PLEASE HELP , I NEED HELP

[Leatherneck 693]

Start by calling the numbers provided to you, they have lots of experience with situations like yours.

[Cathi 5,777]

Do you speak Arabic? If you need help trying to understand what people are trying to tell you I can have my husband translate what is being said. Let me know.

[sara82 4]

sara82 your husband is not in jail because of you, he is in prison because of his abusive behavior against you!. Stop blaming yourself. He is the only one responsible for his wrong doings.Anyone capable of inflict violence against another human being should face jail time.

We can't change or control other people's actions, we can only control how we react,and you reacted properly .You should see some counselor/psychologist to help you understand what's going in your life. My dear love is not enough, because a relationship without respect means ANYTHING. Respect yourself enough to walk away.

yes my fault is i loved him, and now im alone, just sitting face to my computer ,

yes i need counselor , to explain to me well what do i need to do

Do you speak Arabic? If you need help trying to understand what people are trying to tell you I can have my husband translate what is being said. Let me know.

yes i speak arabic

Edited April 27, 2014 by sara82

[Cathi 5,777]

Do you need help trying to understand what people are trying to tell you?

[sara82 4]

Do you need help trying to understand what people are trying to tell you?

Yes i would like to understand properly what they will tell me , i have nobody, no friends, , nothing

[christeen 966]

Call the number... Like NOW.... They will provide you with local answers and support and counseling that can help you understand what is going on... Call the number!

[Cathi 5,777]

Yes i would like to understand properly what they will tell me , i have nobody, no friends, , nothing

OK, do you have skype?

[belinda63 3,041]

If the people at the phone number don't speak Arabic they can get someone who can. It might take a day or two but they will get someone who can explain to you in your language what is happening.

[sara82 4]

OK, do you have skype?

yes i will email you right now my skype id

thank you

[Merrytooth 5,748]

Try these websites which serve Muslim communities

http://www.apiidv.org/resources/programs-serving-muslims.php

http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/languages/domesticviolence.html#Arabic

[WantOut 2]

Sara,

What is your nationality? I understand that you speak Arabic. San Diego is a large city which I am sure there are several outreach programs that you can call. Abuse is not a onetime thing. It will continue. You need to develop a support group of people you can trust. Everyone here at VJ will help you in any way possible. I will actually be in San Diego in about 10 days if you need anything. But for sure the best time to get out is now while he is in jail. If you can get out then the next best thing is a restraining order so he cannot come near you. This may seem like the hardest thing to do right now but you will be better off in the long run. You can ask the police if he has a criminal history or domestic violence or any other history of violence. Remember the police are there to help you as well and if you request assistance from them.

[WantOut 2]

_{Muslim Community Center}

_{www.mccsandiego.org}

_{Muslim Women in Action}

_{San Diego - 888-940-6942}

_{San Diego Rescue Mission}

_619-687-3720

_{http://www.womenshelters.org/det/san-diego-rescue-mission-inc}

_{Here are some additional websites}

[sara82 4]

Sara,

What is your nationality? I understand that you speak Arabic. San Diego is a large city which I am sure there are several outreach programs that you can call. Abuse is not a onetime thing. It will continue. You need to develop a support group of people you can trust. Everyone here at VJ will help you in any way possible. I will actually be in San Diego in about 10 days if you need anything. But for sure the best time to get out is now while he is in jail. If you can get out then the next best thing is a restraining order so he cannot come near you. This may seem like the hardest thing to do right now but you will be better off in the long run. You can ask the police if he has a criminal history or domestic violence or any other history of violence. Remember the police are there to help you as well and if you request assistance from them.

Thank you , Im musulmane moroccan,

_{Muslim Community Center}

_{www.mccsandiego.org}

_{Muslim Women in Action}

_{San Diego - 888-940-6942}

_{San Diego Rescue Mission}

_619-687-3720

_{http://www.womenshel...cue-mission-inc}

_{Here are some additional websites}

_{Thank you}

Edited April 27, 2014 by sara82

[Cathi 5,777]

Sara,

What is your nationality? I understand that you speak Arabic. San Diego is a large city which I am sure there are several outreach programs that you can call. Abuse is not a onetime thing. It will continue. You need to develop a support group of people you can trust. Everyone here at VJ will help you in any way possible. I will actually be in San Diego in about 10 days if you need anything. But for sure the best time to get out is now while he is in jail. If you can get out then the next best thing is a restraining order so he cannot come near you. This may seem like the hardest thing to do right now but you will be better off in the long run. You can ask the police if he has a criminal history or domestic violence or any other history of violence. Remember the police are there to help you as well and if you request assistance from them.

My husband spoke to her in Arabic and told her exactly what she needs to do and everything is clear to her now.

[sara82 4]

My husband spoke to her in Arabic and told her exactly what she needs to do and everything is clear to her now.

i want to thanks a lot the most beautiful and the helpful wife i have seen in my life

yes i talked to her husband ,

he explained to me in Arabic different things thanks to him