is that enough proof ?? plz help

[sasafan 3]

hello all, its my first time getting into this forum,,i thought life is pink lol,,,any way,my marriage is so unstable coz my wife is really unstable person psychologically,,she is not crazy but unstable,upon a regular argument she filed divorce,left the house and now she came to me to say she wants to come back,,i told her what about filing divorce??she said it will not go on as she wont show up in court to continue it!!!!! is that true??? or she lies??

now ,im not sure this relation will go better,,coz of threats all time of divorce,,so ,a friend told me to do waiver based on divorce to get a permenant green card,,and said I have to own enough proof that I entered the marriage in good faith which is true,,my proofs are:

-joint tax return for 2013

-joint bank account.

- proof I came from far state by car to be with her-after she asked me to leave.

-membership in our both names

-phone bill paid from her account and the phone is under my name

-her ID and driver lic with last name of me

-pictures of me and her and her family and her with my family

-post cards she sent me and mails I sent her,plus us texting all time

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I don have lease or utility bills as she has the place before I came and refuse to put my name with her although I pay.

so now is that enough,,we almost married for 2 years and im in states for 6 months now

thx in advance for help

[sasafan 3]

forgot to add

we have same mailing address ,,and car insurance with both names

[Sirliner 26]

I can't comment on your waiver proof, but if your wife really did file for divorce then you should have been officially "served" by mail or in person a Summons and a copy of her court filed Petition. You would then file a Response or risk having her get the divorce by default. She no longer wants a divorce? If no Response has been filed and no Judgement has been obtained, the case can be dismissed if Petitioner alone files a Dismissal form.

[MacUK 983]

How will you remove conditions with a divorce waiver if you're not actually divorced?

[sasafan 3]

How will you remove conditions with a divorce waiver if you're not actually divorced?

guess u havnt read my post ???

I can't comment on your waiver proof, but if your wife really did file for divorce then you should have been officially "served" by mail or in person a Summons and a copy of her court filed Petition. You would then file a Response or risk having her get the divorce by default. She no longer wants a divorce? If no Response has been filed and no Judgement has been obtained, the case can be dismissed if Petitioner alone files a Dismissal form.

someone called me by phone saying he from court ,I called back ,and no answer,but nothing more,u mean she must file to dismiss it?

[MacUK 983]

guess u havnt read my post ???

Yes, you said she filed for divorce but then changed her mind and wanted to get back together, and she wouldn't go through with the divorce.

So, are you divorced or not?

[Soloenta 2,218]

hello all, its my first time getting into this forum,,i thought life is pink lol,,,any way,my marriage is so unstable coz my wife is really unstable person psychologically,,she is not crazy but unstable,upon a regular argument she filed divorce,left the house and now she came to me to say she wants to come back,,i told her what about filing divorce??she said it will not go on as she wont show up in court to continue it!!!!! is that true??? or she lies??

now ,im not sure this relation will go better,,coz of threats all time of divorce,,so ,a friend told me to do waiver based on divorce to get a permenant green card,,and said I have to own enough proof that I entered the marriage in good faith which is true,,my proofs are:

-joint tax return for 2013

-joint bank account.

- proof I came from far state by car to be with her-after she asked me to leave.

-membership in our both names

-phone bill paid from her account and the phone is under my name

-her ID and driver lic with last name of me

-pictures of me and her and her family and her with my family

-post cards she sent me and mails I sent her,plus us texting all time

-

I don have lease or utility bills as she has the place before I came and refuse to put my name with her although I pay.

so now is that enough,,we almost married for 2 years and im in states for 6 months now

thx in advance for help

Can you get proof she is unstable? That I think would pretty much do it, would be to your benefit to ask a lawyer about this. Does she take medication and texts might show she is not well. I'm sorry but she seems a little bit nuts to me. Don't mean to offend but who can live like that all the time, I think if you have proof they would side with you. Good luck.

Yes, you said she filed for divorce but then changed her mind and wanted to get back together, and she wouldn't go through with the divorce.

So, are you divorced or not?

He doesn't know, no one has contacted him, only by phone and it sound fishy to me. Might have been a friend of his wife done to scare him who knows.

[Caryh 5,206]

He doesn't know, no one has contacted him, only by phone and it sound fishy to me. Might have been a friend of his wife done to scare him who knows.

Yes, the court is not going to make a phone call, she needs to see he gets served the divorce papers. A phone call cannot serve papers.

[sasafan 3]

Can you get proof she is unstable? That I think would pretty much do it, would be to your benefit to ask a lawyer about this. Does she take medication and texts might show she is not well. I'm sorry but she seems a little bit nuts to me. Don't mean to offend but who can live like that all the time, I think if you have proof they would side with you. Good luck.

He doesn't know, no one has contacted him, only by phone and it sound fishy to me. Might have been a friend of his wife done to scare him who knows.

well,she take heart medication ,makes her moody,based on her saying,,and I guess some hyperactivity meds,too much pain killer,,i have some texts saying that its her heart med,,im in living hell,,i lost 30 pounds since I came here???so far no talking about dropping divorce,,i started to have life here,,study ,job,,but she hates me going to do anything and fights over it(gym,work,school)etc,,any ways I not hate her ,I feel sorry for her but she acts like 5 y kid who wants attention all time..so I say if im divorced anytime soon ,,will that b enough proof for ROC? ON MY OWN?