Marriage on tourist visa? Could US citizen be responsible/guilty? Marriage fraud.

[NikLR 13,231]

[justojai 53]

This story looks incomplete.... tell the whole story.

[aishabay 2]

Let's go back to the first step.

1- you support him to took his tourist visa, It wasnot marriage visa or k-1 visa ( may be you was not eligible for marriage support )

2-You married with him for money dinner + ....

3- you went with him to AOS interview and swear to be honest but you did not tell the true( you lied to USCIS )

4- Now. you are thinking or seeing he is cheating at you in face book or else

5- May be you want more money from him to be quiet till his 10 years green card comes. but he doesn't want give you more money.( If he says this words about money to USCIS or in court . you will be in problem.

6- Why did not you call the police when he force you to marry with him? You never was not alone or never hadn't time to call the police ?

were you in closet as a prison then you didnot call ?

your age doesn't matter. you are older than 18 in law eyes, you have responsibility about what you did,Then you know what are you doing and what you did.

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Result : After your report to USCIS or court with any documents you have ,

They will sent him to his country.

also you will be in hock because you had accompanied to have a fraud marriage.

Both of you %50 - 50 % are Guilty.

Also each of you will pay yours part in law.

No thats not true! I was used 100% for the green card. I loved him. I talked to a lawyer and he said that he is pretty sure that he is gonna get deported. How can you turn this on me? I was the victim here of marriage fraud. Yes I was stupid

[Boiler 45,837]

The least likely thing to happen is that he would get deported.

[aishabay 2]

stating what?

That I suffered emotional consequences such as depression and that I had to take antidepressants due to being used and his fraud...

[aishabay 2]

What's your end game? You want him deported?

You have to take a step back and look at things objectively. You say he manipulated you into marriage, adjusting his status, and divorce (instead of annulment), but you don't have strong proof of that. He has minimal proof that he entered the marriage in good faith. You already reported him to USCIS. Sure, deportation would make you feel better about being used, but it's not likely to happen.

Basically, what's done is done. His future immigration status in this country is no longer your business. You're on the hook for the I-864, but will probably never see any consequences of that. The best thing for you to at this point is try to pick up the pieces of your life and move on. Staying in contact with him, or following him on Facebook, or chasing updates to his immigration status is only going to keep you attached to something that has already ended, and the most likely outcome for him is probably not the one you want to see.

Does it really look like a real marriage if he cheated on me and left 2 months after getting conditional green card?

I am soo angry that he will get away with this..

You said there were " subtle" signs that he may be marrying you for a green card. Since when is blackmail subtle?

If you want an honest opinion, you planned along with him his coming here on a visitor visa marrying and adjusting status. You had just as much a part of it as he did. You were naive to believe he wanted anything more than a green card, and you still went along with the marriage and removal of conditions. You loved him, he didn't love you back and he was very upfront about what he wanted. At this point everything you say is here say as far as the blackmail goes. Proving that to USCIS will be an uphill battle.

He can remove conditions, but it will be years and years before he is allowe to bring his girlfriend from home here, if ever, there is a 5 year rule. You said you have proof he was engaged to her before your divorce was final, make sure you send that as evidence. If it's clear that he married you for the specific purpose of obtaining a green card just to bring her here, he will never be successful in bringing her.

Our of curiosity, what country is he from?

I did NOT remove conditions with him, he has to file for waiver on his own because we are divorced.

He is from Bosnia and Herzegovina.

I am sorry but I was a victim here, I loved him.

HUH?

Gullible--meaning is USCIS that naive and stupid to believe this fraudster?

[aishabay 2]

The least likely thing to happen is that he would get deported.

Good I hope so that will give me some closure..

[SingleDad2usc 71]

OP, you are not alone. 50% (in this "Effects of Major Family Changes") post that spouse committed marriage fraud *as applied to the petitioner's USCIS case. But to begin with: what's bona-fide about marrying a foreigner who doesn't really love you and petitioning to USCIS together (as the half of "bona-fide marriage")? Seems an entrapment of a more attractive foreigner into a marriage-based application, only because you're a USC and you can. Of course the USC in all these cases loved the Petitioner; but has the Petitioner loved the USC (to the extent that called) for marriage till death do us apart?

[Boiler 45,837]

That I suffered emotional consequences such as depression and that I had to take antidepressants due to being used and his fraud...

Your Psychologist met your ex?

[aishabay 2]

The least likely thing to happen is that he would get deported.

I hope so, are you sure or is it very likely that he will?

[aishabay 2]

Your Psychologist met your ex?

[SingleDad2usc 71]

OP, you'll be granted your wish as soon as you figure your wish out.

worth noting: 95% of these marriages are childless; but yours was even sexless... or did the hero perform long enough to get GC?

I hope so, are you sure or is it very likely that he will?

[novedsac 355]

I am soo angry that he will get away with this..

Ah, this is the base of it all - you're pissed off because he used you and you let it happen. He got what he wanted and you did not. You want vengeance and to see him punished, hurt and suffer like you feel you are now.

It's all very reasonable - but you need to get over it, really. You're divorced. What he does is none of your business. What may or may not happen to him as a result of possible fraudulent activity prior to and while you were married is none of your business.

Stewing resentment and scheming revenge are a terrible waste of your time and energy.

Accept what happened. Accept that with the divorce its over and he's out of your life.

Get out and live a little … spend time with your family and friends … take a vacation and do something you always wanted to do, perhaps a bit crazy … whatever you need to do to get on with your life and find happier days ahead. Therapy may help too.

[aishabay 2]

[novedsac 355]

I hope so, are you sure or is it very likely that he will?

I think the poster meant that deportation is very unlikely to happen (i.e., no deportation).

The evidence you listed in an earlier post is, for the most part, circumstantial at best and not easily corroborated. It comes across as the rantings of a pissed-off ex-spouse with an axe to grind and, from some of your other statements, this isn't too far from the truth.