Wife asking Divorce before ROC

[rajO11 0]

Hello friends,

I am wondering if anyone has the same experience.. Need your guidance!!!

Met my wife on socal networking site in June 2009, We continue talking and being touch trough phone calls, Skype and emails.

Met in person in Thailand on a 10 days vacation in January 2011.

She filed for my K1 Visa in June 2011.

My wife visited me and my family in India in October 2011 and was with me for 2 months, 15 days.

November 2011 her family received NOA 2.

She fly back to US in January 2012 and send necessary papers as required including sponsorship.

I was interveiwed in US Embassy in first week of March 2012, K1 approved.

Reached U.S in June second week.

We married in second week of July 2012 by court.

Filed papers in last week of August 2012.

Received EAD card in October and cleared interveiw in third week November 2012 along with my wife.

Received Permanent resident card in first week of December 2012.

Got a job in february 2013.

Filed joint tax return in April 2013.

We both went on a vacation to LA by car. I have pics and Hotel bill.

Filed joint taxes in April 2014.

Some details-

We have 2 checking and savings joing accounts.

We are residing at her mom's together.

We have our joint names on two car titles, one telephone bill.

Internet connection is on my name.

Our medical cards from the same medical facility.

She adopted my last name after marriage which shows on her social, college id and DL.

Our cellphones payments through a same account under same service provider.

Few mails addressing both of our names together and more then 100's of mails on individual names showing same address.

Lots of family pictures together from parties, camping, movies etc.

Both of our life insurance policies showing each other as benificiaries.

My name on the family's car insurance along with other family members and as a driver for other cars too.

Both of us have a supermarket card under joint account.

My wife's credit card is due to come next week under my primary account.

We are based in California. Now my approval is due this year before first week of december 2014. My wife is filing for divorce but wants to help.

Before marrying my wife i was divorced in India and i never hide anything about it from my wife or USCIS.

Now she wants to leave.. M really out of my senses and don't know what to do and how my future will be?

I have a job here and while leaving India i sold my entire business to settle here. I do have legal documents for sale of my business.

She said that she wants to help but do wants divorce. We are still living together in her Mom's house.

Kindly advice.. I might be missing some things here but this is what i remember and can recall.

I have more 3000-4000 calls records which we made to each other from phones and skype before getting married.

Lots of pictures of our vacation in Thailand and in India before getting married. I married her in good faith as she did.

Please guide..

Edited April 26, 2014 by rajO11

[Hypnos 6,578]

If your wife is willing to sign your I-751 then you can continue to file a joint RoC application even if you are divorced / intending to divorce. You both may be required to appear at an interview.

[amuna0526 11]

You can apply to remove conditions from your green card alone, without your spouse, on the form I-751 you can specify that you're unable to file a joint petition and request a waiver "because you entered the marriage in good faith, but it was terminated through divorce or annulment". You must prove that the marriage was actually entered in good faith, i.e., bills, bank statements, pictures, etc. You'll probably have to go to an interview.

[sasafan 3]

im in same situation right now ,I have almost same proofs ,good luck

[Rafael+Felicia 9]

I don't have answers to your question, but I do want to ask... Why do they (women/men) what to divorce? As much as I find it hard to see a reason... I can understand a man fraustration when a woman/man is to demanding...

[rajO11 0]

Thanks for your replies..

I have few questions coz as i have studied and saw other replies also on same conditions.

My wife wants one of us to leave the house and continue with divorce proceedings. Is that right or we have to stay in same house?

How does this seperation will work with our joint acounts and insurances? Can we still hold the joint accounts and insurances or do we have to seperate it before divorce?

My wife is ready to co operate as she is the one who wants it but don't want me to suffer.

Do i need to hire a lawyer or will it be okay to handle it alone?

Kindly Guide.Thanks.

[Jawaree 718]

Buddy there's a saying see and living with me is 2 different things

and it happens on either side...ppl just realize they don't want a relationship

after living with a person, knowing the real them, so if she changed her mind

its nothing that can be done about it...ppl just have to know & be on the same

page B4 marriage because ots a big step.....hope things work out for you