What do you want to change about your spouse in the New Year

[Killer_Clown_2009 0]

Here are some things I hope change in my husband in the New Year:

1) Get him to do all the housework (and to MY standard)

2) Train him to leave me alone when i don't want sex

3) Put his paycheck in my bank account and I'll give him an allowence

4) Start taking his shoes off before he walks on the carpet

What are yours?

Edited December 31, 2006 by jane2005

[PlatyPius 5]

I don't want to change anything.

[rob&ana 0]

I don't want to change anything.

I second that... why would you want to change the person you fell in love with?

[Itsmeitsmeitsree! 0]

I think it's probably a little naive to say that you don't want to change some things about your s.o. Well, maybe not exactly "wish to change"....I dunno, maybe wish some things were different. Splitting hairs I reckon.

Edited December 31, 2006 by Itsmeitsmeitsree!

[Killer_Clown_2009 0]

I don't want to change anything.

I second that... why would you want to change the person you fell in love with?

Because I don't like to do housework and would like him to do it all.

[mybackpages 0]

I want to change his place of residence. (Consulate interview in 2 weeks! )

[brnidokiegurl 0]

awww u stole my answer, change location

[Mags 112]

Do you work, Jane?

[Killer_Clown_2009 0]

Normally I do, but I can't work in the US yet .

[Mags 112]

Normally I do, but I can't work in the US yet .

Well, I assume that your husband works as he is the USC and you are the immigrant. So, don't you think it is a little selfish to expect your husband who works all day (or night) to come home AND then do all the housework?

[TracyTN 237]

Only thing I want to change about him is his physical address - from the UK to the USA.

Good thing he wants to change that, too.

[Killer_Clown_2009 0]

Normally I do, but I can't work in the US yet .

Well, I assume that your husband works as he is the USC and you are the immigrant. So, don't you think it is a little selfish to expect your husband who works all day (or night) to come home AND then do all the housework?

He doesn't work weekends, he could do it then.

[Jenn! 918]

Normally I do, but I can't work in the US yet .

Well, I assume that your husband works as he is the USC and you are the immigrant. So, don't you think it is a little selfish to expect your husband who works all day (or night) to come home AND then do all the housework?

He doesn't work weekends, he could do it then.

Maybe when you get a job you guys could afford a maid.

I'd like to have someone come in once a week when we can afford it.

[edsperfect 25]

I don't want to change anything.

I second that... why would you want to change the person you fell in love with?

Because I don't like to do housework and would like him to do it all.

Then hire a damn cleaning lady.

[edsperfect 25]

Normally I do, but I can't work in the US yet .

Well, I assume that your husband works as he is the USC and you are the immigrant. So, don't you think it is a little selfish to expect your husband who works all day (or night) to come home AND then do all the housework?

He doesn't work weekends, he could do it then.

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This i really do not understand. A husband works all week and you ant him to do housework o the weekend? You do not work so what do you do all week while he is at work? I certainly beleive that marrige is a parnership and i have always tried to do my part but i alway rquire a litte cooperation from the other party. Otherwise he may get the feeling he s being used.