before the news became public or you were to officially know, it might be best to file for divorce, if that is your intent

2. You get free healthcare because the kiddo would be a US citizen (pretty much ALL procedures)

3. Leaving the country is best done before child is born

That is assuming a lot of things, that I don't necessarily want to assume.

Edited May 6, 2014 by N-o-l-a

[JTB11 1,079]

Totally hypothetical here, but let's say you were, there are three things you will want to keep in mind:

1. Before the news became public or you were to officially know, it might be best to file for divorce, if that is your intent

2. You get free healthcare because the kiddo would be a US citizen (pretty much ALL procedures)

3. Leaving the country is best done before child is born

That is assuming a lot of things, that I don't necessarily want to assume.

lol...sorry but....

1. not at the moment no

2. not keeping it if it were the case

3. leaving to go where exactly ...

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

lol...sorry but....

1. not at the moment no

2. not keeping it if it were the case

3. leaving to go where exactly ...

1. Interesting

2. Covers abortions

3. Anywhere

[JTB11 1,079]

1. Interesting

2. Covers abortions

3. Anywhere

1. really ?

2. eh.

3.

[Caryh 5,206]

I choked on my water just now. lol

Well not that I wanna give out tmi but it has happened 2x in past 4 months ....maybe hubs got me pregnant who knows...that would be just my luck.

Happy Mother's Day Jada.

oops just read the not keeping it comment. Sorry J

Edited May 6, 2014 by Caryh

[JTB11 1,079]

Happy Mother's Day Jada.

[Caryh 5,206]

see edit

[Ontarkie 14,221]

I figured stress would be part of it, like Nola I wouldn't of bothered going to a GP here. They seem pretty useless. Sorry you are still without insurance that sucks.

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

In other news - my semester is almost over with. I can almost taste the freedom!

Oooh and my HSG went well yesterday, now we just have to wait until next week to get the rest of our results, namely the genetic ones.

[Ontarkie 14,221]

In other news - my semester is almost over with. I can almost taste the freedom!

Oooh and my HSG went well yesterday, now we just have to wait until next week to get the rest of our results, namely the genetic ones.

Yay freedom!

Fingers crossed for good news!

[JTB11 1,079]

In other news - my semester is almost over with. I can almost taste the freedom!

Oooh and my HSG went well yesterday, now we just have to wait until next week to get the rest of our results, namely the genetic ones.

good luck Nola and sorry I know my saying stuff related to babies especially choice I would make probably not something you wanna hear. My apologies for that.

[JTB11 1,079]

took test. not pregnant.

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

good luck Nola and sorry I know my saying stuff related to babies especially choice I would make probably not something you wanna hear. My apologies for that.

No apologies needed, I know you don't want kids. My comment was actually not related to yours despite the poor timing, it is just right now, an all consuming thing in my brain. Every day - taking temperature, charting, carefully noting things, yah know... it never really pops out of my brain.

Only thing that really make me angry/upset is when I look at really crappy parents, like child abuse crappy, and think why them and not me. I do get a little jealous of people who have more than one, but that is common.

I so want to go out, have all day, but have to wait for this stupid dishwasher to be delivered.

[JTB11 1,079]

No apologies needed, I know you don't want kids. My comment was actually not related to yours despite the poor timing, it is just right now, an all consuming thing in my brain. Every day - taking temperature, charting, carefully noting things, yah know... it never really pops out of my brain.

Only thing that really make me angry/upset is when I look at really crappy parents, like child abuse crappy, and think why them and not me. I do get a little jealous of people who have more than one, but that is common.

I so want to go out, have all day, but have to wait for this stupid dishwasher to be delivered.

I don't but would very much so if things were different...it would not have been an easy choice despite me making it sound this way. I always wanted to have/adopt kids but be able to provide them with the minimum of things and have a man next to me that can teach them about life and lead them in the right direction...as such...that would be impossible and extremely selfish of me to have a child just because I want to have one. So dogs it is.

And I honestly hope that yours is coming soon and sending you all my positive thoughts !! It will work !!!

[Caryh 5,206]

took test. not pregnant.

nerves then. You've got to relax and de-stress J