'Forced' to marry

[brnidokiegurl 0]

wow sorry (or not) missed all of this, let me take about a hour and read up then I will maybe have an opinion about wether i would get married if immigration were not involved, personally i think had he lived here close by would just be living together in sin.

[KarenCee 3]

wow sorry (or not) missed all of this, let me take about a hour and read up then I will maybe have an opinion about wether i would get married if immigration were not involved, personally i think had he lived here close by would just be living together in sin.

Careful dear....szsz can SMELL your fear!!!!!!

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

wow sorry (or not) missed all of this, let me take about a hour and read up then I will maybe have an opinion about wether i would get married if immigration were not involved, personally i think had he lived here close by would just be living together in sin.

is that what this thread was about? i only read the last 5 pages or so

my answer: yes, we would have gotten married regardless of immigration. don't believe in living in sin.

[Fandango 1,440]

wow sorry (or not) missed all of this, let me take about a hour and read up then I will maybe have an opinion about wether i would get married if immigration were not involved, personally i think had he lived here close by would just be living together in sin.

is that what this thread was about? i only read the last 5 pages or so

my answer: yes, we would have gotten married regardless of immigration. don't believe in living in sin.

no, this thread turned into the notion that if you don't believe in marriage you are afraid of commitment. Even if you are married or are getting married and sponsoring your immigrant fiance(e). Even though you do everything but bend over for Uncle Sam's inspection and you financially vouch for that person for God knows how long....according to some, you're commitment-phobic.

Dave and I would have still gotten married as well, but we would have lived together first all the same even if he was a USC.

[brnidokiegurl 0]

not real sure, im at work so quickly went back to first comment and read real fast thinking that was it, maybe not. No fear, I dont have problem with szsz or anyone else

[Sofiyya 1,687]

wow sorry (or not) missed all of this, let me take about a hour and read up then I will maybe have an opinion about wether i would get married if immigration were not involved, personally i think had he lived here close by would just be living together in sin.

Careful dear....szsz can SMELL your fear!!!!!!

Must be your armpits. I am fearless.

wow sorry (or not) missed all of this, let me take about a hour and read up then I will maybe have an opinion about wether i would get married if immigration were not involved, personally i think had he lived here close by would just be living together in sin.

is that what this thread was about? i only read the last 5 pages or so

my answer: yes, we would have gotten married regardless of immigration. don't believe in living in sin.

Bad Gupt! Bad, bad!!

[brnidokiegurl 0]

umm showered and used the roll on so dont think so, and all the times I've stood with you on the Older Women issues and now your trying to scare me

[Sofiyya 1,687]

wow sorry (or not) missed all of this, let me take about a hour and read up then I will maybe have an opinion about wether i would get married if immigration were not involved, personally i think had he lived here close by would just be living together in sin.

is that what this thread was about? i only read the last 5 pages or so

my answer: yes, we would have gotten married regardless of immigration. don't believe in living in sin.

no, this thread turned into the notion that if you don't believe in marriage you are afraid of commitment. Even if you are married or are getting married and sponsoring your immigrant fiance(e). Even though you do everything but bend over for Uncle Sam's inspection and you financially vouch for that person for God knows how long....according to some, you're commitment-phobic.

Dave and I would have still gotten married as well, but we would have lived together first all the same even if he was a USC.

This is Lisa's summary of what happened here. Mine is that I dared to state that an adversity to marriage indicates a lesser commitment on that person's part. Doing so has made me a mockery for the rabids here. One is not allowed to have an opinion that disagrees with the hedonists among us or they will be subjected to character assasination not t mention some very silly analogies.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

wow sorry (or not) missed all of this, let me take about a hour and read up then I will maybe have an opinion about wether i would get married if immigration were not involved, personally i think had he lived here close by would just be living together in sin.

is that what this thread was about? i only read the last 5 pages or so

my answer: yes, we would have gotten married regardless of immigration. don't believe in living in sin.

no, this thread turned into the notion that if you don't believe in marriage you are afraid of commitment. Even if you are married or are getting married and sponsoring your immigrant fiance(e). Even though you do everything but bend over for Uncle Sam's inspection and you financially vouch for that person for God knows how long....according to some, you're commitment-phobic.

Dave and I would have still gotten married as well, but we would have lived together first all the same even if he was a USC.

This is Lisa's summary of what happened here. Mine is that I dared to state that an adversity to marriage indicates a lesser commitment on that person's part. Doing so has made me a mockery for the rabids here. One is not allowed to have an opinion that disagrees with the hedonists among us or they will be subjected to character assasination not t mention some very silly analogies.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

wow sorry (or not) missed all of this, let me take about a hour and read up then I will maybe have an opinion about wether i would get married if immigration were not involved, personally i think had he lived here close by would just be living together in sin.

is that what this thread was about? i only read the last 5 pages or so

my answer: yes, we would have gotten married regardless of immigration. don't believe in living in sin.

no, this thread turned into the notion that if you don't believe in marriage you are afraid of commitment. Even if you are married or are getting married and sponsoring your immigrant fiance(e). Even though you do everything but bend over for Uncle Sam's inspection and you financially vouch for that person for God knows how long....according to some, you're commitment-phobic.

Dave and I would have still gotten married as well, but we would have lived together first all the same even if he was a USC.

This is Lisa's summary of what happened here. Mine is that I dared to state that an adversity to marriage indicates a lesser commitment on that person's part. Doing so has made me a mockery for the rabids here. One is not allowed to have an opinion that disagrees with the hedonists among us or they will be subjected to character assasination not t mention some very silly analogies.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

Strange hiccups.

umm showered and used the roll on so dont think so, and all the times I've stood with you on the Older Women issues and now your trying to scare me

That was for Karen, not you, sis.

[Ban Hammer 13,656]

triple post.....and when i first saw it i was thinking dang szsz can type fast

[Jenn! 918]

I haven't seen any "adversity" to marriage. Much like I didn't see any negative attitudes or balking either.

Guess it's a matter of perspective.

[brnidokiegurl 0]

My meaning was, yes we would still get married but when we get ready, not given the timelines of 90 days or else. Still might have lived together six months, a year, who knows but being our choice. Again no set right or wrong issue, everyones not going to agree, to each their own opinion.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

I haven't seen any "adversity" to marriage. Much like I didn't see any negative attitudes or balking either.

Guess it's a matter of perspective.

Perspectives do play a role. If there was no objection to marriage, this thread wouldn't have raised the ire it has.