Embassy calls again for for the second time for proof of relationship

[SparklePony 238]

I'm confused, is the beneficiary from Norway, or from Cameroon? I can't imagine Norway being this fussy.

Ha, I wasn't going insane by thinking I had somehow read the same issue from Norway.

OP, it would not surprise me that they ask for money receipts as a way of tracking if there's a potential visa buying issue at hand. You need to remember that in some countries, the possibility of fraud is very real and they do what they can at the Embassy to try to ascertain if that is the case or not. That is what you are now dealing with. They are trying to see, from the evidence at hand, if yours is a genuine and loving relationship.

You need to look at what you've submitted with emotional distance and see if it proves that or not, then figure out together, what you can do to prove that you have a bona fide relationship. It's not just quantity, but quality. Have you fought and made up in chat/IM/ whathave you, for example? That's what real couples do, not just have only lovey dovey stuff. This is only an example, but it's the sort of thing you might want to think about when choosing what to show.

[OuVisaJourney2012 4]

Bribe? LOL Did i mention anything about bribe?

Oh, so sorry...i missread "bride" as "bribe".

My bad...maybe i was reading with that word in my head so when i saw "bride", my head made it look "bribe"...lol.

[OuVisaJourney2012 4]

You need to remember that in some countries, the possibility of fraud is very real and they do what they can at the Embassy to try to ascertain if that is the case or not.

I agree with you but we are seriosly in love and want to spen our lives together. we have lots of things to accomplish together but they got our lives noe on hold.

That is what you are now dealing with. They are trying to see, from the evidence at hand, if yours is a genuine and loving relationship.

It's not just quantity, but quality.

I understand that. I have given them both quantity and quality

Have you fought and made up in chat/IM/ whathave you, for example? That's what real couples do, not just have only lovey dovey stuff.

I thought they say don't submit conversations where you argue and go upset?now you on my side. my fiance was on my neck about me haven taken conversations where we've argued and fought and made up.

[Mark88 184]

Ha, I wasn't going insane by thinking I had somehow read the same issue from Norway.

Yeah, it was Norway before. The location has changed.

[SparklePony 238]

The tricky thing about being in love is that people can't read your mind. The Embassy folks don't seem to believe it's real. You can say it all you want, it won't make them believe it any less. You need to find proof of those claims.

Remember though, that there have been cases of couples getting a K1 denied for not proving a bona fide marriage and then got married, filed a CR-1 and successfully obtained a spousal visa.

[OuVisaJourney2012 4]

The tricky thing about being in love is that people can't read your mind. The Embassy folks don't seem to believe it's real. You can say it all you want, it won't make them believe it any less. You need to find proof of those claims.

Remember though, that there have been cases of couples getting a K1 denied for not proving a bona fide marriage and then got married, filed a CR-1 and successfully obtained a spousal visa.

I assume you've read my very first post i ever made about this and the second post i just made today about this.

thats being said...what do i do now ???

[ean 10]

It might be the age gap since it is one of the most common incidences? What are the other red flags do you see that may hinder them from seeing you have a bonafide relationship?

[TBoneTX 45,663]

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