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Those policies which encourage Mothers and fathers of children to be married and stay married.

Look closely ay any policy which makes comfortable the path of doing the wrong thing (having kids out of marriage).

No longer allow children to be used as hostage. (Pay me or my child suffers).

Meeting their demands only puts more kids in that situation.... they tend to replicate the same lifestyle.

There is no perfect policy where someone does not get taken care of or gets left behind but when you look at the numbers of people on longterm and short term assistance,

from the grocery store to the jail house, they are in large margin the product of fatherless children.

We must loose this recent notion that society should not be judgmental.

Societies judgement does what no law can, prompt people to do the right thing.

IN my fathers time, a man simply being divorced was excluded from serving as a board member, or as a civi leader.

While that might have been excessive, it was also an era where few men walked out on their family... where illegitimacy was like 2%

where Children benefited from such social and family stability.

Those days are long gone and they ain't coming back... we are way to divided (in every way) to ever see that again. No we will have to ride this to the bottom and keep convincing ourselves it was worse back then.

Though...

Revolutions have a way of awakening things in a people... things no one even knew were there. (both good and bad)

I have a friend in Ukraine who reports a remarkable re-birth of sorts that has taken place there due to events, the whole country is swept up in it.

I have a question. Why is having kids out of wedlock a wrong path to take? Is it because the bible? Because the bible says not to judge others and it also says he without sin throw the first stone.

So are you only obedient to the bible when you feel like you can apply it to fit circumstances you dont like?

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Wow, most Libs claim IQ tests are not reliable (unless they are bragging about their own)

Here is the struggle,: How do you liberate the children from the environment they keep creating?

When ever this topic is raised it is always spoken of as if the troubling conditions are separate from the students.

As if they were shoved into a dark place and if someone would just turn the light on everything would change.... when the truth is they keep stealing the lightbulb.

The school can not fix all the problem but millions of Black kids have gotten inferior educations because DWL (disingenuous White Liberal) insist all Black kids must be educated no matter their conduct. Consequently, not only are few people getting educated but the whole of the Student body is effected by the culture and disruption of the worst 20%

I'm not sure what kind of 'environment they keep creating' you are talking about. Are you referring to public schools?

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So you agree that society has a moral responsibility to nurture future generations - good. What policies do you support? What would be your solution to absentee fathers?

Nope, not society. Not at all.

Nurturing begins at home, irrespective of any definition of 'society'.

Sure, group like demographics together, and you've a society of 'something', but it's not society's issue to resolve.

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I have a question. Why is having kids out of wedlock a wrong path to take? Is it because the bible? Because the bible says not to judge others and it also says he without sin throw the first stone.

So are you only obedient to the bible when you feel like you can apply it to fit circumstances you dont like?

Janelle, that is so lame.

First of all, when do I come on here quoting the bible as if it is a guide for all?

Someone like you brings it up and I on rare occasion respond.

I don't use the internet as a means to spread my faith.

Though I do address the subject in historical or in practical conversations. (Often correcting false information)

We have decades of social science which prove without a doubt which environment children thrive best in.

Single Mothered homes have destroyed the Black community.

This is undebatable.

Single Mothers are those women who birth children without the benefit of a husband, leaving the child handicapped right out the gate!

Divorced and widowed mothers are a different, they at least had a plan but things fell apart.

I am addressing a culture which brings children into the world with no thought about this child's development.

And when we throw baby showers and celebrate her... we give blessing to every 12 years old girl watching and learning "what is normal."

We don't need to stone women who carelessly get knocked up but we should see it for what it is.... a friggin selfish act, against the child and society.

The spiritual component need not even come up to make sense.

PS: you mis use the "judge not" scripture, there is such a things as a right-judgment, in fact there is a whole book in the bible called "judges".

The Bible warns, be-careful by what measure you judge others for you will be judged by that same measurement.

This all has to do with hypocritically judging others, or judging those things that are not known such as a persons eternal destiny.

I have all compassion for single mothers and the struggle they brought on themselves, I'm actually working on a plan (of sorts) to give shelter to just such a case: A mother of two with one on the way, living in a hotel, with some tattooed looser, No one in her family has room for her.

Anyway, I mostly want to attack the "CULTURE" of single motherhood, not the people, heII we all grew up being taught the myth that marriage was optional right?

Well it may be optional but it is not healthy for the kids.. And in my opinion we need to learn from our mistakes and experience and not pass those destructive lifestyles on to those coming up.

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It's ribs. You can't have spelling errors in here and be black. Now, it's we're violent and can't spell for shyt.

It's well known in here that all white folks use perfect grammar

Being black is no excuse for poor grammar and speeling

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Tell you what Danno, I'll stop talking about it when you stop focusing on black folks in a negative way . Because in the same way you're tired of hearing about racism and oppression, I'm tired of you bashing black people and gay people.

I'll make a deal with you, stop posting stories about blacks and gays, I'll stop posting anything that deals with racism. Can you do that?

You do realize this is not a ying-yang situation?

I am pointing out real events taking place, not by one or two odd balls but by mobs growing larger and larger not to mention the brutal random attack of innocent people.

You on the other hand are trying to explain it away with rationals that made no sense 20 years ago never mind today.

It's over, you are reading the writings of the very far left who are with you and take comfort in that....but I can tell you very few people on the right... center ...and moderate left are buying the victimhood excuse.

Not only is it silly, it is now counter productive and in part, what is at the root of these mob attacks.

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I just breezed thru and to be honest this whole thread is nothing but bickering and arguing. It makes for an unpleasant VJ experience for me. . You all can consider yourself reported. Now all that responded here please go put each other on ignore.

