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Normally I do, but I can't work in the US yet . :crying:

Well, I assume that your husband works as he is the USC and you are the immigrant. So, don't you think it is a little selfish to expect your husband who works all day (or night) to come home AND then do all the housework?

He doesn't work weekends, he could do it then. :)

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This i really do not understand. A husband works all week and you ant him to do housework o the weekend? You do not work so what do you do all week while he is at work? I certainly beleive that marrige is a parnership and i have always tried to do my part but i alway rquire a litte cooperation from the other party. Otherwise he may get the feeling he s being used.

I think (hope) she was kidding.

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Normally I do, but I can't work in the US yet . :crying:

Well, I assume that your husband works as he is the USC and you are the immigrant. So, don't you think it is a little selfish to expect your husband who works all day (or night) to come home AND then do all the housework?

He doesn't work weekends, he could do it then. :)

Maybe when you get a job you guys could afford a maid.

I'd like to have someone come in once a week when we can afford it.

:o Have you read Nickeld and Dimed?

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Normally I do, but I can't work in the US yet . :crying:

Well, I assume that your husband works as he is the USC and you are the immigrant. So, don't you think it is a little selfish to expect your husband who works all day (or night) to come home AND then do all the housework?

He doesn't work weekends, he could do it then. :)

Maybe when you get a job you guys could afford a maid.

I'd like to have someone come in once a week when we can afford it.

:o Have you read Nickeld and Dimed?

Uh oh. No, why?

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Normally I do, but I can't work in the US yet . :crying:

Well, I assume that your husband works as he is the USC and you are the immigrant. So, don't you think it is a little selfish to expect your husband who works all day (or night) to come home AND then do all the housework?

He doesn't work weekends, he could do it then. :)

Maybe when you get a job you guys could afford a maid.

I'd like to have someone come in once a week when we can afford it.

:o Have you read Nickeld and Dimed?

Uh oh. No, why?

You won;t want to have those maid service companies comping to clean your house. :no:

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24 March 2009 I-751 received by USCIS

27 March 2009 Check Cashed

30 March 2009 NOA received

8 April 2009 Biometric notice arrived by mail

24 April 2009 Biometrics scheduled

26 April 2009 Touched

...once again waiting

1 September 2009 (just over 5 months) Approved and card production ordered.

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The only thing i want him to change are the smell of his farts :P

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YOU CANT CHANGE THE PAST BUT YOU CAN RUIN THE PRESENT BY WORRYING OVER THE FUTURE

TRIP.... OVER LOVE, AND YOU CAN GET UP

FALL.... IN LOVE, AND YOU FALL FOREVER

I DO HAVE THE RIGHT TO REMAIN SILENT, JUST NOT THE ABILITY

LIKE THE MEASLES, LOVE IS MOST DANGEROUS WHEN IT COMES LATER IN LIFE

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Here are some things I hope change in my husband in the New Year:

1) Get him to do all the housework (and to MY standard)

2) Train him to leave me alone when i don't want sex

3) Put his paycheck in my bank account and I'll give him an allowence

4) Start taking his shoes off before he walks on the carpet

What are yours?

You sound like my EX Wife, and I emphasize the word EX

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Here are some things I hope change in my husband in the New Year:

1) Get him to do all the housework (and to MY standard)

2) Train him to leave me alone when i don't want sex

3) Put his paycheck in my bank account and I'll give him an allowence

4) Start taking his shoes off before he walks on the carpet

What are yours?

You sound like my EX Wife, and I emphasize the word EX

Yeah, the taking off the shoes bit is WAY over the line.

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Normally I do, but I can't work in the US yet . :crying:

Well, I assume that your husband works as he is the USC and you are the immigrant. So, don't you think it is a little selfish to expect your husband who works all day (or night) to come home AND then do all the housework?

He doesn't work weekends, he could do it then. :)

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This i really do not understand. A husband works all week and you ant him to do housework o the weekend? You do not work so what do you do all week while he is at work? I certainly beleive that marrige is a parnership and i have always tried to do my part but i alway rquire a litte cooperation from the other party. Otherwise he may get the feeling he s being used.

I think (hope) she was kidding.

I thought she was too... :yes:

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Do you have control issues?

Sounds like it to me.

Its either your way or the highway.

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Let's just hope she was exhibiting a bit of odd humour here....at least I hope so.

There isn't anything I'd want to change about my spouse. I'm not saying either of us are perfect, but we're happy with how things are. :D

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Let's just hope she was exhibiting a bit of odd humour here....at least I hope so.

Yes, I'm pretty sure that all of Jane's topics are tongue in cheek. She just won't admit to it! :lol:

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even in jest, it's kinda crappy....and what's with the 'train my husband' nonsense?

Get a poodle, jane :lol:

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