Uncertain what to do

[Pitaya 2,577]

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[Boiler 46,364]

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What have I been missing?

[PallasAthena 101]

Buy a ticket and go back home to the safety of your family.

[Me_Theo 25]

Your B2 visa was expired,(edited). go back your country before you get news in tomorrow newspaper or evening news.(edited) But the best way (edited) for taking help is

Call 911, or send email to 911 from internet.

don't waste your time in VJ. They will not give you GC by this way.

(Post has been edited to remove several inappropriate comments - VJ Moderation)

Edited March 29, 2014 by Kathryn41
to remove inappropriate comments

[Smoochies2011 19]

Im sorry but how come u are threaten yet u posted on here ! he could see it? why don't u go to the police u can get a battered wife visa something like that if is truth of course i don't mean to offend anyone but why would u post this on here

[Messybrownhair 251]

Why does she automatically have to be from the Philippines?

I doubt it because

A. She has a B2 visa and

B. Her name is Tara?

True or not, get help.. Goodluck. (inappropriate comment removed)

Edited March 29, 2014 by Kathryn41
to remove inappropriate comment

[Kev-N-Ann 45]

Yeah, that with the Philippines doesn't sound right at all...

[BeataO 2]

GO TO THE POLICE, PLEASE!!

I was in similar situation 20 years ago, not as violent as murders that you wrote, but I was, no one believed me. I didint go to the police because I was scared of him, and that was the biggest mistake I ever did. Please get help go to the police.

[Uhoh 10]

If all this is true, surely the police should be the first port of call for the OP and not a specific immigration forum for abused spouses?

I know if I were the OP I wouldn't give seven shades of excretory matter what my immigration options were. I would run for the hills via the police and then the airport. My life would be my priority not my immigration status.

[Journeyer 17]

Wow. This is the craziest thing I have read in a long time.

So, if this wild story is true, then you are living with a psychopath, right? Then remain calm and the first time psychopath goes to work, go straight to the consulate, the police, a shelter whatever, and tell them you need to get back to your home country, because this guy is a serial killer.

I agree with some other posters here, I don't want to judge anyone, you know, because we can't know, but the VAWA word really is a huge red flag that something is going on that we don't know the entire story. You are learning about things like that, and you should be worried about getting away from the psychopath serial murderer.

[flora01 37]

I am married to a USCIS citizen. At first he was charming and very loving we have so may wonderful memories together. My husband became violent and scares me. He always threatens to kill me. He has been in prison for 13 years, which I have found out after doing some research. He also confess to me that he has killed his sisters husband and made it look like he committed suicide. He also stated that he killed more people. I told him I would tell the police and he said it is all circumstantial evidence and they would not believe me as he has gotten away with it for so long. I found out he has moved from the south to NYC. He said if I tried to leave him he will kill me. He also states that he will never allow me to get GC and said that he would tell USCIS that I only married him for the GC. I am now stuck and don't know what to do. I have no money no paper to get work and petrified to leave. He his tells me that I have to drop of heroin to his customers.

I was insulted and thought he was joking. He then told me how do you think I can afford to pay for my rent. I thought his wages covered it, if I asked any questions I was told to mind my own business get shouted at, and things broken. I manage to get him on tape asking me to deliver heroin package which I refused. I am stuck in the USA and is uncertain because he his from the south if anything happens to me he can skip states. He his always drunk and abusive.

He would then boast about what he has done and told me if I ever crossed him or try to snitch he would kill me and my family. He would search me to see if I was wired tap, ask constantly ask if I work for the FBI. I need to get out but he say he will not divorce me. He said he didn't get married to get divorce and I am his wife he owns me and I must do what he says. I am petrified, stress out and dying slowly. He refuses to put me on his health insurance so I could get basic medical. I am still on B2 visa and has not yet received any form of settlement. We have been married for 8 months and I have never seen someone changes as radical as this. He told me that behind this pretty face lies a monster.

He said if I ever called the police he would make sure I disappear like the people he made disappear. I am walking on eggshells here. He refuses to sign the paper to petition for me, and I am scared that I will end up in a ditch if I tried to file VAWA. Any suggestions welcome

Research is always done before marrying somebody, not after marrying.

A husband who loves his wife can never ask her to drop heroin to customers.

Also he is not willing to leave you and saying that you will never get green card.These are two conflicting statements.

You are scared to go to police and thinking about WAVA,(where you will have to inform them)which does not apply when you are on B2.

Either you are living with America's most wanted criminal or mentally disturbed person.In both the cases its your responsibility to inform police,get shelter,catch flight and go back to your home country.

Edited March 29, 2014 by Kathryn41

[Journeyer 17]

Also he is not willing to leave you and saying that you will never get green card.These are two conflicting statements.

I was thinking that also.

Of course, if this guy really is the raging psycho serial murderer depicted in the original post, then it might make sense. You can't go to the police or you will be deported because you are illegal here, therefore, you can't leave me or report me for being a serial killer and dealing heroin.

Outside of that, story is very difficult to comprehend.

[Kev-N-Ann 45]

What makes me curious is that Tara2904 has not said a word since she posted here. Googling her nickname, brought up the exact same post in another immigration forum, but there are no replies there

[reginaglenn 25]

This sounds untrue, too much for a real life situation. (inappropriate comment removed) Anyway it caughts everyone's attention. But for the benefit of the doubt , if somebody is in hell life situation like this, the immediate reaction is to get out and seek help, I'm not even sure if I still think about the legal immigrant rights , it's life and death, every second counts and all you wanna do is flee .

Edited March 29, 2014 by Kathryn41

[verysadguy 170]

Please, let's suppose this is a real "story" then VJ website folks send the sign up email and IP address to the FBI. End of friggin' story.