Marvin especially you and Danno.

Don't ask me what TOS you violated, it doesn't matter, only that I am reporting you

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I just breezed thru and to be honest this whole thread is nothing but bickering and arguing. It makes for an unpleasant VJ experience for me. . You all can consider yourself reported. Now all that responded here please go put each other on ignore.

Marvin especially you and Danno.

Don't ask me what TOS you violated, it doesn't matter, only that I am reporting you

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You do realize this is not a ying-yang situation?

I am pointing out real events taking place, not by one or two odd balls but by mobs growing larger and larger not to mention the brutal random attack of innocent people.

You on the other hand are trying to explain it away with rationals that made no sense 20 years ago never mind today.

It's over, you are reading the writings of the very far left who are with you and take comfort in that....but I can tell you very few people on the right... center ...and moderate left are buying the victimhood excuse.

Not only is it silly, it is now counter productive and in part, what is at the root of these mob attacks.

What rationale are you talking about? I'm calling out your racism. DIdn't make a single comment about the "mob".

It's well known in here that all white folks use perfect grammar

Being black is no excuse for poor grammar and speeling

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Welcome back.

I just breezed thru and to be honest this whole thread is nothing but bickering and arguing. It makes for an unpleasant VJ experience for me. . You all can consider yourself reported. Now all that responded here please go put each other on ignore.

Marvin especially you and Danno.

Don't ask me what TOS you violated, it doesn't matter, only that I am reporting you

You're just jealous it's not me and you. What have you done for me lately? :devil:

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Marvin I went to USCIS today for Biometrics for my wife. The Black security guard stopped everybody coming in. Asked to see USICS paper work, checked them for cell phones, explained prohibited items.

When he got to me he gave me the ol' head up chin wave and said, You a cell phone man? I said nope. He waived me thru. No Id nothing. No list of prohibited items. Nothing.

It's great when even the black guys give you the white privilege.

All joking aside. Do you think it was because i was so obvious a local good ol boy or Racism perhaps.

Odd thing. He never asked if i was armed, which i was.

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Single Mothered homes have destroyed the Black community.

This is undebatable.

Anything is debatable.

I will say that yes a two parent home is ideal and yes I would argue that children have a much fuller life with having a responsible man in the home but I also believe that it is only part of the equation. There are way more White families with single parents than there are Black, based on population numbers alone. I don't think it is a race issue as much as it is other factors such as economics which I would argue is the biggest reason. Children who come from single parent homes where they don't have to worry about where their next meal is coming from, or if they have a decent place to sleep have a greater chance of success than a child in a single parent home where the basic necessities are not provided. And lets not even start with education because how can a child learn when they are on an empty stomach and live in war zones.

In addition what you also fail to realize is that Black women have been raising children alone since families were split apart due to American slavery. If you look at Africa pre-slave trade, the family was central to everything in life. The American slave trade split apart families, America created what you see now. I am not using that as an excuse but you need to hold your horses when you want to talk about Black kids coming from single parent homes, in fact many have gone on to be successful and have full lives - one in particular comes to mind...President Barack Obama :)

From reading all your posts you seem to think that the Black community does not care about our troubled youth or issues within the family. You ever attend a Black church service? You ever attend any Black civic organization meetings? You would hear that message constantly of personal responsibility, accountability and so forth. Yes there is lots of work that needs to be done. We need men to step up and be fathers, be responsible, stop running around in the streets...I just don't feel like it's your place to deliver that message because you come from a position of hate and not love....now if you want to join the NOI then I'll give you a pass to deliver that message (they let White folks in but you might want to check your dixie flag at the door)

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Anything is debatable.

I will say that yes a two parent home is ideal and yes I would argue that children have a much fuller life with having a responsible man in the home but I also believe that it is only part of the equation. There are way more White families with single parents than there are Black, based on population numbers alone. I don't think it is a race issue as much as it is other factors such as economics which I would argue is the biggest reason. Children who come from single parent homes where they don't have to worry about where their next meal is coming from, or if they have a decent place to sleep have a greater chance of success than a child in a single parent home where the basic necessities are not provided. And lets not even start with education because how can a child learn when they are on an empty stomach and live in war zones.

In addition what you also fail to realize is that Black women have been raising children alone since families were split apart due to American slavery. If you look at Africa pre-slave trade, the family was central to everything in life. The American slave trade split apart families, America created what you see now. I am not using that as an excuse but you need to hold your horses when you want to talk about Black kids coming from single parent homes, in fact many have gone on to be successful and have full lives - one in particular comes to mind...President Barack Obama :)

From reading all your posts you seem to think that the Black community does not care about our troubled youth or issues within the family. You ever attend a Black church service? You ever attend any Black civic organization meetings? You would hear that message constantly of personal responsibility, accountability and so forth. Yes there is lots of work that needs to be done. We need men to step up and be fathers, be responsible, stop running around in the streets...I just don't feel like it's your place to deliver that message because you come from a position of hate and not love....now if you want to join the NOI then I'll give you a pass to deliver that message (they let White folks in but you might want to check your dixie flag at the door)

Really I don't mean to imply that it is somehow "not so bad" when whites do it , my attention paid to the Black part of it is only because it is having much more devastating effects... because of a number of reasons.

Hight rates (x2)

Lower social capital to ofset

Urban life is more dense and social problems are always exacerbated.

You mentioned historically. Right now the white level of illegitimacy is about where the Black rate was in 1960. Since then the Black rate has doubled (as the white rate has exploded).

This is not a "black problem" whites are on the same trajectory, just a few decades behind.

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The American slave trade split apart families......Put the blame where it really lies.

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