Would you give it up for your immigrating SO

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Would absolutely... and did.... give it up!! Now closet space, that's another issue.

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devblt,

I would sleep on the same side with her, even if it were the side that I don't prefer.

In fact, I do.

Yodrak

Yodrak is a poet. Who knew???

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I'll be kicking the kid out of the bed when my husband comes. My side of the bed? I don't know. I will probably buy a new bed about a month before he comes.

Your comment caught my eye, Wacken.... just a thought... depending on the age of the child, you might want to make the change sooner, so s/he does not associate distance from Mom with the arrival of your husband.... might prevent some resentment that way....

Jen

[JVKn'CVO 11]

We like different sides of the bed

but it's not a left-right thing, it's that I like the side that's closest to the wall and he likes the one farest from it

But if we'd liked the same side, he'd better given it up for me!

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Good point, Jen

My sons would always end up in bed with me (with me usually ending up on the couch) when they stayed at my house. I talked to them in advance about my husband coming and that they would have to start sleeping in their own beds. They were fine with it. Of course my sons are 9 and 10 and really shouldn't be sleeping with their mom anyways.

I'll be kicking the kid out of the bed when my husband comes. My side of the bed? I don't know. I will probably buy a new bed about a month before he comes.

Your comment caught my eye, Wacken.... just a thought... depending on the age of the child, you might want to make the change sooner, so s/he does not associate distance from Mom with the arrival of your husband.... might prevent some resentment that way....

Jen